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By *ash69 OP Man
over a year ago
Swiss Cottage |
Evening/early morning hope all our well so my problem unfortunately is I’m having no luck in this scene and would just like some advice as I feel I have a lot to offer I’m highly sexed and always wanting to please a lady I feel my profile is good and I have a good verity of photos but yet I’m still stuck so any advice would be very much appreciated. I understand the difficulties for single men on this platform so I will keep smiling as I no my time is cumming all you lucky fabbers out there keep be amazing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dude, right time of year to return!
Get yourself to some Socials, get your face seen and be yourself... Then get to some Clubs, even if you don't play, still more will see you.. Then you'll grab some Veris and have started chatting to potential meet people.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I most definitely am I just check my profile the green flag is there  "
Your photo verified.
It's the green tick and verified by meet that helps take the last blokes advice |
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You want to meet regularly and be apart of the swinging scene.
All guys take note!!!
Good profile with character and range of photographs.
Networking through online forum posting and chat rooms.
Networking through physical social events and clubs.
You build up a network of swinging friends. You become part of the scene. You gain respect. You get invites to more personal get togethers..
That's the Chicago way... sorry wrong film reference...
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Maybe move your dick pics to friends only so people want to know what’s in your other photos and you haven’t shown your winning hand immediately?
Also the reference to the older the better is a bit weird IMO. Happy fabbing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably helps to take off the 420 in your name. I smoke bud myself but i dont make it a part of my identity on the site. A lot of ppl get turned off from that. It sucks but thats just the way it is... doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doooo... ill see myself out 
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"Probably helps to take off the 420 in your name. I smoke bud myself but i dont make it a part of my identity on the site. A lot of ppl get turned off from that. It sucks but thats just the way it is... doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doooo... ill see myself out
(I hope to god you get that reference)"
I actually like that he is honest with the 420 some people on here don't mind it and some hate it but to hide it or lie about it so you MAY get more attention is wrong and the truth always comes out in the end... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably helps to take off the 420 in your name. I smoke bud myself but i dont make it a part of my identity on the site. A lot of ppl get turned off from that. It sucks but thats just the way it is... doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doooo... ill see myself out
(I hope to god you get that reference)
I actually like that he is honest with the 420 some people on here don't mind it and some hate it but to hide it or lie about it so you MAY get more attention is wrong and the truth always comes out in the end... "
Oh of course ppl shouldnt lie about it, though i wouldnt say not saying that you smoke bud is hiding it, to me i think "hi my name is ____, im an experienced swinger, i love bondage and i smoke " is just plain weird. If someone asks then ppl shouldnt be afraid to say that they do smoke . But nobody has written on their profile "i drink vodka like its water", so i dont see why ppl should need to state it in their profile. Its acceptable to say youre 420 friendly i guess. I just feel that stating it in your profile just makes it a part of your identity towards ppl whether they like it or not |
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"Probably helps to take off the 420 in your name. I smoke bud myself but i dont make it a part of my identity on the site. A lot of ppl get turned off from that. It sucks but thats just the way it is... doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doooo... ill see myself out
(I hope to god you get that reference)
I actually like that he is honest with the 420 some people on here don't mind it and some hate it but to hide it or lie about it so you MAY get more attention is wrong and the truth always comes out in the end...
Oh of course ppl shouldnt lie about it, though i wouldnt say not saying that you smoke bud is hiding it, to me i think "hi my name is ____, im an experienced swinger, i love bondage and i smoke " is just plain weird. If someone asks then ppl shouldnt be afraid to say that they do smoke . But nobody has written on their profile "i drink vodka like its water", so i dont see why ppl should need to state it in their profile. Its acceptable to say youre 420 friendly i guess. I just feel that stating it in your profile just makes it a part of your identity towards ppl whether they like it or not"
That wasn't what i was on about he put hes 420 the other guy was basically saying remove it that's why your having no luck ... x |
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By *ash69 OP Man
over a year ago
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Thank you for all the advice guys n lady’s I really appreciate it so thank you n for the 420 in my name I have been thinking about taking it off as like u said is something I’m not afraid to be honest about just maybe it doesn’t need to be the first thing they see lol idk let’s just hope I get that meet soon lol happy fabbing lady’s n gents xxxx |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Probably helps to take off the 420 in your name. I smoke bud myself but i dont make it a part of my identity on the site. A lot of ppl get turned off from that. It sucks but thats just the way it is... doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doo doo-doo-doooo... ill see myself out
(I hope to god you get that reference)"
I like it that people are honest about 420. It means I know which people to avoid. No offence |
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I agree with the 420 being in your name is a turn off. It suggests that it's part of your identity. Maybe add it to your profile if require it to be part of a meet, but be prepared that a lot of people will be turned off by it.
Also make sure that the background of the photos taken in what seems like your home and clean and tidy. Again it adds to peoples overall impression, and when they are touching you by your profile (which is all they have to judge you on) its quite important.
If you're just going to sit back and wait for people to send offers you're probably waiting a long time. Like others have suggested you need to get out to social and get your face on the scene. Search the events page and see what's happening locally. |
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By *ash69 OP Man
over a year ago
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So I think we all agree 420 should come out my name x u are all truly amazing Smoothgroove u the best hope you guys are all having an amazing Wednesday also back in the middle of the week I hate it lol |
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Unfortunately, your profile text is muddled and manic, as are your exchanges in the forum.
People are going to think that is how you are in reality.
What was the point of your rant about Wednesdays, for instance?
It is improving slowly but has still some way to go.
I notice the bit about being highly sexed has gone. it set the mind wondering how you dealt with that if you weren't meeting anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately, your profile text is muddled and manic, as are your exchanges in the forum.
People are going to think that is how you are in reality.
What was the point of your rant about Wednesdays, for instance?
It is improving slowly but has still some way to go.
I notice the bit about being highly sexed has gone. it set the mind wondering how you dealt with that if you weren't meeting anyone!"
What on earth are you talking about??? What’s muddled? What’s rant? He was simply implying at its a Wednesday which Is indeed in the middle of the week which means today plus 2 more days until the weekend! I personally don’t like Mondays.
What was your reference about in your profile re the breed of bird?? That makes no sense, this guys does.
I Gunn it’s you that is confused mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately, your profile text is muddled and manic, as are your exchanges in the forum.
People are going to think that is how you are in reality.
What was the point of your rant about Wednesdays, for instance?
It is improving slowly but has still some way to go.
I notice the bit about being highly sexed has gone. it set the mind wondering how you dealt with that if you weren't meeting anyone!"
WTF…. You noticed the bit about being highly sexed has gone and ask how he dealt with it…..he took a paracetamol that’s how, how do you think he dealt with it.
How do we all deal with being highly sexed / turned on if sex isn’t an option, I masturbate, it’s PERFECTLY NORMAL |
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WTF…. You noticed the bit about being highly sexed has gone and ask how he dealt with it…..he took a paracetamol that’s how, how do you think he dealt with it.
How do we all deal with being highly sexed / turned on if sex isn’t an option, I masturbate, it’s PERFECTLY NORMAL "
Blimey! I wasn't expecting a tirade over whether or how seriously he might have resorted to wanking.
I got it slightly wrong, however, the bit about being highly sexed was not in his profile and removed but is still there in the initial post.
I was merely curious as to how someone describing himself as highly sexed yet not meeting anyone via here might have strategies for getting some action.
I was going to suggest a trip down the road to Rio's and trying his luck there or else looking up local good time girls and maybe having to dip in his pocket to keep one or more of them and himself happy. Lots of men do! |
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