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Should I delete my profile and start again?
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Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Feedback..
A decent selection of photos, it would be good to have a photo of you smiling.
Age range. Would you really meet someone in their 90s ?
Write up.. it doesn't read quite right. Something about always presented ??? Maybe alter that bit.
Overall not a bad profile though. |
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"Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?
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You have no verifications to lose so why start again!?
Just update your profile and add some appealing pics and see how it goes from there   |
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Your profile is ok OP, it’s open and friendly. No negative feedback.
If you were to start again what would you like to change? If I were you I’d just stick with this profile and change anything you’d do differently next time.
Your communication style is key really. How you’re approaching people and how you chat is the key to success here. We can’t see any of that from your profile, but if you’re struggling then maybe that’s the issue. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Op
Your profile is good even the pictures you have given some details within your bio which you enjoy which others could find interesting with having similar interests so add more pictures occasionally adding a little kink and also engaging with the forum can also strike up a connection
Good luck pal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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many do start again to erase the fact they met no one so looks like theyve just started ...but it makes no sense if youve met no one and having no luck then it would be the same as people wont want to know for the same reasons,
i avoid guys on here who cant think for themselve with a basic profile asking for advice turns your profile stale like all the others that have asked come on op only you know you and what your looking for ...nobody else does |
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We've had almost 2 years of Covid, so it's stopped possibilities for much of your time here.
The focus is on investing the effort that provides the biggest likelihood of others finding and seeing what they'd like to of you, in order to assess you suitably. A new profile is harder work.
Show your physique - people would have to get close to it.
Sell yourself more than what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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7 March, 11 June and the cute bum one are really great pics.
I'd choose those three as enough for public viewing.
I think you have lovely lips/mouth and eyes....
Not sure why you can't change your name if you want to - you are a site supporter....
If you aren't happy with your profile write up. Have another think, maybe look at some of the popular guys and it'll give you some idea. Obviously not copy, but just see how there's is wrote....
I think you are a good looking guy...
Just have a rethink about presentation, that's all...
Take care x |
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"Tinder.... Plenty of Fish.... Badoo.... Maybe you're in the wrong dreamland?!!... Bit harsh?... But bit true!!!"
Bang on. op this is what single guys should read before joining. Poorly written spelling mistakes and rambling it's what I put on a similar post. I navigate the site in spite of these things to make it worth my while, if you cant rejoin tinder if already not on it.
When joining this site it should be obvious, as it was to me the following
1. Worst, most convoluted, shambles, un-user friendly platform ive ever seen.
2 Single straight male, bi not so much, are sending out messages daily like it pof.com. the law of averages doesn't work here
3 you will be blocked sometimes even if the banter was great, it's not personal get over it.
2. site is geared towards swingers. It has lots of other functions but you will feel like an unwanted guest at a private sauna party sometimes, accept
it
In order of rank, with most important first this is the pecking order of fab.com
Couples (every combination)
Women (single or otherwise)
Site admin (see above)
The reception dude that answers the phone when you call fab.com HQ
The lady that goes around fab.com HQ delivering sandwiches and tea and biscuits.
Single bi men
Dave who works nighttime security at fab.com HQ
The guy that come to empty the tampon bin and restock the tampon machine in all the ladies toilets at fab.com HQ
Then....its Single males, even thoug there's shedloads. Single guys need to focus on this.....Fab.com is a place where you can pretty much say what you want and be specific over every aspect regardless of your livng arrangements, location, sexual orientation and so on and not be judged, and have it but messaging like it's tinder and throwing toys out of pram is piss poor and comes across desperate and good luck finding desperate as a females kink
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tinder.... Plenty of Fish.... Badoo.... Maybe you're in the wrong dreamland?!!... Bit harsh?... But bit true!!!
Bang on. op this is what single guys should read before joining. Poorly written spelling mistakes and rambling it's what I put on a similar post. I navigate the site in spite of these things to make it worth my while, if you cant rejoin tinder if already not on it.
When joining this site it should be obvious, as it was to me the following
1. Worst, most convoluted, shambles, un-user friendly platform ive ever seen.
2 Single straight male, bi not so much, are sending out messages daily like it pof.com. the law of averages doesn't work here
3 you will be blocked sometimes even if the banter was great, it's not personal get over it.
2. site is geared towards swingers. It has lots of other functions but you will feel like an unwanted guest at a private sauna party sometimes, accept
it
In order of rank, with most important first this is the pecking order of fab.com
Couples (every combination)
Women (single or otherwise)
Site admin (see above)
The reception dude that answers the phone when you call fab.com HQ
The lady that goes around fab.com HQ delivering sandwiches and tea and biscuits.
Single bi men
Dave who works nighttime security at fab.com HQ
The guy that come to empty the tampon bin and restock the tampon machine in all the ladies toilets at fab.com HQ
Then....its Single males, even thoug there's shedloads. Single guys need to focus on this.....Fab.com is a place where you can pretty much say what you want and be specific over every aspect regardless of your livng arrangements, location, sexual orientation and so on and not be judged, and have it but messaging like it's tinder and throwing toys out of pram is piss poor and comes across desperate and good luck finding desperate as a females kink
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?
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Keep it. Add a line to say you joined at the start of covid and that's why you haven't met anyone yet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive
And they prefer men to boys"
Yep
Other than that, it’s a reasonable profile. |
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"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive
And they prefer men to boys
Yep
Other than that, it’s a reasonable profile. "
Just join pof.com where copy and paste messages, sending as many as you physical can without reading profiles and law of averages on there will mean you will get lucky in whatever your looking for. |
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"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive
And they prefer men to boys
OP is 30 so hardly a boy ? "
Im hoping he's sent from a rival website, to start a failure chain in fab.com cause a massive rift between single straight men and the others, they feel oppressed by lack of success on here and marginalised and the constant whining drives the swingers etc to another site that doesn't allow single men. All that's left in fab.com is men, gets taken over by grindr who saw opportunity in one fell swoop to get huge number of paying members..and once the fab.com single straight guys realise they can have sex (albeit not with women) by simply sending a message that says 'I want to fuck' the approach they adopted on fab.com |
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"Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?
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Nice profile - explain why you can’t accommodate and what your alternative hosting arrangements are |
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There seems little point in opening a new profile when you can just change the one you already have OP. Seriously, what do you think you can write on a new profile that you can't write on this one?
From a personal perspective, if we notic local guys closing and opening profiles we tend to think they are just here for the thrill of the chase and are not serious about meeting. This may not be the case of course, but some people open a new profile every few days and never seem to get anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive
And they prefer men to boys
OP is 30 so hardly a boy ? "
His profile name says he’s a shy boy.
It’s all there if you read it  |
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I don't know how you approach people, but if it is along the lines of "hey" "how are you?" Or wanna fuck, you can pretty much guarantee no success.
Read profiles and see if people are looking for someone like you and if they are, wink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?
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I’m curious why do you think the outcome would be any different !
Change your name new pics and see how that goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive
And they prefer men to boys
OP is 30 so hardly a boy ?
Im hoping he's sent from a rival website, to start a failure chain in fab.com cause a massive rift between single straight men and the others, they feel oppressed by lack of success on here and marginalised and the constant whining drives the swingers etc to another site that doesn't allow single men. All that's left in fab.com is men, gets taken over by grindr who saw opportunity in one fell swoop to get huge number of paying members..and once the fab.com single straight guys realise they can have sex (albeit not with women) by simply sending a message that says 'I want to fuck' the approach they adopted on fab.com "
There you go again, with that vivid imagination  you must be into role play |
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"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive
And they prefer men to boys
OP is 30 so hardly a boy ?
Im hoping he's sent from a rival website, to start a failure chain in fab.com cause a massive rift between single straight men and the others, they feel oppressed by lack of success on here and marginalised and the constant whining drives the swingers etc to another site that doesn't allow single men. All that's left in fab.com is men, gets taken over by grindr who saw opportunity in one fell swoop to get huge number of paying members..and once the fab.com single straight guys realise they can have sex (albeit not with women) by simply sending a message that says 'I want to fuck' the approach they adopted on fab.com
There you go again, with that vivid imagination you must be into role play "
Ha the opposite, I'm not good at role play, a horror show |
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