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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey there i have a little problem... im in relationship for over 10yrs... our vanilla sex gets so bored that i cannot cum...wanking no problem but when it comes to sex with her i cannot cum... anyone know what can cause this problem?  |
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Maybe ask her to mix it up a bit, she might surprise you. If your mind isn’t turned on then the physical sensations just won’t be enough. If she won’t, just think about the bad stuff that does it for you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe ask her to mix it up a bit, she might surprise you. If your mind isn’t turned on then the physical sensations just won’t be enough. If she won’t, just think about the bad stuff that does it for you "
Already had this conversation... big no no frm her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From the sounds of it she prefers plain vanilla.
Have you both had a chat?
Other things to try - Mix it up a little
Going underwear shopping, get a toy together
Night away
Date nights and compliments back and forth.
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From the sounds of it she prefers plain vanilla.
Have you both had a chat?
Other things to try - Mix it up a little
Going underwear shopping, get a toy together
Night away
Date nights and compliments back and forth.
Good luck
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Yeah she is plain vanilla just had a chat with her about swinging its a big no no... we agreed for a toys but we dont know what should be our first pick |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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Anything else changed? New medication? Weight gain (you)? Undiagnosed diabetes? Mental health issues?
There's a lot of things that can cause issues with being able to cum and boring sex is just one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anything else changed? New medication? Weight gain (you)? Undiagnosed diabetes? Mental health issues?
There's a lot of things that can cause issues with being able to cum and boring sex is just one of them."
Not really no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you're suffering from death grip syndrome? How often are you wanking?
Maybe try no self loving for a few days and concentrate on foreplay together. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe you're suffering from death grip syndrome? How often are you wanking?
Maybe try no self loving for a few days and concentrate on foreplay together."
Thats also maybe i case i stopped wanking from monday we'll see. Hope it will help |
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Maintaining a healthy sex life in a relationship isn't easy but both of you have to be invested in keeping it healthy or it just won't work. Toys is a great place to start. Maybe look at some toy websites together and choose something as a couple? |
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"Hey there i have a little problem... im in relationship for over 10yrs... our vanilla sex gets so bored that i cannot cum...wanking no problem but when it comes to sex with her i cannot cum... anyone know what can cause this problem? "
Guilt? |
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