everyone's different in what they like but for me I'd say try writing in full English rather than text speak. As for content I like it when a guy starts of by saying who they are and asking if we'll check their profile, a nice comment on someones pictures helps too. It's also a good idea to read through their profile and try and tailor your message to what that says.
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that's ok. I also notice that you have nothing at all in your profile, maybe write a little bit about yourself, doesn't have to be an essay just who you are, what you like that sort of thing. And you're right.... what will be will be
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The only thing on your profile is a (meaningless) warning. How is someone supposed to know if there will be anything in common with you? Your profile is there to tell everyone about you, your likes & dislikes. It's how you sell yourself.
Currrently, if I received a message from you, I would just delete regardless of what you looked like as there is nothing giving me any clue about what you are like as a person.
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That hot woman you messaged was probably a man. As said before your profile consists of that meaningless legal warning, get rid of that then put on something about you and what your looking for. Keep it positive, nothing worse than a profile that starts negatively. If you message someone make sure you fit their requirements, ie, single man, age etc and show in the message that you've read their profile, good luck |
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"cheers im on it so far i had arranged 2 meet a stunning girl from my area we had sent bout 50 messages to each other then the next day she deleted her profile lol jst my luck!!"
Hmmmm..... that says 'fake' to me..... 
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"just changed my profile cheers for advice folks  "
With respect (!!), I think you need to have a look at profiles from guys in your age group and see what others do... I can imagine the comments you are going to get from the regular forum ladies on your profile....
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I would say that you have showed in this thread that you have a sense of humour and can interact with people without getting stroppy so why not say that you have a sense of humour and are easy to get along with in your profile. |
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"just changed my profile cheers for advice folks
With respect (!!), I think you need to have a look at profiles from guys in your age group and see what others do... I can imagine the comments you are going to get from the regular forum ladies on your profile....
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Plus, get rid of text speak in your profile |
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" I would say that you have showed in this thread that you have a sense of humour and can interact with people without getting stroppy so why not say that you have a sense of humour and are easy to get along with in your profile."
+1 to that - humour and being slightly self-effacing always got me meets when I was on the scene as a single guy.
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"just changed my profile cheers for advice folks
With respect (!!), I think you need to have a look at profiles from guys in your age group and see what others do... I can imagine the comments you are going to get from the regular forum ladies on your profile....
Plus, get rid of text speak in your profile "
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