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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly it is parr for the course on here - just get used to it - you will find lots of people seem to enjoy messing you around - but there are the genuine let downs through no fault - it happens  |
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"why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue "
You mean the ones that want to meet you drive all the way there then they go offline and you relise you have wasted your day
Yep i dont get it if people say they want a meet then meet  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Maybe your selection process needs adjusting "
See… that’s an option
If the same thing keeps happening again and again.. sometimes you have to look at what the common denominator is  |
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"why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue "
Ha. in our 8 years or so here, yes many, many. Some do that, others keep us hanging on for months for nothing. One couple gave us a false address, many go quiet just before a meet and no address given either. One wouldn't answer the front door, one didn't show... the list goes on. We've almost given up several times. |
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Ha! tell me about it! Drives me crazy but then what can you do to avoid them. Tried loads of ideas but the reality is after spending an age making myself ready and standing in the cold they don't even text you to apologise, they just don't turn up Aarh!!! |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
In my opinion since going into lockdown it's a some kind of strange effect on the human race but same time i Can never understand why people act the way they do.it'll be one of those unexplained mysteries in time to come.... |
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Sadly it does seem to happen quite a lot and probably more so since the pandemic started which dove a lot of new users to the site that where only here to look so when it comes to meeting they get cold feet and vanish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly it's par for the course...no matter how careful or selective you are about the people you chat with it happens to everyone,
You just have to except it and not let it get you down |
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Ever had one you have met before then they rejoined the site met again! Leave you a verification after you verified them, Then they delete their account again within a few hours after meeting it happened to me yesterday. Some odd people in the world hahahaha life goes on  |
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"why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue "
Exactly the same OP 3 this week alone.
So infuriating especially when you take the day off work  |
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Sadly it’s just a fact of life on Fab, I never expect a meet until the person is in my door lol. I don’t get bitter though and just move on, saying that I’ve met some lovely genuine people on here. |
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By *ndyrTV/TS
over a year ago
southport |
I suppose it’s happened to a lot of people. Myself included. Maybe sometimes it’s something unavoidable. Particularly in a cross dressers situation. Maybe their wife has found out. Maybe they got cold feet. I know it’s not a good situation but at least I haven’t minced up to someone’s front door in wig, makeup and sexy underwear...to find I have been time wasted. Xxx |
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So I spend time hair removing most places then shower thoroughly and clean inside and out. Then begin a make up application and then get into sexy lingerie maybe a corset and breast plate...the whole process can take between 2 to 3 hours....for him to cancel or disappear last minute......makes my blood boil....no wonder I drink.... |
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Most of the time wasters here are either single guys posing as couples or just pretending they want to meet in order to get pictures or indulge in dirty chat. Either way they will never meet because that wouldgive their game away. |
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"So I spend time hair removing most places then shower thoroughly and clean inside and out. Then begin a make up application and then get into sexy lingerie maybe a corset and breast plate...the whole process can take between 2 to 3 hours....for him to cancel or disappear last minute......makes my blood boil....no wonder I drink...."
Yes, understand this fully.
Then other guys get arsey with you when you tell them you only meet in clubs now.
To actually transform from a man into looking like a woman can take hours. So sorry if the time waster ruins it for the ‘genuine guys’ once is too often for me.  |
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Have came across a whole new level of time waster. Arranging a meet then they go quiet only to pop up an hour or so later to say they've just met me. They certainly didn't meet me but claim a car pulled up when they came to meet me, driver gave my fab name so off they went to fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it gets as far as arranging a meet, try having a video chat beforehand. I find that helps. If they flatly refuse to have a video chat then there is a good chance you'll be stood up. |
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If someone has decent veris then it is pretty rare (in my experience) that they will back out as they are likely to be genuine.
No veris then I will assume that they are either fake or fantasists and are likely to not meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As if it’s even possible to waste someone’s time….. I'm not even given the decency of a reply to a message so to have a chance of meeting is a proving to be just an unattainable dream. |
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"If it gets as far as arranging a meet, try having a video chat beforehand. I find that helps. If they flatly refuse to have a video chat then there is a good chance you'll be stood up."
I always refuse to do a video call because I look crap on them but I still turn up  |
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"If it gets as far as arranging a meet, try having a video chat beforehand. I find that helps. If they flatly refuse to have a video chat then there is a good chance you'll be stood up.
I always refuse to do a video call because I look crap on them but I still turn up "
Me too, I’d never do a video call with anyone. Always a social meet for me firstly, so if they do bail, my time isn’t wasted as I can still have a coffee or drink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it gets as far as arranging a meet, try having a video chat beforehand. I find that helps. If they flatly refuse to have a video chat then there is a good chance you'll be stood up.
I always refuse to do a video call because I look crap on them but I still turn up "
I couldn't imagine you would look crap at any time of the day |
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