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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hiya all, hope everyone is having fun!
I'm going to the Attic cinema on Thursday 11th of November for the very first time.
Any advice for a newbie? This will be my first visit ever to a swingers club.
Had meets from this site but never been to a club, thought it was time I dipped my toes lol. X |
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Go with an open mind and understand the Attic cinema experience is not typical of all clubs or vibe or what goes on in other clubs. It's more of a greedy girl type experience or great for voyeurs. So if you love it and have a great time, wicked. But if its turns out not your scene then don't give up on clubs you just may need to try a different night/party/club. Anyway best thing is go see for yourself. Nothing to lose. (Or go on a weekend and also try out the full Attic club in the evening)
Main thing is be polite, respectful but also don't be shy, interact and be involved. Because its dark other senses are heightened so make sure you smell great. If its going down and you want to join in (if its appropriate to join in) just make sure you get consent before you touch anyone. You don't need a written contract or a lengthy conversation in the cinema environment. Sometimes it's just a simple yes, eye contact, a hand gesture or simply being guided onto/in. I think everyone deep down understands genuine consent. Just some choice to ignore it and push their selfish need for gratification. If their are other guys behaving badly don't follow them. Be yourself and make respect key. Also practical note if you take any clothes off in the cinema it's very dark so place in a good spot (if you can) and make a mental note of where you put things. Lastly all clubs can be hit and miss in terms of who comes in on that day. So there is no guarantee of many ladies (or any ladies) or ones you find attraction too or vice versa.
Like I said cinema's tend to be a bit more guy heavy, harder core and less standing on ceremony than other club/nights/party's. So if your to go to another club it maybe a bit more nuanced in terms of how to go about things, make conversation and mingle. Bit there is lots of information on the forums that may help. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the great advice.
I'm a genuine guy, always respectful of others and definitely will not overstep any boundaries.
At the end of the day we are all here to have mutual fun.
Do you not get use of lockers on cinema days? Not sure I like the idea of just dumping my clothes in a pile somewhere. I'll go along, see what it's like.
Will definitely check out a club night, sounds more my thing. Just need to find a lady to go with. |
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"Thanks for the great advice.
I'm a genuine guy, always respectful of others and definitely will not overstep any boundaries.
At the end of the day we are all here to have mutual fun.
Do you not get use of lockers on cinema days? Not sure I like the idea of just dumping my clothes in a pile somewhere. I'll go along, see what it's like.
Will definitely check out a club night, sounds more my thing. Just need to find a lady to go with."
Check with the club about lockers. If you find a lady to go with great but if not still go. The Attic is a good first time club for guys. It was my first club when I was single and I'd recommend it. |
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I think lockers are still available but most people stay dressed in the day.
I can not add much to the advice already given but I always have a great time if I go along.
I don't always have fun but always have a good time |
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