We attended first time mid week when it was quiet, gave us the chance to get our bearings.
Didn't play until 3rd or 4th visit.
As always, do what you feel comfortable with, not what others say or do.
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Don't get d*unk.
A couple of drinks are fine for the ole dutch courage. But definitely don't over do it.
Been to many clubs and there are always a few that have had way to much of something.
They either make a scene or start arguments.
It screws with other people's mojos.
Also be secure in your relationship and have boundaries.
Another tell tail is when one is into it more than the other. Their is the whole doing it to please the partner bullshit.
It should be a equally shared and enjoyable experience.
Finally. Most clubs have dressed and undressed areas. Dressed is normal club/pub clothes unless it's perhaps a themed night were dressing up is encouraged.
Undressed - usually underwear or naked. You should recieve towels and lockers from the club to keep items or outfit changes etc.
Oh one last thing. Not all clubs have condoms or lube so Make sure you take your own just in case...
Relax and enjoy the experience.
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"Well we are looking arround blackpool, so infusion club or club play , any other ideas are welcome "
Both are excellent clubs and a great starting point to dip into the swinging lifestyle.
Amelia x |
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"Well we are looking arround blackpool, so infusion club or club play , any other ideas are welcome "
We have a crackin party Sat night which you would be made very welcome at 
Will ensure you get a tour of the club and introduced to some friendly folks in the bar area. Search forums for Flaunt for further info xx |
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"Dont go with any expectations. Weve had some great times in club but have yet to meet a couple that weve hit it off with. Good luck! X "
This  if you plan to just go and explore and find out what the club is like and how things operate and with no intention of playing you won’t go far wrong. Second trip it will be familiar territory and you will understand what goes on and how.
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