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By *yreGuy99 OP Man
over a year ago
Doesn't matter |
"Are you saying that you met someone who will only meet verified members but they won’t verify you after meeting?"
No. I mean that I can't get a meet because no one will verify me. Most people only meet verified members. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you saying that you met someone who will only meet verified members but they won’t verify you after meeting?
No. I mean that I can't get a meet because no one will verify me. Most people only meet verified members."
Oh, I see. Well everyone starts off here unverified and plenty manage to meet and get verified so it is possible. |
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By *yreGuy99 OP Man
over a year ago
Doesn't matter |
"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved  "
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks"
 you’re offered a solution but turn it down
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By *yreGuy99 OP Man
over a year ago
Doesn't matter |
"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks
you’re offered a solution but turn it down
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Offered a solution that doesn't meet my sexual preferences. Why would I accept that? |
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By *yreGuy99 OP Man
over a year ago
Doesn't matter |
"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks
you’re offered a solution but turn it down
Offered a solution that doesn't meet my sexual preferences. Why would I accept that?"
I really do appreciate the offer, I just don't want anything to do with a man on here as that's not what I'm looking for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to bring you back to reality...
But once verified, it won't automatically get you further meets!
They either like your pics and your chat or they don't....
Good luck OP! |
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"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks
you’re offered a solution but turn it down
Offered a solution that doesn't meet my sexual preferences. Why would I accept that?
I really do appreciate the offer, I just don't want anything to do with a man on here as that's not what I'm looking for!"
You do realise that the male and female couples that you are looking to meet contain men don't you?? |
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By *yreGuy99 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks
you’re offered a solution but turn it down
Offered a solution that doesn't meet my sexual preferences. Why would I accept that?
I really do appreciate the offer, I just don't want anything to do with a man on here as that's not what I'm looking for!
You do realise that the male and female couples that you are looking to meet contain men don't you??"
My profile states that I'd meet the female of a couple and not to man |
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"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks
you’re offered a solution but turn it down
Offered a solution that doesn't meet my sexual preferences. Why would I accept that?
I really do appreciate the offer, I just don't want anything to do with a man on here as that's not what I'm looking for!
You do realise that the male and female couples that you are looking to meet contain men don't you??
My profile states that I'd meet the female of a couple and not to man"
Well then saying you would meet couples in the what you are looking for part is quite misleading don't you think? Since it is only women you are willing to meet. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
I don’t think it’s because they can’t me bothered the people you are messaging obv don’t want to meet you for whatever reason so there is a difference plus you won’t meet couples and can’t accommodate |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks"
So in your meet you have posted says your looking for tv. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks
So in your meet you have posted says your looking for tv. "
Oh lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks
So in your meet you have posted says your looking for tv. "
Perhaps he meant to say he only meets post op ts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why everyone's jumping on this guys profile! He asked a simple question about verifications.
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Everybody - some, if you don't mind, thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like someone said earlier. Go to a club or a social. The staff or anyone you speak to would be happy to verify you and you might even have a good time. That’s how we got verified |
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
Buckley North Wales |
We would suggest that to get some verifications, go to a club and just chat to some couples. Swinging (from our perspective) is 90% social. Verifications primarily indicate that you are real arent just a pic collector and are willing to get out there.
The majority of verifications will state explicitly or implicitly if it was just social or if you played.
They aren't a guarantee of action but they help. Ultimately clubs remain the best place to get some action. |
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Your meet request also says you want to meet couples who want to be verified as well. Two non verified parties can't verify each other so whilst I hope you have a good time you may not get the verification you want. Also, wanting to meet couples, but not the male half, and not at your place is going to drastically limit the amount of people who are interested.
. Personally I'd spend time on sorting your profile out and being more realiton what you want, put some better pics on there and write some nice friendly messages to your target audience. And don't worry about the verifications, I've been on here two years during a pandemic and haven't got any. I'm still a real (and nice) person so my view is if it happens then great, if it doesn't then so what! Nothing lost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why everyone's jumping on this guys profile! He asked a simple question about verifications.
Everybody - some, if you don't mind, thank you"
Yes, some. Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d be willing to meet you and verify you. You have a really sexy, big dick that I’d love to suck.
Problem solved
If I was gay or bi maybe. But considering I'm straight, that a thanks but no thanks
you’re offered a solution but turn it down
Offered a solution that doesn't meet my sexual preferences. Why would I accept that?
I really do appreciate the offer, I just don't want anything to do with a man on here as that's not what I'm looking for!"
I’m happy to just meet for a drink and a chat, it doesn’t have to be anything sexual. I’d be able to verify you then and I’d specify in the verification that we didn’t meet for sex, just for a chat. I’m sure people will like to see that you turned up for a meet even if it was a non sexual one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you can get verified by people you chat to in the chat rooms, its a start, and get out there and get to a club or social, if you dont make the efford, dont expect much to happen, sounds like you want it to all fall in your lap, it doesnt work like that especialy for a single man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and as for rating the site 0.01 out of ten, what do you expect if you do nothing about meeting people, a negative ttitude will get you far im sure, we put the effort in and get plenty of meets, its not hard, and i, the mr did as a single man, but like real life you get out what you put in |
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By *yreGuy99 OP Man
over a year ago
Doesn't matter |
Theres a lot of new things and ways I want to try. I'd happily go to a club and do cam chats or something similar. Dont just assume what I will and won't do. I know my profile needs plenty of work and I do appreciate any advice given. Thanks all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres a lot of new things and ways I want to try. I'd happily go to a club and do cam chats or something similar. Dont just assume what I will and won't do. I know my profile needs plenty of work and I do appreciate any advice given. Thanks all"
well i am assuming, otherwise you wouldnt be asking the question if you know the answer, ps lovely dog |
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By *yreGuy99 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Theres a lot of new things and ways I want to try. I'd happily go to a club and do cam chats or something similar. Dont just assume what I will and won't do. I know my profile needs plenty of work and I do appreciate any advice given. Thanks all
well i am assuming, otherwise you wouldnt be asking the question if you know the answer, ps lovely dog"
Ok I understand what you mean. Thanks, shes awsome |
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"Theres a lot of new things and ways I want to try. I'd happily go to a club and do cam chats or something similar. Dont just assume what I will and won't do. I know my profile needs plenty of work and I do appreciate any advice given. Thanks all"
You have a good positive attitude, which is refreshing  . There are lots of good, supportive people here, even though it can seem otherwise at times in the forum.
As some have included, a cam chat veri may assuage your concerns to a great extent, so it could be worth a try. Clubs are often expensive for single men, so I'd encourage you to only be join and visit, if it's something that you really want and can afford in the longer term, if you don't manage to find a club that has a non members day, or lower cost options. The socials will give you the chance to meet users, many of whom will be verified and able to verify you. Otherwise, look out for supportive, friendly people. There are people here who do meet others who aren't verified. If you let them get to know you, they will likely be more open to meeting and trusting you. |
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"What do you do when people will only meet verified members, but cant be bothered to verify someone? "
Attend a social or a party and mention it to others.
We've verified guys and couples we met at parties and socials.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not verified and I’ve met people, I’ll also meet people that don’t have verifications, I don’t take them seriously and find them pointless it’s like leaving a scorecard. |
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By *ames WMan
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"I’m not verified and I’ve met people, I’ll also meet people that don’t have verifications, I don’t take them seriously and find them pointless it’s like leaving a scorecard."
Same here, I only ever have sex with people i have a connection with, If the op has a few conversations, meets socially and takes it easy Im sure he'll get meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was deep I feel his pain and I’m the same don’t want to suck cock but will meet couples at same time both can play with the female without having to suck cock or am I getting it wrong?"
Then focus on straight couples that are looking for a single male |
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"That was deep I feel his pain and I’m the same don’t want to suck cock but will meet couples at same time both can play with the female without having to suck cock or am I getting it wrong?
Then focus on straight couples that are looking for a single male "
That’s what’s on my profile |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We would suggest going to a club, we wouldn’t meet anyone who only had a webcam verification as all that shows is someone who is happy to sit behind a screen, doesn’t mean that person would turn up to an arranged meet. |
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