I'm finding it so difficult to find a bi couple ,even just to chat to, never mind a social or play meet. I'd say I'm doing the right things and couples I look at ,say on there profile, what there looking for. I think ah yes that's sounds like me, I wink or message no reply
Any advice all you lovely fabbers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe your pictures appeal to them.
You can't accommodate could be an issue....
Make your profile more couple friendly...why tell folk you have a fb!....
Look at the couple's profiles you are interested in and choose certain 'buzz words' to match..and definitely explain other places you could play if your home is off limits ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks, is there any pics on there at moment (do you think) would appeal and 1s I should get rid."
AHH you've been lucky enough to get a response from a couple above...
I think smart/casual dressing helps....
Best of luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks, is there any pics on there at moment (do you think) would appeal and 1s I should get rid.
Personally I don't like pics taken in a disabled toilet"
Agree, in fact I'm always put off by pics taken in any toilet.
Your profile comes across as quite passive aggressive, especially regarding face pics and winks. There's also no need to mention your fb. As for pictures, the one of the back of your head is unnecessary. Instead look at changing location for your shots, and as mentioned maybe dress up a bit! |
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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
As a bi couple, I can tell you that the dirty hi vis is NOT appealing. Your profile says face pics once a chat is started....did you not notice that most of your public pics are facial pics? Lol. It shows a lack of paying attention. Also, as someone else said, tell us what you have to offer rather than just saying what you want. If you're lucky enough to be invited into a couples playtime, it helps if you don't come across as being selfish. |
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After the worst of the pandemic - I hope it's gone - I'm just looking at pics of guys since then, to get a feel for them currently. I'd encourage all single men here - who will face enormous amounts of competition due to the thousands of men here - to upload plenty of current pics that show your full physique.
OP - get to bi nights at clubs and experiment here with your approach. Evaluate what you need to share with others via communication, to increase your response success rates. Likewise, work out what's superfluous that you've been communicating, that you could tone down or cut out. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Your method of contacting people is initially a wink. Some bi couples probably get a large number of winks every day, so you will possibly find sending a brief message highlighting the reason you are contacting them, what stood out in their profile etc.
Your profile states you want to use them to fulfill your fantasies, and that fact would put many couples off.
Attanding clubs is probably your best course of action. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why isn't there a face palm emoji 
I get the sense that asking for feedback was an attention seeking exercise rather than a genuine call for help with your profile. Otherwise I cannot understand why you would wait a month to try the approaches advised, especially as you've said you're getting no-where with your current approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the advice guys.
Give it a month or so and it will be a new approach.
So Once again thanks."
A month ???
Don’t let us down we’r on tender hooks to see the outcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is due to work commitments ect"
Mate I’m kinda messing but your not building an extension!!!
A few altercations and I’m sure you won’t be as bad !!
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