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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We arranged to meet a black guy in our Nottingham hotel,
He arrived on time, very respectful,
He looked great,
He stopped with us all night,
She absolutely loved it and I enjoyed watching them,
He was huge and knew how to use it,
Very successful night and morning x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only advice is black guys are amazing fucking ones wife but they are notoriously bad time keepers,, and its hard to group really good bbcs together, cuck meets are a lot easier |
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"Only advice is black guys are amazing fucking ones wife but they are notoriously bad time keepers,, and its hard to group really good bbcs together, cuck meets are a lot easier "
It is a very sweeping statement to say black guys are notoriously bad time keepers. Did Barack Obama always keep Senate waiting for him to turn up late ? |
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"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
I've always found it a bit cringey"
Agreed. We just went to a club and with no expectations. The first guy we ever had a threesome with was black and to be honest we never set our stall out for that. He was just a really nice guy we looked at him as a person and not his skin colour. We never discussed that side of it before or after just that it was good fun and how polite he was. No barriers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Make sure you find one that lives up to the stereotype. There are a lot of black guys who promote themselves as BBC and you look at them and think dude you're really not, I'm bigger than that.
However the one me and my wife met certainly was, he was genuinely 9inches and very thick which as any girl will tell you is where it matters  |
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"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
I've always found it a bit cringey
Agreed. We just went to a club and with no expectations. The first guy we ever had a threesome with was black and to be honest we never set our stall out for that. He was just a really nice guy we looked at him as a person and not his skin colour. We never discussed that side of it before or after just that it was good fun and how polite he was. No barriers. "
Maybe some black men do not mind but a lot of people on here only value them for what's underneath their pants.
I received a dm from a 58 old woman around a month ago I had too many stipulations for a single man and that there were "bbcs" everywhere and that's what they are here for.
I personally avoid profiles that use that term. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP
Never mind the "BBC," just never forget there is always a risk your OH may fall for the other cock, bigger, stiffer, whatever colour of cock etc. Hwnce we never met anyone more than twice. Sure, people do but trust me it can develop into the grass is greener on the other side syndrome. Your choice. |
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Maybe some black men do not mind but a lot of people on here only value them for what's underneath their pants.
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I suspect most ignore it, rather than 'don't mind', but each to their own.
The reality is many here fetishise black bodies. It's just how it is. Either roll with it, or don't. I guess the choice is ours at the end of the day. |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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Never mind the "BBC," just never forget there is always a risk your OH may fall for the other cock, bigger, stiffer, whatever colour of cock etc. Hwnce we never met anyone more than twice. Sure, people do but trust me it can develop into the grass is greener on the other side syndrome. Your choice."
So much sense in your reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y."
The term is uncomfortable and fetishisation of making someone an object of sexual desire based on their ethnically and race is nothing more than racism
By accepting the term it strengthens stereotypes and devalues people.
Such racist views are not acceptable in the workplace and should not be acceptable in the swinging scene either. |
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"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
The term is uncomfortable and fetishisation of making someone an object of sexual desire based on their ethnically and race is nothing more than racism
By accepting the term it strengthens stereotypes and devalues people.
Such racist views are not acceptable in the workplace and should not be acceptable in the swinging scene either."
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
The term is uncomfortable and fetishisation of making someone an object of sexual desire based on their ethnically and race is nothing more than racism
By accepting the term it strengthens stereotypes and devalues people.
Such racist views are not acceptable in the workplace and should not be acceptable in the swinging scene either.
I agree"
Sadly though it would seem that the vast majority of the swing scene don’t share this view or are willing to accept that although they are willing to play with people of colour that they only do so as a fetish environment which is rooted in their racist subconscious minds. |
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"Only advice is black guys are amazing fucking ones wife but they are notoriously bad time keepers,, and its hard to group really good bbcs together, cuck meets are a lot easier "
Wow!! Did I actually read that correctly?! 
This is wrong and disgusting on every level..... |
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"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
The term is uncomfortable and fetishisation of making someone an object of sexual desire based on their ethnically and race is nothing more than racism
By accepting the term it strengthens stereotypes and devalues people.
Such racist views are not acceptable in the workplace and should not be acceptable in the swinging scene either.
I agree
Sadly though it would seem that the vast majority of the swing scene don’t share this view or are willing to accept that although they are willing to play with people of colour that they only do so as a fetish environment which is rooted in their racist subconscious minds. "
My FWB is black. We went to a party together and found ourselves in the smoking area with a white couple. The male half of the couple asked me if I was at the party with him - used my FWB Fab name. I said yes we were there together. He asked if we were a proper couple or just at the party together. My FWB answered and said we were a proper couple (we’re not, but he was trying throw this guy off because it was a weird vibe). The guy didn’t acknowledge my FWB then said to me that I must feel lucky to get to fuck him whenever I wanted because of his big black cock. His whole tone and demeanour was aggressive and unpleasant.
He spoke to me only, as though my FWB was an object. Didn’t chat to him, nothing. Just spoke about him when he was right there. It was an awful interaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
The term is uncomfortable and fetishisation of making someone an object of sexual desire based on their ethnically and race is nothing more than racism
By accepting the term it strengthens stereotypes and devalues people.
Such racist views are not acceptable in the workplace and should not be acceptable in the swinging scene either.
I agree
Sadly though it would seem that the vast majority of the swing scene don’t share this view or are willing to accept that although they are willing to play with people of colour that they only do so as a fetish environment which is rooted in their racist subconscious minds.
My FWB is black. We went to a party together and found ourselves in the smoking area with a white couple. The male half of the couple asked me if I was at the party with him - used my FWB Fab name. I said yes we were there together. He asked if we were a proper couple or just at the party together. My FWB answered and said we were a proper couple (we’re not, but he was trying throw this guy off because it was a weird vibe). The guy didn’t acknowledge my FWB then said to me that I must feel lucky to get to fuck him whenever I wanted because of his big black cock. His whole tone and demeanour was aggressive and unpleasant.
He spoke to me only, as though my FWB was an object. Didn’t chat to him, nothing. Just spoke about him when he was right there. It was an awful interaction. "
That is gross. What an ignorant so and so. |
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"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
The term is uncomfortable and fetishisation of making someone an object of sexual desire based on their ethnically and race is nothing more than racism
By accepting the term it strengthens stereotypes and devalues people.
Such racist views are not acceptable in the workplace and should not be acceptable in the swinging scene either.
I agree
Sadly though it would seem that the vast majority of the swing scene don’t share this view or are willing to accept that although they are willing to play with people of colour that they only do so as a fetish environment which is rooted in their racist subconscious minds.
My FWB is black. We went to a party together and found ourselves in the smoking area with a white couple. The male half of the couple asked me if I was at the party with him - used my FWB Fab name. I said yes we were there together. He asked if we were a proper couple or just at the party together. My FWB answered and said we were a proper couple (we’re not, but he was trying throw this guy off because it was a weird vibe). The guy didn’t acknowledge my FWB then said to me that I must feel lucky to get to fuck him whenever I wanted because of his big black cock. His whole tone and demeanour was aggressive and unpleasant.
He spoke to me only, as though my FWB was an object. Didn’t chat to him, nothing. Just spoke about him when he was right there. It was an awful interaction.
That is gross. What an ignorant so and so. "
I’ve seen the guy before, he takes his wife to interracial parties so his wife can play for him. It’s a very odd vibe, he does all the talking and his wife barely says anything, she just fucks whoever he tells her to. It’s all a bit awful. He comes across as highly unpleasant. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
I've always found it a bit cringey
Agreed. We just went to a club and with no expectations. The first guy we ever had a threesome with was black and to be honest we never set our stall out for that. He was just a really nice guy we looked at him as a person and not his skin colour. We never discussed that side of it before or after just that it was good fun and how polite he was. No barriers.
Maybe some black men do not mind but a lot of people on here only value them for what's underneath their pants.
I received a dm from a 58 old woman around a month ago I had too many stipulations for a single man and that there were "bbcs" everywhere and that's what they are here for.
I personally avoid profiles that use that term."
Good for you , I feel the same about women in general (and couples) banging on only about cock size / cock action , I got no time for them , there’s enough guys desperate to fuck anything for them you choose from |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"My advice is that not all black men appreciate the term BBC, it’s a bit fetish-y.
The term is uncomfortable and fetishisation of making someone an object of sexual desire based on their ethnically and race is nothing more than racism
By accepting the term it strengthens stereotypes and devalues people.
Such racist views are not acceptable in the workplace and should not be acceptable in the swinging scene either.
I agree
Sadly though it would seem that the vast majority of the swing scene don’t share this view or are willing to accept that although they are willing to play with people of colour that they only do so as a fetish environment which is rooted in their racist subconscious minds.
My FWB is black. We went to a party together and found ourselves in the smoking area with a white couple. The male half of the couple asked me if I was at the party with him - used my FWB Fab name. I said yes we were there together. He asked if we were a proper couple or just at the party together. My FWB answered and said we were a proper couple (we’re not, but he was trying throw this guy off because it was a weird vibe). The guy didn’t acknowledge my FWB then said to me that I must feel lucky to get to fuck him whenever I wanted because of his big black cock. His whole tone and demeanour was aggressive and unpleasant.
He spoke to me only, as though my FWB was an object. Didn’t chat to him, nothing. Just spoke about him when he was right there. It was an awful interaction. "
This type of interaction has happened to me on several occasions when out with a FWB, if you dont say your a proper couple, the gent becomes invisible....regardless of colour, single guys on fab are generally objectified, a cock on legs ...this might be fine with some guys, and its part of this alternative dimension .. but I personally dont like it. |
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