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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’m going to try this and and see how it goes…. The idea is to put your self up as genuine and reliable and let the couple/girls/tv have a look at your profile in the hope of making something happen….
Time wasters need not apply |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The word "genuine" is more overused here on fabs than the word "sale" is in DFS adverts  "
When your right your right but the aim of this thread is to try and restore some faith back into system |
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"So I’m first up I’m a genuine single guy who would like too meet a genuine couple who are looking to add a title spice "
What makes you genuine ? You have no verifications in over a year . We would say a genuine person would be someone that’s actively out at clubs and making socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But what is “genuine” in a fab sense?
The only way you’re going to prove that is by meeting/camming with people. There’s a lot of guys who think a site like this is a gateway to easy casual sex and simply putting yourself up as genuine proves nothing, even if people do peruse your profile and give it a thumbs up. I’d suggest being open, honest and actually talking to women properly on here is more likely to get your card marked as genuine even if it can be difficult to get yourself noticed amongst the sausage fest you ladies seem to get posted into your inbox, no pun intended…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what is “genuine” in a fab sense?
The only way you’re going to prove that is by meeting/camming with people. There’s a lot of guys who think a site like this is a gateway to easy casual sex and simply putting yourself up as genuine proves nothing, even if people do peruse your profile and give it a thumbs up. I’d suggest being open, honest and actually talking to women properly on here is more likely to get your card marked as genuine even if it can be difficult to get yourself noticed amongst the sausage fest you ladies seem to get posted into your inbox, no pun intended…. "
 totally agree! I’m not even tempted to read someone’s profile if it’s headed Genuine - without at least a few recent verifications. OP get to a local social and chat to like minded people, in the hope of some verifications. Honesty is good and clearly stating what you can offer someone, as in time, how often, what you liked about their profile and how you may be looking for the same thing. Showing a genuine interest in who you are messaging, rather than just trying to get your end away. Have fun x |
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Met loads of genuine guys.
Our litmus test is do they make the effort to attend socials, clubs or parties.
Do they understand the words 'make a bit of an effort'
Can they hold a conversation and know not to just touch when the get a rush of blood.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s genuine to one isn’t too another.
I get told I’m not genuine all the time because I don’t cam or meet 1:1 yet I club all the time  .
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Clearly a timewaster my dear as you are not offering free incall services for every horny guy in England |
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I bet these 'genuine' people also describe themselves as 'professional'. Blah, blah, blah..... It's basically the template of 90% of the male profiles on here.
If people want to make a genuine connections go to socials, go to clubs, message people you genuinely believe you're compatible with. It will served you much better than telling everyone you're 'genuine' and sulky statuses saying Fab is rubbish.
Thanks my two penneth for what it's worth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bet these 'genuine' people also describe themselves as 'professional'. Blah, blah, blah..... It's basically the template of 90% of the male profiles on here.
If people want to make a genuine connections go to socials, go to clubs, message people you genuinely believe you're compatible with. It will served you much better than telling everyone you're 'genuine' and sulky statuses saying Fab is rubbish.
Thanks my two penneth for what it's worth "
Exactly I agree … get out there. Describing yourself as genuine means nothing |
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This is genuinely interesting. For me I find my profile appears to attract very little attention, no matter what I've done to tweak it over time. That being said I tend to dopretty well from organised socials and club meets where women have had the opportunity to weigh me up in a relaxed, unpressured environment. I've come to the conclusion that I'm either a) pretty poor at selling myself in writing and/or just another of the sea of single males. Either way it would be really interesting to hear the opinions of the single and attached females as to how i come across on my profile and would appreciate the time taken to have a look and comment.
(Zero interest in what men think if I'm honest - no disrespect). |
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"I bet these 'genuine' people also describe themselves as 'professional'. Blah, blah, blah..... It's basically the template of 90% of the male profiles on here.
If people want to make a genuine connections go to socials, go to clubs, message people you genuinely believe you're compatible with. It will served you much better than telling everyone you're 'genuine' and sulky statuses saying Fab is rubbish.
Thanks my two penneth for what it's worth "
Absolutely 100%!!! |
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"What’s genuine to one isn’t too another.
I get told I’m not genuine all the time because I don’t cam or meet 1:1 yet I club all the time .
Clearly a timewaster my dear as you are not offering free incall services for every horny guy in England "
Cumbria would do for a start  |
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Pre-covid I was known to be genuine and reliable.
Throughout covid my 'bubble buddies' knew I was genuine and reliable.
Post covid I am struggling to get any new meets, but my established friends know I remain as genuine and reliable as I ever was.
If there are any genuine and reliable single ladies or couples looking to meet in the general Cumbria area, feel free to get in touch x |
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"I bet these 'genuine' people also describe themselves as 'professional'. Blah, blah, blah..... It's basically the template of 90% of the male profiles on here.
If people want to make a genuine connections go to socials, go to clubs, message people you genuinely believe you're compatible with. It will served you much better than telling everyone you're 'genuine' and sulky statuses saying Fab is rubbish.
Thanks my two penneth for what it's worth "
Could even be a fivers worth |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"The word "genuine" is more overused here on fabs than the word "sale" is in DFS adverts
When your right your right but the aim of this thread is to try and restore some faith back into system "
What system is that then?? |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
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"What really gets my goat is the use of ‘select men only’ and ‘single men we’ll find you’. What tosh! "
A really good thread (albeit perhaps not in quite the way the OP may have intended) and I agree with just about everything said in the comments. However I 'genuinely' don't see what is wrong with couples and women doing their own searching and saying "single men, we'll find you". If I was a couple or single woman wanting to meet single men, I'd definitely not open my inbox up to getting potentially hundreds of messages a day. I'd imagine it would feel like a full time job just going through them! |
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"What’s genuine to one isn’t too another.
I get told I’m not genuine all the time because I don’t cam or meet 1:1 yet I club all the time .
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I get the opposite and get told I'm not genuine as I'm not interested in clubs although I have plenty of veris that say I am.
As you say it's a personal thing genuine to one is not to others. |
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