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Both are quite hard to find
It's difficult to find 1 person where there's a mutual attraction, so a couple looking for a third person or another couple you've now got to find atleast a 3 way attraction which is difficult
Add to that couples and single males massively out weigh the number of single females on this site and most couples and single males are looking to meet single females, means everyone is competing with each other and the single females & couples can afford to be choosy with who they meet
Have you thought about trying clubs, people tend to find it easier to make connections there |
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Pretty much everyone on here seems to be looking for a bi female so I guess there's a lot of competition.
Looking for couples its also really difficult find 4 way attraction.
Looking at your profile I think you could use some more pictures of you both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not bi as such, but I’m open to meeting women. I find it hard finding women who want to meet one on one, and when I speak to “couples”, it’s clearly just one part - usually the guy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's tricky for couples where all four are attracted to each other....though not impossible."
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Yeah that's rare as it would be in any social situation.
We enjoy the social, anything else is a bonus to be honest. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Any ladies wanna have some horny fun on cam this cock needs a bartering lol cum will be everywhere hahahah 8-9 inches hard all shaven xxx"
There's always one single guy tries to hijack a thread. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Any ladies wanna have some horny fun on cam this cock needs a bartering lol cum will be everywhere hahahah 8-9 inches hard all shaven xxx
There's always one single guy tries to hijack a thread."
Glad you said it.! |
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"It appears to be difficult to find people, is this just us?
We wanted to meet a couple or bi female, and nothing  lol. "
I've always found that meeting other couples is really easy, there are literally thousands of couples within 50 miles that we can chat with and arrange to meet.
Single ladies are much more difficult, they are the smallest group of people on the site and the most in demand. Probably 90% of everyone on the site is looking for a single lady to join them, some find it quite overwhelming. The others see it as being spoilt for choice and pick only those who are perfect (for them) in every way.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It appears to be difficult to find people, is this just us?
We wanted to meet a couple or bi female, and nothing lol.
I've always found that meeting other couples is really easy, there are literally thousands of couples within 50 miles that we can chat with and arrange to meet.
Single ladies are much more difficult, they are the smallest group of people on the site and the most in demand. Probably 90% of everyone on the site is looking for a single lady to join them, some find it quite overwhelming. The others see it as being spoilt for choice and pick only those who are perfect (for them) in every way.
Cal"
Definitely! We’ve found plenty of like minded couples here, and some really lovely single guys and had a fab time  there’s plenty of nice people here for every taste if you look and wink and message if your interested - Griz |
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"Pretty much everyone on here seems to be looking for a bi female so I guess there's a lot of competition.
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I am not actively looking for a bi female but pretty much all the ladies I meet seem to be bi so they clearly exist.
Maybe they are like fairies and pixies - if you search for them they hide but if you happen to be looking for something else they seem to pop up quite regularly…? |
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"Any ladies wanna have some horny fun on cam this cock needs a bartering lol cum will be everywhere hahahah 8-9 inches hard all shaven xxx"
And these are the ones that spoil it for the genuine ones like myself who get tarred and feathered with the same brush  |
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"Any ladies wanna have some horny fun on cam this cock needs a bartering lol cum will be everywhere hahahah 8-9 inches hard all shaven xxx
And these are the ones that spoil it for the genuine ones like myself who get tarred and feathered with the same brush "
No they dont lol It really is a myth and an easey blame the way guys always say that. They do not runin it for anyone esle but themselves. |
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"Any ladies wanna have some horny fun on cam this cock needs a bartering lol cum will be everywhere hahahah 8-9 inches hard all shaven xxx
And these are the ones that spoil it for the genuine ones like myself who get tarred and feathered with the same brush
No they dont lol It really is a myth and an easey blame the way guys always say that. They do not runin it for anyone esle but themselves. "
Well said  |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"It’s very hard if your a single male "
It is, we agree.
But look at it like this. Most single guys include interests that include swapping.
What do single guys have to swap??
Two things make it hard for single men.
1. A limited market wanting a single guy.
2. Loads and loads of guys looking for free sex.
Those two make it really hard for single guys.
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I think most people with actual “profiles” are genuine to be honest.
Ignoring the blank/ empty/ unverified profiles; look for the club and social verified people. Or even better, get yourselves there easier to find people that meet outside of clubs too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a genuine guy who would love to meet a couple who are looking to add a bit of extra fun to their relationship.
Maybe start a thread of your own?"
He has, I just read it and it's sadly not going too well  |
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"You're profile isn't exactly appealing for single women or couples, too much hair is a big thing for a lot of people on fab.
1st impressions are very important "
What an absolutely horrid thing to say. Why should anyone change their appearance at all? |
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