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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hallo everyone.
Something strange happend to me  . Some time age I played with couple and at some point guy started wanking me while his wife gave me prostate massage. I found it very exciting and fucking nice. Since that night guys with attractive women turn me on. Its weird as men are indeferent to me while I would wank or suck guys in relationship with attractive women. I want to have sex with both of them, I'd be happy to give blowjob to fella while shaging women. I t become a bit obsessive and thinking about guy make my really horny and fancy on dick.
I got question to you guys: is it possible to change orientation after one handjob? Have any of you experienced similar thing? Do you think I need meet couple with bi man to check how it is .
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"Hallo everyone.
Something strange happend to me . Some time age I played with couple and at some point guy started wanking me while his wife gave me prostate massage. I found it very exciting and fucking nice. Since that night guys with attractive women turn me on. Its weird as men are indeferent to me while I would wank or suck guys in relationship with attractive women. I want to have sex with both of them, I'd be happy to give blowjob to fella while shaging women. I t become a bit obsessive and thinking about guy make my really horny and fancy on dick.
I got question to you guys: is it possible to change orientation after one handjob? Have any of you experienced similar thing? Do you think I need meet couple with bi man to check how it is.
Thanks"
I experience identical feelings as yourself. However, I DEF do not consider myself either Gay nor Bi. Although, when in a MMF3 some...i have received (enjoyed) touching and played (enjoyed) some groping with the other male. It purely is sexual enjoyment...i certainly am not in any way atttracted to the male. In a fully darkened room, i am sure i could tell the difference between either a M or F playing with my cock..but the sensation would be exactly the same!!
Would i fancy a MM meet?? DEF NOT!!
However, If you fancy full on sex with another male...then i think thats altogether different?
My advice is, within a MMF meet, not to get yourself worked up about your"temp" feeelings ......in my opinion, its a perfectly normal "heat of the moment sexual experience" Enjoy !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm effectively straight I've never done anything with a guy previously. However I recently did fucking licking in an MMF and we also want to potentially do DP and DVP. For those reasons only I changed to bi curious due to the proximity and contact with another guy that those sex acts require.
I really feel sorry for those guys who actively enjoy sucking cocks who can't accept that they are bi-sexual, its really not a big deal just be honest with yourself. If more guys did that there would be less stigma.
If I ever found myself in an MMF and I sucked a guy off with my partner and enjoyed it enough to consider doing it again then I would definitely change from bi curious to be sexual.
KJ
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you fancy full on sex with another male."
Iam not into full penetration I am thinking about petting/soft core.
I'll give it a go, I'll try how others penises "works". I'll see where it go with openminded couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was in a similar position when I got divorced a few years back living on my own at the time made me think it’s a nice feeling every now n then but now know orally bi only. |
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If I throw away all of my makeup, clothes and wigs am I no longer a Transvestite ?
If you put on a dress are you now a crossdresser ?
If I kiss another man am I Gay ?
Have a wank to gay porn but never actually wanted to have sex with another man, does that make me Bi curious ?
A girl sticks her thumb up my ass whilst giving oral, am I a bottom and possibly first steps towards gay sex ?
We have professionals who will help us with all of those questions (and many more). So if you don’t feel you need a professional to help you, then don’t worry too much about it.  |
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Unfortunately we live in a society where labels seem to be increasingly important, the truth is labels are very limiting and problematic and we are all individual and different, and we all like different things, in different degrees, with different people.
My advice is just enjoy what you enjoy, (as long as it is legal and consensual!) and don't worry about trying to label/define yourself, just as others have said, go with it and enjoy what you enjoy! |
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However, if you enjoy it with men, you are bisexual.
It is a convenient catch all that, whilst not exactly encompassing all that you are, it does indicate you like cocks and playing with them.
Which is useful, I don't know, on a sex site where people are searching for like-minded individuals |
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"Hallo everyone.
Something strange happend to me . Some time age I played with couple and at some point guy started wanking me while his wife gave me prostate massage. I found it very exciting and fucking nice. Since that night guys with attractive women turn me on. Its weird as men are indeferent to me while I would wank or suck guys in relationship with attractive women. I want to have sex with both of them, I'd be happy to give blowjob to fella while shaging women. I t become a bit obsessive and thinking about guy make my really horny and fancy on dick.
I got question to you guys: is it possible to change orientation after one handjob? Have any of you experienced similar thing? Do you think I need meet couple with bi man to check how it is.
Thanks"
That sounds really hot...I'd say you're curious and awakening to your bi side  |
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Sexual orientation does seem to be fluid and the same experience that's triggered your realisation now may not have done in the past. Its also not necessarily meaning that we'll be attracted to each gender in equivalent ways - it's very common to just like cock, for example. It's hard for others to understand, if their attraction is very regular, vanilla and typically straight.
You don't have to have a label, just to be aware of what you like and to work so that you can get fulfillment. I'd probably put bicurious on my profile in your situation and to explore more. |
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If you were a woman, you would be a 'spaghetti lesbian'.
Straight, until wet.
Yes, you are bi.
But only a little bit, in certain situations.
Know your limits, Be honest, embrace it, and don't worry.
It's a lot more fun. |
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It’s only a decking label. We all like different things, just need to find others that like the same. Bi is a broad school just like TV/TS ) (and man, Woman, gay and straight for that matter.) They all cover a multitude of sins we just have to identify our faves (sins that is) and find a match or two x |
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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago
sexy town |
I'm in the same boat. I've never fancied a guy who's full clothed but I find a cock a real turn on, I really enjoy sucking but don't like his cum on me.
I love watching a guy cum as long as it's not near me.
Dunno what the fucks going on with me lol. |
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"Hallo everyone.
Something strange happend to me . Some time age I played with couple and at some point guy started wanking me while his wife gave me prostate massage. I found it very exciting and fucking nice. Since that night guys with attractive women turn me on. Its weird as men are indeferent to me while I would wank or suck guys in relationship with attractive women. I want to have sex with both of them, I'd be happy to give blowjob to fella while shaging women. I t become a bit obsessive and thinking about guy make my really horny and fancy on dick.
I got question to you guys: is it possible to change orientation after one handjob? Have any of you experienced similar thing? Do you think I need meet couple with bi man to check how it is.
Thanks"
It’s quite natural of course to question yourself after an unexpected experience, particularly one you seem to have enjoyed so much. For me Fab is all about enjoying and exploring so I would say…don’t worry about it, embrace it, enjoy it, and see where the moment and your desire takes you. |
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"Hallo everyone.
Something strange happend to me . Some time age I played with couple and at some point guy started wanking me while his wife gave me prostate massage. I found it very exciting and fucking nice. Since that night guys with attractive women turn me on. Its weird as men are indeferent to me while I would wank or suck guys in relationship with attractive women. I want to have sex with both of them, I'd be happy to give blowjob to fella while shaging women. I t become a bit obsessive and thinking about guy make my really horny and fancy on dick.
I got question to you guys: is it possible to change orientation after one handjob? Have any of you experienced similar thing? Do you think I need meet couple with bi man to check how it is.
Thanks"
You enjoyed an adventurous sexual experience.
Why put a label on it!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I throw away all of my makeup, clothes and wigs am I no longer a Transvestite ?
If you put on a dress are you now a crossdresser ?
If I kiss another man am I Gay ?
Have a wank to gay porn but never actually wanted to have sex with another man, does that make me Bi curious ?
A girl sticks her thumb up my ass whilst giving oral, am I a bottom and possibly first steps towards gay sex ?
We have professionals who will help us with all of those questions (and many more). So if you don’t feel you need a professional to help you, then don’t worry too much about it. "
Spot on again Steph. As always xx |
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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago
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There are some people I want to have sex with, and some people I don't. Gender is unimportant, don't overthink it and go with what you want and what feels right. If you really need a label, what about hete exible?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve met up with quite a few men who want me to give them a hand job, suck their dick, lick their ass hole and they will fuck me. They won’t touch my dick and don’t want to kiss or cuddle and don’t really want to talk to me, they mostly make me leave my knickers on as well. Personally I think they’re Bi as a completely straight man wouldn’t let me any where near his dick but they all say they’re straight and they just wanted someone to play with their dick and a hole to fuck and they couldn’t find a woman willing to meet them so resorted to me.
I believe everyone’s free to be exactly who they want to be without being judged or labelled but people should be honest with themselves about who they are as well. |
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I've been married twice and had , at a recent count, thirteen women / girls who I've had full on sex with. However , about 27 years ago, I popped into some old fashioned toilets in Wylde Green, for a pee. Two guys standing at the urinal so I stood "downstream" from them so to speak. Whilst peeing I noticed some shaking hand movements by the guy nearest to me which seemed to be going on a long time . I glanced over and noticed a fairly large erect cock and the chap next to him also seemed to be stroking his cock instead of pissing. I quickly averted my gaze back to the job in hand and after hearing a grunting sound from the furthest guy, I noticed several large clumps of spunk floating passed me down the urinal channel. The chap next to me suddenly made a similar sound and even more spunk passed by me. I had never considered myself bisexual at all but found myself getting a hard on. Not sure what to do I decided to hide in one of the cubicles to sort myself out. I heard one of the guys leave but someone else came in and entered the cubicle next to mine. In the wall between us there was a hole. Not a GH but more of large spyhole. I decided to have a peek through and saw the guy was standing up facing the door stroking his enormous cock. Why was I so turned on by this? I carried on watching and wanking myself and shot my load onto the floor of the cubicle. As I sat wiping my cock with a tissue I saw an eye appear at the hole. Then just as I was getting ready to leave a hand reached under my cubicle and wiped up all my spunk off the floor. I took a quick look through the hole and saw the guy was licking MY spunk off his fingers. I was hooked. I found the whole thing so intriguing and it had turned me on immensely so that began what I can only describe as a COTTAGING and CRUISING career!! Over the past 25 years I've lost count of the number of cocks I've watched, wanked and sucked and the gallons of spunk I've had over my face and tongue. DO I WANT A BOYFRIEND?
No . absolutely not!
Do I want any sort of relationship with a guy?
Again NO!!!
Will I suck dozens more cocks in my lifetime. More than likely. I dress as a CD. Love FLASHING! I have sucked TWO cocks at once on two occasions. I've had three facials in one hour. I've been spit roasted once in the woods.My next goal is to be dressed as a slutty school girl in uniform, in the woods and become the victim of a bukkake session. TEN guys would be good, and I'd have to have someone I trust to video it for me. My advice. Just go for it!!!! |
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By *tead88Man
over a year ago
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Attraction is so much deeper than societal labels my friend. In short, if you enjoy something don’t be worried about a label or title, it is what it is and you should just go for it. Once you get rid of titles and just aim for what you want you’ll be so much happier. X |
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"Why do you have to be anything ? Sex is such a rare commodity that many guys would happily have another guy blow them or wank them off just for relief "
And they are bi curious.
There are no circumstances where I would want that. I actually wish I did but I don't have a bi bone in my body.
As for ignoring labels, I do not understand what the issue with saying you are bi curious is ?
If I meet a straight lady, I do not assume she is like every other lady I have met. She has wants and needs and likes things the way she likes them.
I do know she doesn't have sex with women. It helps to get an idea of what she is into. It doesn't defi e her.
I know many won't play with bi men, and on here, single guys dont need anymore impediments. But, honesty with yourself and embracing all that you are, is far more important than maybe getting the odd extra meet with a lady.
On here, the men will soon find you |
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