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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years now and our sex is great but.. I love the idea of a threesome, whether it’s another guy or girl. It would turn me on so much to see her getting used by another guy and or woman.
However I’m a little bit stuck on how to bring it up in conversation or suggest it as I don’t want her to take it the wrong way.
Any genuine help would be appreciated.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No we don’t. I was on here before meeting her and deleted my profile once we got together. She doesn’t know about this site but I thought I would come back on in the hope I could get advice and maybe introduce her |
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For what its worth, i would say speak to her before looking for help her my friend. Be honest. If she is keen then happy days. If not then thats a fantasy that will not happen.
Be honest... cant go far wrong |
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It’s the easiest thing in the world. Say to her “you know what, I’d absolutely love a threesome, what about you?”. She will reply either yes, no or maybe. Then go from there. Even if she says no, you are no worse off than now. Nothing to lose. |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
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I'd have put it to her before signing up to a swingers site personally even if you're 100% genuine it could cause you the world of grief, if she found out you were on here do you think she'd believe you're here just to post on a forum? .
But if she does seem receptive when you mention it I reckon podcasts might be worth a shout, we got a thing or that couple next door are good. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"No we don’t. I was on here before meeting her and deleted my profile once we got together. She doesn’t know about this site but I thought I would come back on in the hope I could get advice and maybe introduce her"
Just ask her. But you would need a couples profile if you wanted any chance of fulfilling what your after |
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"Hi guys.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years now and our sex is great but.. I love the idea of a threesome, whether it’s another guy or girl. It would turn me on so much to see her getting used by another guy and or woman.
However I’m a little bit stuck on how to bring it up in conversation or suggest it as I don’t want her to take it the wrong way.
Any genuine help would be appreciated.
Thanks "
Try watching some porn together tell her this is what you like.
T |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of advice to set up a couples profile I see.
Don’t expect miracles if you do. Based on personal experience (with a very pretty partner in crime and quality photos) 99% of women who profess “Bi” are not and those who actually respond and engage rarely meet. A lot of fantasists in that arena and it’s also a breeding ground for fakes. Better results can be / were had by just looking more carefully at an existing surrounding social group.
Also, finally, give it lots and lots of consideration before embarking on the actual deed. It can be a minefield if it’s not handled correctly and can end up causing harm to a relationship. You have another person to keep equally engaged and wanted, that can be tough if there’s a shred of jealousy around. Get it right though & ..... well ...... buckle up !!!!
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A single guy on here, looking to meet others, yet now says he has a longterm girlfriend with no mention of it on his profile. Wants to know how to bring up a threesome idea with said girlfriend, while all the time seemingly, being dishonest with her about being on here.
And it's a wonder why single guys get a bad reputation.
How about tell her you've been on this site for 5 months and have been looking for extra relationship sex..see how she takes that first. If she's cool with it..then ask her about having a threesome that includes her?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No we don’t. I was on here before meeting her and deleted my profile once we got together. She doesn’t know about this site but I thought I would come back on in the hope I could get advice and maybe introduce her"
Your single male profile (you had before meeting her) is only 5 months old. Therefore your relationship with your girlfriend is going to be pretty new then (a chunk less than the 5 months), so in that case bringing up the swinging / threesomes desire now before you get more involved / committed is a smart move to make.
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"Hi guys.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years now and our sex is great but.. I love the idea of a threesome, whether it’s another guy or girl. It would turn me on so much to see her getting used by another guy and or woman.
However I’m a little bit stuck on how to bring it up in conversation or suggest it as I don’t want her to take it the wrong way.
Any genuine help would be appreciated.
Thanks "
Some great advice given already, ok how about you make it about her and say something like ...I love our sex life, what about you... depending upon her reply..you can ask ..what else would you like to try ...again do a temperature check and if she reciprocates and asks you ..then bam you are there but just go slow very slow.
Miracles do happen and you never know..she may just say "I would love a threesome and by the way have you heard about this fabswingers site..I wanted to tell you I am a member" lol you can pretend to act all innocent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years now and our sex is great but.. I love the idea of a threesome, whether it’s another guy or girl. It would turn me on so much to see her getting used by another guy and or woman.
However I’m a little bit stuck on how to bring it up in conversation or suggest it as I don’t want her to take it the wrong way.
Any genuine help would be appreciated.
Thanks
Try watching some porn together tell her this is what you like.
T"
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