|
By *voKid21 OP Man
over a year ago
Tiptree |
Hey guys. I’m really struggling to get any attention on here, have spoken to a few people about possibilities but not really hot anywhere yet, despite being courteous in messages, respectful and polite etc, not a time waster.
Are there people/couples out there who desire noobs and like to show them the ropes etc? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Is sending messages the only thing you're doing? That's not going to be sufficient, unless you have an exceptional profile or a lot of luck (or both).
Get involved in other ways. The forum and chat rooms are there for a reason. Join in. Get your name out there. Get yourself known.
And there are other ways to meet people beyond the site. There are socials, and there are clubs. Go, meet people, be the sort of person that they look forward to seeing again.
It takes time and it takes effort. There are people who will meet the new and unverified. But the best person to help you out is yourself. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hey guys. I’m really struggling to get any attention on here, have spoken to a few people about possibilities but not really hot anywhere yet, despite being courteous in messages, respectful and polite etc, not a time waster.
Are there people/couples out there who desire noobs and like to show them the ropes etc? "
I wouldn't say we 'desire noobs' but we don't automatically dismiss them and will give a new local person a chance, usually just a social to help them get somewhere, but sometimes it can be more than that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hey guys. I’m really struggling to get any attention on here, have spoken to a few people about possibilities but not really hot anywhere yet, despite being courteous in messages, respectful and polite etc, not a time waster.
Are there people/couples out there who desire noobs and like to show them the ropes etc? " your a man so will always struggle. It's possible you might never get a meet. I've had one meet from being on here for near 12 years,and that was 6 years ago. I've just about given up ever having fun again and you could be in the same boat. Or you could get lucky,time will tell,but prepare for that time to be loooooong. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic