FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Do you allow guys to cum inside you with a condom?

Do you allow guys to cum inside you with a condom?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As we are older and no fear of my wife getting pregnant, I'm tempted to let her fuck a guy and let him cum inside her pussy while wearing a condom. I've not allowed this before when we were younger and the risk of catching something is the condom bursts.

We always chat and agree and Tej has said to me that when I make love to her and i cum inside her, though she dislikes the sticky mess afterwards its the "fulfillness etc and the hug etc.

Tej could do it behind my back as I'm happy for her to fuck guys and tell me about it but prefer to watch but she is honest like me and wants my consent.

The men here do you/your OH allow guys to cum inside them and have you every experience a busst condom these days.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *hite meat for BBCCouple over a year ago

bmfc clubs

Mrs WM loves to feel a guy cum inside her (with a condom on), we’ve not had any experience of a condom braking although we do know there is a small risk of that happening.

For us It’s all down to what she wants and she would always rather a guy cums in her than on her!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *etwifeandhim69Couple over a year ago

Darlington

If he's wearing a condom, can't see the problem personally.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mrs WM loves to feel a guy cum inside her (with a condom on), we’ve not had any experience of a condom braking although we do know there is a small risk of that happening.

For us It’s all down to what she wants and she would always rather a guy cums in her than on her!"

You've explained it better than me, thanks. Its that feeling and the few moments afterwards.

With me i cum in her she loves it but not when it starts to seep out so a bath/shower straight away and if this is not possible she wont let me cum inside her.

She really wants to fuck guys without condoms but we both know that is too much of a risk so she has only fucked me without a condom.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ayleedsMan over a year ago

Leeds

The one thing about this well a few things is do you let hur kiss others or have oral fun with other with out condoms on if so then other than an un wanted pregnancy (morning after pill) they is just as much risk of catching sti also many other things mumps ect

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to meet a couple and they insisted on guys using two condoms to fuck the wife. So that's an option if you're worried about them breaking. Personally I'm not sure I'd get much pleasure if I had to withdraw to cum if I wore a condom.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I used to meet a couple and they insisted on guys using two condoms to fuck the wife. So that's an option if you're worried about them breaking. Personally I'm not sure I'd get much pleasure if I had to withdraw to cum if I wore a condom. "

is the rubber not more prone to busting as rubbing rubber against rubber

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

Only 2 things I remember from school sex Ed:

NEVER use 2 condoms together- they break way easier!

The condom fits on my head it can fit on your willy…. lol

I don’t play bare but will let them cum in a condom. There’s risk to everything we do, just about managing it for your preference x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefere the man cum inside me hubby bareback other men condom, as the whole process of Feeling the cock tighten and pulsing and cumming just adds that extra somthing To my organism, it’s as tho the organisms compliment each other x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"If he's wearing a condom, can't see the problem personally. "

Condoms can slip off, if the penis goes soft very quickly.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"I prefere the man cum inside me hubby bareback other men condom, as the whole process of Feeling the cock tighten and pulsing and cumming just adds that extra somthing To my organism, it’s as tho the organisms compliment each other x"

Organism or orgasm?

"I'll have an 'O' please Bob."

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had many guys cum inside me in a condom. Never had an issue. But you have to weigh up your own risk factor. I've never thought to ask someone not to if we're using condoms... as for doubling up... I've no idea why anyone would think this was a thing and of any use at all.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ara198Woman over a year ago

maynooth

Is this a joke answer.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *inky_CarpenterMan over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Mrs WM loves to feel a guy cum inside her (with a condom on), we’ve not had any experience of a condom braking although we do know there is a small risk of that happening.

For us It’s all down to what she wants and she would always rather a guy cums in her than on her!

You've explained it better than me, thanks. Its that feeling and the few moments afterwards.

With me i cum in her she loves it but not when it starts to seep out so a bath/shower straight away and if this is not possible she wont let me cum inside her.

She really wants to fuck guys without condoms but we both know that is too much of a risk so she has only fucked me without a condom."

I've never had a condom split while using one before.

Yes nothing beats the feeling climaxing while thrusting deep inside a woman. Condom doesn't take any pleasure out of an orgasm. At most it only delays it slightlya, which is usually better for the woman anyway.

There are extra safe condoms on the market which are slightly thicker..... far safer and more pleasurable than two.

As for the cum leakage.... just get a bi guy to join you. He can clean all the cum out after you've had fun, then fuck the last of it out wearing a condom..... problem solved

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *axtanMan over a year ago

los Cristianos now

Has my IQ suddenly dropped? What's the issue about someone coming in you with a condom. That's what they are for surely?!!

Do you mean 'without one?

How would you worry if you are watching your partner being fucked with a condom on and the guy coming into a a blind hole. Surely that's why you are on here!!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

In 20+ years of sexual activity (with about 8ish years in my 20's working as a sex worker) I've had a condom break on me once. That's all.

Never had one slip off either (although the trick is to make sure one of you has a hand on the _ase of the condom before he withdraws).

If you're worried about breakage or it slipping off, or you want it to feel more 'bare' try a female condom (they have come on leaps and bounds)

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For goodness sake.

Heard it all now: "Would you let someone come inside you if they were wearing a condom as it might explode inside'?

Catch a grip of yerself, as they say in Ireland

Reminds me Meryl Streep in Lemoney Snicket's ...'Don't use the fridge, it'll fall over'

*eye roll*

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've had many guys cum inside me in a condom. Never had an issue. But you have to weigh up your own risk factor. I've never thought to ask someone not to if we're using condoms... as for doubling up... I've no idea why anyone would think this was a thing and of any use at all. "

Thanks for the good post

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *eester GreyMan over a year ago

Welwyn

"As we are older and no fear of my wife getting pregnant, I'm tempted to let her fuck a guy and let him cum inside her pussy while wearing a condom. I've not allowed this before when we were younger and the risk of catching something is the condom bursts.

We always chat and agree and Tej has said to me that when I make love to her and i cum inside her, though she dislikes the sticky mess afterwards its the "fulfillness etc and the hug etc.

Tej could do it behind my back as I'm happy for her to fuck guys and tell me about it but prefer to watch but she is honest like me and wants my consent.

The men here do you/your OH allow guys to cum inside them and have you every experience a busst condom these days.

My FWB allows me to cum inside with or without ba condom. She says she loves the feeling of being "filled" . That said I'm the only one allowed without a condom.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

Tell them to wear 3 condoms

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We always chat and agree and Tej has said to me that when I make love to her and i cum inside her, though she dislikes the sticky mess afterwards its the "fulfillness etc and the hug etc.

Tej could do it behind my back as I'm happy for her to fuck guys and tell me about it but prefer to watch but she is honest like me and wants my consent.

The men here do you/your OH allow guys to cum inside them and have you every experience a busst condom these days.

My FWB allows me to cum inside with or without ba condom. She says she loves the feeling of being "filled" . That said I'm the only one allowed without a condom."

Same here.

My wife has told me that I'm the only guy that has cum in her, over over her, in mouth etc.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ornucopiaMan over a year ago

Bexley

"I used to meet a couple and they insisted on guys using two condoms to fuck the wife

...

Is this a joke answer.

If I remember correctly, the joke went something like "To be sure, to be sure"

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer cum inside with no condom. Personal preference xx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ave-and-LouiseCouple over a year ago

Torquay

We have a couple of times, but generally find the guys want to pull out and finish off over boobs/tum/bum anyway. There was a point that we were trying for a baby and Louise wasn't using any other contraception, so we specifically asked the guy NOT to come inside, just being aware of the risk of a split condom etc.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

My 18 years on the scene teach me that most swingers are happy with men cumming inside a condom, inside a woman. Many women don't enjoy cum on their bodies and prefer the men not to withdraw to finish.

Not sure I like the language of the OP "I'm considering letting my wife" sounds a bit controlling but maybe just a language thing. It's a negotiation between you both. But cum inside wearing a condom is a very common for people who swing to do.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *angria_girlukWoman over a year ago

LUTON

with other men aside from hubby, yes I prefer men to cum in a condom inside me.

I can often feel my lover cum, and it's less messy that way.

i do have an iud, so a back up method of birth control;

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, if we have been fwb a while and I know they are clean

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *itzi999Woman over a year ago

Slough

We always chat and agree and Tej has said to me that when I make love to her and i cum inside her, though she dislikes the sticky mess afterwards its the "fulfillness etc and the hug etc.

Tej could do it behind my back as I'm happy for her to fuck guys and tell me about it but prefer to watch but she is honest like me and wants my consent.

The men here do you/your OH allow guys to cum inside them and have you every experience a busst condom these days.

Yes, but most guys tend to wank off and cum on my tits to climax. Either way, it’s fine

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *uburtCouple over a year ago

pontypridd

We choose partners very carefully as wife prefers to feel the pump. Its a basic animal thing, and very fulfilling. If hubby watching there's few erotic moments than when a VWE man is giving wife doggy and you see the bare cock flinching as it shoots into her , then the splash as tbe wilting cock pulls out and the heavy load from both of them hits the floor.