So I am chatting to someone on here, going well so I thought I’d ask for a picture as there’s none on her profile. I thought as I was asking I should send one first as that’s only reasonable. My question is how long do you ask to see a picture less person on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't messege people with no pics first. If they were to messege me without including one my reply is always to tell them I don't chat unless I can see who to. "
I try to avoid pictureless members as well as those on for less than a year and not fully verified.
I may have the odd exchange with them if anyhting more than a couple of emails other than just saying thanks to pics they are praising i will check their profile.
I also cut of ie ignore those that have clearly not read our profile as it clearly states no hotels. |
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over a year ago
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I prefer profiles with pics doesnt have to be of the face but at least some body pics, and i ask for a facepic straight away, no point wasting time conversing if theres no attraction |
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"I don't messege people with no pics first. If they were to messege me without including one my reply is always to tell them I don't chat unless I can see who to.
I try to avoid pictureless members as well as those on for less than a year and not fully verified.
I may have the odd exchange with them if anyhting more than a couple of emails other than just saying thanks to pics they are praising i will check their profile.
I also cut of ie ignore those that have clearly not read our profile as it clearly states no hotels."
Same here as a general rule. But I did have a fwb i met here last year. He had no pics, rubbish profile and he was one of the best i met lmao But he caught me on a good day with an awesome first messege and lots of face pics. If it had been clear hadn't my profile though I wouldn't of bothered . |
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"So I am chatting to someone on here, going well so I thought I’d ask for a picture as there’s none on her profile. I thought as I was asking I should send one first as that’s only reasonable. My question is how long do you ask to see a picture less person on here? "
Just remember that pictures can be copied from anywhere and are frequently used by fakes and scammers. The only way to be sure who you're dealing with is to meet them and find out. Prior to that, the best way to avoid being the victim of a fake is to ask to see/chat to them on camera briefly early on. If they won't do that you have no way of knowing they're even a woman and can draw your own conclusions. |
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over a year ago
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As much as these views are obviously appreciated please do remember not all of us can have our pictures plastered all over & some of us do require that discretion.
It may not do us any favours but it doesn't mean we're to be avoided either. End of the day it's your choice no hard feelings or such but you never know what you might be missing out on!!  |
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"As much as these views are obviously appreciated please do remember not all of us can have our pictures plastered all over & some of us do require that discretion.
It may not do us any favours but it doesn't mean we're to be avoided either. End of the day it's your choice no hard feelings or such but you never know what you might be missing out on!! "
We need discretion too, but you don't need to show your face to prove you're a real female, not a guy posing as one using images of your ex say.
As a single guy you don't need to show your face to display a nice, tasteful image of yourself in a suit or undewear for example just to confirm your body type. How can anyone identify you from that? We don't have any face pics here either. We learnt that lesson the hard way many years ago and would agree with you on that. |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
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"I prefer profiles with pics doesnt have to be of the face but at least some body pics, and i ask for a facepic straight away, no point wasting time conversing if theres no attraction"
Can I send you face pic lol xx
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"So I am chatting to someone on here, going well so I thought I’d ask for a picture as there’s none on her profile. I thought as I was asking I should send one first as that’s only reasonable. My question is how long do you ask to see a picture less person on here? "
pretty much right away no point Chatting for hours just get it out of the way
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Everyone deserves a chance if the basic criteria is met…however we was talking to a “lady” for nearly a month, apparently she was too shy to show us a pic, which indicated to us that it wasn’t going to work…we just blocked her and moved along. Alarm bells should be ringing  |
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I don't tend to chat with profiles that have no pics tbh and certainly wouldn't chat for ages with one.
In the past I did and had a man say i didn't need to see him on here, we could just meet
Err no ta, I just moved on and didn't respond anymore to him.
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Many people use stolen images on websites. How can anyone tell if they're viewing one such? Reverse image search is only partially effective. The safest way is do a video chat. Even if you don't show faces you can at least ascertain basics like it's a real female/couple you're dealing with.
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By *plash85Couple
over a year ago
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If they don't have a picture then it gets ignored. If they send one in the message then that's fair enough, we'll reply. Same with if their profile is blank. If you can't be arsed putting something in there then what's the point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When meeting, I don't talk to anyone, without seeing their face... Mine is on my profile and it is that that I need to see to know if I fancy them enough to consider talking... I don't like telling people I'm not interested... They don't like it either, so... |
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""She" was actually a big fat bloke, sitting in a string vest, in a grotty bedsit, wanking his little socks off!  "
Is this true?? I'm dying, we joke about that but haven't had it happen yet... Jeez what is the world coming to haha x |
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