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I did, it defied medical science.
The doctors were baffled and it hurt like hell.
Pan has grown up to be a lovely lad, Just a bit of a shame about his hirsute legs and cloven feet and those little horns.
Dna tests are helpful providing the mutiple partners are traceable. |
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over a year ago
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"Surely the gangbang sluts will use some sort of contraception...."
"Gang bang sluts"
My understanding is slut / sluts is a term only acceptable between people who know each other, have mutual respect and have reclaimed the term as a positive.
When a stranger throws it around its been done as an insult are in a derogatory manner.
Maybe I'm wrong?
KJ
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation...  |
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
She has no absolute clue? X I guess at that point she’d need to do a paternity test as it’s 50/50
How do the guys feel about it all? |
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
Does she want the baby? Is it her husband and a different man? |
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"Surely the gangbang sluts will use some sort of contraception....
"Gang bang sluts"
My understanding is slut / sluts is a term only acceptable between people who know each other, have mutual respect and have reclaimed the term as a positive.
When a stranger throws it around its been done as an insult are in a derogatory manner.
Maybe I'm wrong?
KJ
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You are wrong. You are speaking purely from your perspective.
Not that we call people sluts randomly but yeh, every single person on here has an opinion and they are wrong in the eyes of some others. |
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
Never come to Fab for any kind of real sensible advice. |
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
Sure you were |
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
Doughnuts ex girlfriend was already pregnant by another possible 3 men when they got together (he wasn't aware as it was immediately obvious). He vowed to raise her daughter as his own and he has done that for the last 14 years. With possible father's, there seems to be one clear father as they never did a DNA test but in terms of looks from the other man's children (which isn't a clear indication).
I know this doesn't help but wanted you to tell your friend it does happen. And while Doughnut isn't her biological father it's one of the best things to happen to him.
Danish x (also the mum is quite open about her situation, not as though any of you know who she is lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Morning after pill or dna test after the birth I guess.
At least with two partners it’s fairly straight forward.
I’m assuming there is no relationship with either of the guys. So she is in for a long hard ride (and not the fun kind) with a newborn, and paternity tests. Best of luck to your friend whatever she chooses |
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
I suggest your friend seek her own advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How many weeks is she? Do both potential dad's know? What are her thoughts? Does she want an abortion (depending on gestation) or does she want to keep the baby? If she kept the baby would both guys be supportive whoevers child it turns out to be? Do they even want to be involved? If they don't want to be involved and mum was OK with that would they draw up a contract to that effect? If she had an abortion would the potential dads be OK with that - and that they aren't going to emotionally bl@ckmail her afterwards?
Lots to think about, to choose between and be comfortable about. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation...
I suggest your friend seek her own advice. "
Why? This would be a good place to post it as she says she has permission, you would think anyway, but there doesn't seem much advice |
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"Anyone ever fallen pregnant while sleeping with multiple partners? If so what was the outcome? "
Feel this is something you should have spoken about before joining a swingers site. 
Swinging can bring you closer or push you apart you have to be able to communicate.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gonna need a bigger birth certificate for all the dad's names
You wouldn't know any names. It would have to be left blank"
Put them all down
I'm sure the CSA would take a peep too at it |
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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago
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Personally i think this is her decision to be making and I think that she should talk to both possible fathers in regards to the matter. If she chooses to go ahead with pregnancy I feel she should get the help she and baby should be entitled to by the father. Atleast that way some form of responsibility is being shown on both sides.  |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"Morning after pill or dna test after the birth I guess.
At least with two partners it’s fairly straight forward.
I’m assuming there is no relationship with either of the guys. So she is in for a long hard ride (and not the fun kind) with a newborn, and paternity tests. Best of luck to your friend whatever she chooses"
By the time you get a positive test it is far too late for the morning after pill, which as the name suggests is for the "morning after" though can work up to 72 hours after. |
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To do paternity tests, you have to know where the potential father's live.
I'd seek advice/someone to talk to about your options, if you're looking at bringing the child up on your own. Then decide what's right for you and of course your baby.
Whoever the lady is, good luck lovely.  |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
It’s not uncommon in the polyamorous communities. Step one, does she want to have a baby? If not, well, abortion is great for these situations. If she does, does she know who the potential dads are and how do they feel about this?
Would strongly recommend getting some counselling if she’s unsure. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
I guess she would have to do the tests once the baby is here |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
You don't mention when she had sex, but assuming it was recently she needs to decide what she wants to do and how close she was with the two men she may want keep the baby or she may want have an abortion.
If she was close to the men she may want to talk to them and see what they suggest.
Depending on the outcomes she would then be faced with further choices or decisions.
There are various pregnancy advice lines that may be of help to your friend and even her doctor could help, but if he/she is her family doctor she may not feel able to talk to him/her at present. |
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation... "
Asking for a friend  Righto! |
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"Surely the gangbang sluts will use some sort of contraception....
"Gang bang sluts"
My understanding is slut / sluts is a term only acceptable between people who know each other, have mutual respect and have reclaimed the term as a positive.
When a stranger throws it around its been done as an insult are in a derogatory manner.
Maybe I'm wrong?
KJ
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Agreed!!! |
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"I was asking on behalf of a friend who has been with two men and gotten a positive test this week. She isn’t on FAB anymore but I posted this with her permission as she was curious to know what people did in this situation...
Doughnuts ex girlfriend was already pregnant by another possible 3 men when they got together (he wasn't aware as it was immediately obvious). He vowed to raise her daughter as his own and he has done that for the last 14 years. With possible father's, there seems to be one clear father as they never did a DNA test but in terms of looks from the other man's children (which isn't a clear indication).
I know this doesn't help but wanted you to tell your friend it does happen. And while Doughnut isn't her biological father it's one of the best things to happen to him.
Danish x (also the mum is quite open about her situation, not as though any of you know who she is lol) "
I'm not going to assume that the bio father wasn't included in that decision but if they weren't that's disgraceful. |
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My wife has been fucking some other guy behind my back and I'm pretty sure that they're both worried that she's pregnant now. They don't know that I know. |
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"My wife has been fucking some other guy behind my back and I'm pretty sure that they're both worried that she's pregnant now. They don't know that I know. "
Oh that's damn right awful for you...you gonna stay with her or get rid? |
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"My wife has been fucking some other guy behind my back and I'm pretty sure that they're both worried that she's pregnant now. They don't know that I know. "
And yet here you are, looking for meets and with a 3 month old account that makes no reference to the fact you have a wife.
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"It’s not just about the female though. She’s gotta think about that baby. Is it really fair for it to grow up without a dad and the not knowing all it’s life "
Absolutely is just about that female and what she wants to do . |
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"My wife has been fucking some other guy behind my back and I'm pretty sure that they're both worried that she's pregnant now. They don't know that I know.
Oh that's damn right awful for you...you gonna stay with her or get rid? "
I honestly don't know, yet. |
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"My wife has been fucking some other guy behind my back and I'm pretty sure that they're both worried that she's pregnant now. They don't know that I know.
And yet here you are, looking for meets and with a 3 month old account that makes no reference to the fact you have a wife.
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I have known for longer than I've been on this site. It's part of the reason I set up a profile. I have also been very open about it when someone messages me looking for a meet. Sorry, if that offends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely the gangbang sluts will use some sort of contraception....
"Gang bang sluts"
My understanding is slut / sluts is a term only acceptable between people who know each other, have mutual respect and have reclaimed the term as a positive.
When a stranger throws it around its been done as an insult are in a derogatory manner.
Maybe I'm wrong?
KJ
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Totally right there. Ive always known that a slut is sexually inhibited but they are choosybwith who theyvsleep with etc etc a slag shags anything going just to add another notch to the bedpost whether but thats just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was younger i used to see 2 guys regularly sometimes together in the same day Or few days apart but they was both aware of eachother lucky I didn't fall pregnant but she should decide what she wants to do and talk to them if she decides to keep it DNA after the baby is born |
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"Surely the gangbang sluts will use some sort of contraception....
"Gang bang sluts"
My understanding is slut / sluts is a term only acceptable between people who know each other, have mutual respect and have reclaimed the term as a positive.
When a stranger throws it around its been done as an insult are in a derogatory manner.
Maybe I'm wrong?
KJ
Totally right there. Ive always known that a slut is sexually inhibited but they are choosybwith who theyvsleep with etc etc a slag shags anything going just to add another notch to the bedpost whether but thats just my opinion. "
Are you sure you've expressed this the way you wanted to? |
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