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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dare I ask? lol
I'd like some suggestions:
Judging by my profile TEXT, can you please suggest a profile picture idea that might attract that sort of people....
Please be nice lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas..."
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting? |
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?"
I really don't think they were being insulting. They are giving you some advice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really don't think they were being insulting. They are giving you some advice."
I disagree.
Nothing helpful was offered. No suggestion for what kind of picture would be best, which was the point of the post.
But she felt the need to remind me I have a body and some clothes and tell me 'seriously, it's not that hard'.
I'm not an idiot. I was after some helpful advice and she gave me attitude and rudeness.
My first blocked profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dare I ask? lol
I'd like some suggestions:
Judging by my profile TEXT, can you please suggest a profile picture idea that might attract that sort of people....
Please be nice lol "
Use one of mine !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't think they were being insulting. They are giving you some advice.
I disagree.
Nothing helpful was offered. No suggestion for what kind of picture would be best, which was the point of the post.
But she felt the need to remind me I have a body and some clothes and tell me 'seriously, it's not that hard'.
I'm not an idiot. I was after some helpful advice and she gave me attitude and rudeness.
My first blocked profile."
Darn right two !
I’m probably going to be your second but I think i take it like a champ
On a serious note mate I’ve a picture of my chin !
Point is anything is better then nothing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Darn right two !
I’m probably going to be your second but I think i take it like a champ
On a serious note mate I’ve a picture of my chin !
Point is anything is better then nothing "
Fair point!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Darn right two !
I’m probably going to be your second but I think i take it like a champ
On a serious note mate I’ve a picture of my chin !
Point is anything is better then nothing
Fair point! "
I’m glad you took it like that mate it was genuine advice !
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Photo suggestions:
Any photo (with you in it) is better than no photo at all*.
Bums seem to be popular. Decent underwear though! Or no underwear.
*Unless of course it is your appendage in relation to a commonly owned household object for the purposes of providing scale.
Generic fab/forum advice:
Have a search of the forums with the keyword 'photos' to get an idea of what types of photos people like.
BTW and PLEASE don't take this the wrong way @FerociousFem was NOT IMHO trying to be insulting.
As @FerociousFem suggested have a look at other male profiles to get some ideas. It's not 'weird' or anything. 80% of the people that look at my profile are listed as single men!
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I really don't think they were being insulting. They are giving you some advice.
I disagree.
Nothing helpful was offered. No suggestion for what kind of picture would be best, which was the point of the post.
But she felt the need to remind me I have a body and some clothes and tell me 'seriously, it's not that hard'.
I'm not an idiot. I was after some helpful advice and she gave me attitude and rudeness.
My first blocked profile."
If you are easily offended or sensitive to that sort of reply, then fab might be a tough place for you.
Anyway as for profile picture advice, try and do something original or funny with it as that catch someone's eye more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, your profile is just red flags.
Keep your profile but instead use the clubs and local area sections and look for clubs/events or munches and go along to those and meet people. Be yourself, be polite and make friends and network.
As for pictures, unless you have stunning good looks or some enticing anatomical feature that some ladies will want to fight over to see you, just take a few body shots of your best features, some semi revealing pics, or perhaps a few pictures of you well dressed. Don't overcomplicate things.
Too many blokes here think they'll get some action within a month or two of joining and in reality (without club or event meet verifications) it's never going to happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't think they were being insulting. They are giving you some advice.
I disagree.
Nothing helpful was offered. No suggestion for what kind of picture would be best, which was the point of the post.
But she felt the need to remind me I have a body and some clothes and tell me 'seriously, it's not that hard'.
I'm not an idiot. I was after some helpful advice and she gave me attitude and rudeness.
My first blocked profile."
Think that's possibly got you blocked too, don't think she was being rude but your reaction... Pretty rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?"
Nobody’s been insulting OP
Some of us have nothing better to do !
Ok I’ve nothing better to do 
Take the threads with a pinch of salt !
I’m already uploading a nice fruit bowel that’s sound advice right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?
Nobody’s been insulting OP
Some of us have nothing better to do !
Ok I’ve nothing better to do
Take the threads with a pinch of salt !
I’m already uploading a nice fruit bowel that’s sound advice right there "
A fruit bowel  lolol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?
Nobody’s been insulting OP
Some of us have nothing better to do !
Ok I’ve nothing better to do
Take the threads with a pinch of salt !
I’m already uploading a nice fruit bowel that’s sound advice right there
A fruit bowel lolol"
I can’t take credit for that joke
But who doesn’t like a well takin picture of fruit !
I’m not messing will I send you the one in my friends pic ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?
Nobody’s been insulting OP
Some of us have nothing better to do !
Ok I’ve nothing better to do
Take the threads with a pinch of salt !
I’m already uploading a nice fruit bowel that’s sound advice right there
A fruit bowel lolol
I can’t take credit for that joke
But who doesn’t like a well takin picture of fruit !
I’m not messing will I send you the one in my friends pic ?
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I'm scared and curious at the same time lolll |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think that's possibly got you blocked too, don't think she was being rude but your reaction... Pretty rude. "
I'm a nice guy. But I give back what I receive and I don't take crap.
If someone's going to be sarcastic and condescending to me, they'll get the same in return.
There is obviously a lot of people here who think they can talk to people like they're idiots and stay blameless.
Since the main complaint from women here is the lack of non-dick pix, I asked for a little friendly advice. And got a talking to for apparently daring to not see the obvious!
Some of you need to remember what manners are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?
Nobody’s been insulting OP
Some of us have nothing better to do !
Ok I’ve nothing better to do
Take the threads with a pinch of salt !
I’m already uploading a nice fruit bowel that’s sound advice right there
A fruit bowel lolol
I can’t take credit for that joke
But who doesn’t like a well takin picture of fruit !
I’m not messing will I send you the one in my friends pic ?
I'm scared and curious at the same time lolll"
Nothing good will come from this
Balls in your court |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well reading some of your comments op you seem I think a smart person so use your imagination and creativity how difficult can it be remember you need to like it before anyone else"
Thank you. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Well reading some of your comments op you seem I think a smart person so use your imagination and creativity how difficult can it be remember you need to like it before anyone else
Thank you. "
Welcome buddy
And remember a picture has few sides theirs the humour with kink which also shows the personality which can also attract Someone that also sees the funny side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?"
Sorry you felt that way...
But all these profiles to view, to gain ideas - I mean why wouldn't you be pro-active to help yourself.
Like I said, no matter what you choose, there'll be some who like it or not....
I think my post was blunt, but still formative.
Sorry again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?
Sorry you felt that way...
But all these profiles to view, to gain ideas - I mean why wouldn't you be pro-active to help yourself.
Like I said, no matter what you choose, there'll be some who like it or not....
I think my post was blunt, but still formative.
Sorry again!"
Sorry OP, but I agree. You're an apparently articulate, and intelligent adult. Rather than look around and have a go yourself, you've asked others for their opinions. You're not the only one, many do it. It could flag laziness, lack of imagination, or dependency. It may not.
Would you call a date and ask them what you should wear before meeting?
All that said, good luck and hope you get the answer you're looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?
Nobody’s been insulting OP
Some of us have nothing better to do !
Ok I’ve nothing better to do
Take the threads with a pinch of salt !
I’m already uploading a nice fruit bowel that’s sound advice right there
A fruit bowel lolol
I can’t take credit for that joke
But who doesn’t like a well takin picture of fruit !
I’m not messing will I send you the one in my friends pic ?
I'm scared and curious at the same time lolll
Nothing good will come from this
Balls in your court "
Bounce it in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think that's possibly got you blocked too, don't think she was being rude but your reaction... Pretty rude.
I'm a nice guy. But I give back what I receive and I don't take crap.
If someone's going to be sarcastic and condescending to me, they'll get the same in return.
There is obviously a lot of people here who think they can talk to people like they're idiots and stay blameless.
Since the main complaint from women here is the lack of non-dick pix, I asked for a little friendly advice. And got a talking to for apparently daring to not see the obvious!
Some of you need to remember what manners are."
Perhaps utilising your advice to others, you really come across as pretty brittle but hey, it's your profile and your choices. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Have you not got a body and clothes to wear.....
Seriously it really isn't that difficult!
Some will like some won't, no matter what you do.....
Plenty of profiles around to give you a fair few ideas...
Well, thanks for nothing!
Why bother responding just to be insulting?
Nobody’s been insulting OP
Some of us have nothing better to do !
Ok I’ve nothing better to do
Take the threads with a pinch of salt !
I’m already uploading a nice fruit bowel that’s sound advice right there
A fruit bowel lolol
I can’t take credit for that joke
But who doesn’t like a well takin picture of fruit !
I’m not messing will I send you the one in my friends pic ?
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It's modern art you ever see those night art classes with a fruit bowl a lot of history behind this |
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I'd prefer not to use my face, though