My husband & I spoke about past relationships & the threesomes we'd had whilst being single on our first date
After that no conversation has ever been off limits, weve been together 15yrs so obviously doing something right |
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I approached it with Mrs. She was surprised but tried it. We talked about every aspect of it so we knew limits etc. I had an idea she may be ok with it in theory as used to flirt and kiss the odd girl in younger life and also enjoyed 3 and 4 some porn but the step to reality worried me in case she outright said no. However, for us, we talked openly and found a common ground to start from and worked our way up.
She isn't as into it as me in terms of the chat, being on here, etc as I find it part of the turn on. she is more into it being spontaneous or just telling her we are having a social or meet but we now know that as we talked it through. we have had some amazing meets with wonderful people and are just planning another meet with an extra boundary push for 3 weekends time, so I guess it worked out for us. |
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