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We might of been here some time but still kinda newbies to some aspects
I really want to try a gangbang…obviously clubs are the easiest solution.
For those who have done this though how have you made it work? Do you talk to a bunch of guys throughout the night or just go with the flow?
Any advice is appreciated
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over a year ago
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Hi Miss,
We have arranged gangbangs in the past for some lovely ladies.
The best way, we found, is to chat on fabs to a couple of regular guys who go to the particular club and get them to arrange.
They would tend to know some reliable and regular guys. If you also put a meet up or chat to other guys yourself to prearrange them.
Arrange twice as many guys as you need as you will get 50% drop out  |
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Mrs has had quite a few gangbangs in clubs but we have never arranged one.
We did try once but it was too much like hard work. She prefers spontaneity.
If she is in the mood and there a decent selection of guys in the place she will just go to an open play room and take what comes.
To be fair she doesn't go for the really big sessions, usually after 4 or 5 she needs a break.  |
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"Mrs has had quite a few gangbangs in clubs but we have never arranged one.
We did try once but it was too much like hard work. She prefers spontaneity.
If she is in the mood and there a decent selection of guys in the place she will just go to an open play room and take what comes.
To be fair she doesn't go for the really big sessions, usually after 4 or 5 she needs a break. "
Are looks a consideration when arranging a gang bang, or does your Mrs let the fuck-ugly and desperate ones "have a go"? |
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"Mrs has had quite a few gangbangs in clubs but we have never arranged one.
We did try once but it was too much like hard work. She prefers spontaneity.
If she is in the mood and there a decent selection of guys in the place she will just go to an open play room and take what comes.
To be fair she doesn't go for the really big sessions, usually after 4 or 5 she needs a break. "
How do you control the situation? I’m concerned with literally being swarmed (not that I’m super attractive and expect to be swarmed) by excited guys! |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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Hey! So I took two chaperones with me, Mr mix and a play partner I'd met at the same club previously. The guys helped me control the situation, we chatted to the men I was interested in and when I was ready I went upstairs. The guys took charge or the where and whens, turns, safety stuff (condoms, towels etc) so all I had to worry about was me.
I'd highly recommend taking a trusted pal to help you out, I don't think I would have enjoyed it as much is I didn't have as much control over the situation |
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My experience has been that one is invited "at the time" there are usually a crowd of "wankers" - usually obese hairy smelly guys with soft willies who couldn't do much anyway. If you're well presented with an erect penis wearing a condom you might just get lucky! Never push in; always wait to be invited. Have fun! |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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"Mrs has had quite a few gangbangs in clubs but we have never arranged one.
We did try once but it was too much like hard work. She prefers spontaneity.
If she is in the mood and there a decent selection of guys in the place she will just go to an open play room and take what comes.
To be fair she doesn't go for the really big sessions, usually after 4 or 5 she needs a break.
How do you control the situation? I’m concerned with literally being swarmed (not that I’m super attractive and expect to be swarmed) by excited guys! "
Oh you should be fine! The rules generally are no play without asking first, have you been to a club before? It is pretty much the same vibe as a normal club night, except you feel very very desired. I never felt unsafe, make sure you make friends with the staff team, ask one of them to keep an eye out for you if you are nervous. They really won't mind |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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Our experience has been good - but we have worked at it (especially my husband George) - we rely on advising/alerting people that we are attending a club, are open to group play, that the lady is in control of all action, that you should try to get say 9 men to agree to see 3/4 attend and to accept more "on the spot" joiners .. the key is having the right environment: woman centred and lustful, erotic and energetic. Skilled men in numbers maketh the scene. x Anne |
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By (user no longer on site)
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it can easily get out of hand so be safety aware.
The more open and more men there are the safer u r imo.
Watch out for the burst condom.
I've always wanted Tej to be gang banged but never got around to it. The nearest we got is when with a starnger she had fucked the once before, agreed to have his friend there and him and me at work. The other guy never showed up, but Tej enjoyed the few hours with him then we had a good time at home
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"Mrs has had quite a few gangbangs in clubs but we have never arranged one.
We did try once but it was too much like hard work. She prefers spontaneity.
If she is in the mood and there a decent selection of guys in the place she will just go to an open play room and take what comes.
To be fair she doesn't go for the really big sessions, usually after 4 or 5 she needs a break.
How do you control the situation? I’m concerned with literally being swarmed (not that I’m super attractive and expect to be swarmed) by excited guys! "
To control it I position myself as a barrier to keep it down to 2 or 3 around her at any one time. They don't get anywhere near her pussy without a condom check, and she trusts me to out the fat and/or ugly ones. To be honest as long as the body is OK she isn't that bothered whether they look like George Clooney or not.
However fat, smelly, and big bush pubes do not get past. |
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"Mrs has had quite a few gangbangs in clubs but we have never arranged one.
We did try once but it was too much like hard work. She prefers spontaneity.
If she is in the mood and there a decent selection of guys in the place she will just go to an open play room and take what comes.
To be fair she doesn't go for the really big sessions, usually after 4 or 5 she needs a break.
How do you control the situation? I’m concerned with literally being swarmed (not that I’m super attractive and expect to be swarmed) by excited guys!
To control it I position myself as a barrier to keep it down to 2 or 3 around her at any one time. They don't get anywhere near her pussy without a condom check, and she trusts me to out the fat and/or ugly ones. To be honest as long as the body is OK she isn't that bothered whether they look like George Clooney or not.
However fat, smelly, and big bush pubes do not get past. "
Haha love this quote !!!!!
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Try looking in your local area on FAB for someone who has attended a gang bang.
They may have taken all the work out of it for you.
Paul tends to be the one on lookout and all the guys know he is present so never had any problems.
Just keep a close eye on condoms, tell the guys if one misbehaves the night is over and the decent guys will monitor too.
If you can take the time and grief to organise your own you will, eventually, find a good group of guys but you will go through grief and misery to get there. |
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I've helped organise several gangbangs.
The successful formula for us was that every woman has a bunch of male friends and acquaintances who want to fuck her. Round *those* guys up – they're a lot more likely to actually turn up than some randoms you've recruited.
Also, you need a referee – a trusted non-participant, preferably a big, imposing bloke – to make sure all the guys are wearing condoms and behaving appropriately, and make sure no non-approved persons try to barge in.
The above measures mean the recipient can just relax into it and concentrate on enjoying themselves. |
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"I've helped organise several gangbangs.
The successful formula for us was that every woman has a bunch of male friends and acquaintances who want to fuck her. Round *those* guys up – they're a lot more likely to actually turn up than some randoms you've recruited.
Also, you need a referee – a trusted non-participant, preferably a big, imposing bloke – to make sure all the guys are wearing condoms and behaving appropriately, and make sure no non-approved persons try to barge in.
The above measures mean the recipient can just relax into it and concentrate on enjoying themselves. "
Hmmm issue is don’t have a list of acquaintances or friends who want to fuck me…
But great advice again, I appreciate everyone being so helpful |
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"I've helped organise several gangbangs.
The successful formula for us was that every woman has a bunch of male friends and acquaintances who want to fuck her. Round *those* guys up – they're a lot more likely to actually turn up than some randoms you've recruited.
Also, you need a referee – a trusted non-participant, preferably a big, imposing bloke – to make sure all the guys are wearing condoms and behaving appropriately, and make sure no non-approved persons try to barge in.
The above measures mean the recipient can just relax into it and concentrate on enjoying themselves.
Hmmm issue is don’t have a list of acquaintances or friends who want to fuck me…
But great advice again, I appreciate everyone being so helpful "
You're more than welcome, OP. Gangbangs can be a wonderful experience, so I hope you can find a way to make this all happen for you! |
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I do this regularly. I'm lucky that over the years I've got to know a good group and can always get a few good guys so to speak.
I will put up when and where I'm I'm going, although I will not promise to play. Just make it clear what I'm looking for.
Then I'll spend some time on arrival at the club talking to people before picking a place to play. It has always worked well for me.
Greedy girl nights/ days are often best
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