Thanks all but it's just really killing the confidence, really don't know what to do now, is it better to have pics of my cock on my profile?
By the way the guy who messaged me then blocked me in reference to this forum post wtf weird!!
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over a year ago
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No you're not ugly so don't allow your confidence to take a knocking,its not always easy for guys on here as there are so many of you all wanting to get noticed,just have patience and don't take it too seriously,im sure good things will happen in time |
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Do you find it hard to pull in your everyday life? If so you'll more than likely find the same here too.
There's no magic formula, and it's probably more about luck than anything else.
The number of guys out there wanting some action, far exceeds the amount of action available.
You need to make yourself different from all the other bods. Your profile should reflect your personality. If it says "boring bastard", then that's what people will see you as.
If you're happy with your profile, it's then down to you to sell yourself. It's not easy, but then not everything worth having is.
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No not tried any clubs yet Crypt, been advised too before here in the forums but still a bit shy to go to any yet.
What about the pics does it help with pics of my cock? Or is that just more of a put off.
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Have to admit that I have a couples profile with my wife,this is my singles profile,but even with that it still took me ages but I think once you get a couple of verifications on your profile it may get a bit easier.
But as previous posters have said try going to a couple of socials to get yourself noticed,hang in there fella |
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over a year ago
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you seem a decent lad and at least you are coming back and thanking people for their advice... shows you are keen to take on board any learning.
all the very best to you, have fun and good times. |
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"Thanks guys will try and put a couple extra pics up tonight.
And soon as got enough courage will try a club or something."
Clubs really aren't that scary. Go one afternoon with the idea that all you will be doing is chatting to a few people. Pick a club where you can sit in at the bar clothed, get yourself a drink and get talking. |
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"The problem is the insane male/female ratio."
All I can say mate, is hang in there.
Fellow British Indian here, and it can be difficult, but defiantly try chams or the like. |
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Try a social. I'm shy too and I went to my first social last weekend. It was fine, everyone was really nice. Still never been to a club. At least at a social you can have a nice chat and mingle. X |
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Wouldnt hurt to put a few more photos up..tasteful body shots etc. Doesnt always have to be cock shots but you can have some in private gallery. Hope you can build your confidence to try a social as might help you to see what its all about rather than sit on here looking a pics and getting knock backs |
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"Thanks all but it's just really killing the confidence, really don't know what to do now, is it better to have pics of my cock on my profile?
By the way the guy who messaged me then blocked me in reference to this forum post wtf weird!!
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I hope you reported him, no need for that at all 
You could have a couple but not lots as its boring then, also a bum picture as us ladies like that sort  but no bending down type
As for your main post, yes you are cute and I think so every time I see you on my looked at list but your age is against you, as you will find others that feel the same. Just read profiles first before you send a message. Also do a search on the forums as newbies often ask for help, and good luck  |
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"After nearly 7 months, few rewrites of my profile still not doing well, thought I would ask the question, do I look like a donkeys ass??"
awww bless you babes you not got a face like a donkeys ass you are a great looking guy xxx
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Good news: you're not ugly, going by your responses here you come across as a pleasant young man and you can accommodate.
Bad news: your profile is generic, you'll be lost amongst the other zillion bland ones. Personally profiles inviting me to ask if I want to know more are ignored. Let people know about you: your likes, what you bring to the party etc.
Relax, join in and the fun will begin. |
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Hi Jay,
the simple fact is that you are yet another one of 1000's upon 1000's of single males with a brief profile on here.
The one fact that you have different to most is that you "can accomodate", but the demographics remain that women, and couples can choose from a vast array of talent on here.
This site is no open door, and never will be, unless you ARE George Clooney and have a 14 inch penis and charm to boot then a single man is just another one at the bottom of the food chain.
It's nothing personal, off anyone, it's just life |
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