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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
There are two clubs nearby: Shhh in central Newcastle, which I haven't been to, and ClubF in Stanley, which should probably start charging me rent considering how much time I spend there. So this will be mostly what ClubF is like, but a lot will apply to other places.
The bar and smoking area are the social places. That's where everyone is at the start of the night. Later, people drift off to the play rooms. But there's usually always some people around in the bar.
Some play rooms are private, some are open. In the open ones anyone can come and watch, but they can't join in unless they're invited. It's common to have multiple groups on the bigger beds.
The number one rule is that you are not expected to do anything you don't want to. You can just socialise, or just have a look at what's happening. You can play privately with people you've picked out, or you can strip naked in the middle of the dungeon and start an orgy. It's all OK. No one will judge you for it.
Most clubs will have different types of night, so check their calendar and pick one that suits you. At ClubF, Saturdays are more for couples and single women, Fridays are more mixed. Going by your profile, you might prefer the Fridays. There are also Curvy nights and a daytime Milf event once a month. |
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By * plus S OP Couple
over a year ago
newcastle |
Thanks for all that. Think I’m probably overthinking stuff. On our first visit it’ll only be me playing, but I assume it’s just a case of explaining our rules and boundaries then I can get the lay of the land and start playing. |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
The overthinking part is natural. If you've never been before, you don't know what to expect, and your imagination can go wild.
It's always good to let people know your boundaries before play starts. I'd recommend having your partner there with you while you play the first time. That way they can keep an eye on things, leaving you to just enjoy yourself. After you've got the hang of things, you can make adjustments. |
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Forget everything you expect or have been told, it’s completely different when you get there  .
Go with an open mind, what’s the worst that can happen? 
Hardest part is getting through the door! I don’t know many who’ve tried it and not good hooked lol.
It’s the best xx |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
Best piece of advice… go with an open mind and no expectations…..
Just do the pace you are happy with….
We were all new once.. just go round and say hello to people! (A hello is not an open invitation to all and sundry! Lol)
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