Respect, being able to have some conversation, being polite, smelling nice, friendly; thinking with more than just his cock and able to concentrate on me before fulfilling his needs.
When I'm in club- treating me like a person rather than a play thing. By this, I mean talking to me rather than just trying to get my attention by staring at me, playing "footsie" in the hot tub or, worse of all, touching me without being invited to.