I find it frustrating that many ladies refuse to talk to you on any level and then you see same ladies complaining they cannot find a nice guy and now have stopped meeting altogether.
If you judge everyone and refuse to talk to so many people before they have even said hello how can you expec to find suitable people?
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By *l MateMan
over a year ago
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I agree it's frustrating especially if you get deleted and blocked without someone saying "sorry you're just not my type". I don't take it personally though. The way I see it is this site is mainly for girls and couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it frustrating that many ladies refuse to talk to you on any level and then you see same ladies complaining they cannot find a nice guy and now have stopped meeting altogether.
If you judge everyone and refuse to talk to so many people before they have even said hello how can you expec to find suitable people?
Just having a moan... Feel free to join me."
I find it frustrating when people don’t read my profile,
I also find it frustrating when I say I’m not interested in someone so then I get a barrage of abuse for not being attracted to someone, which funnily enough happens on a daily basis, and I fully expect it’s the same for many woman/couples on here
Or blank / no face pic profiles just message me saying “hi” or “want to blow me in my car” because I constantly receive messages like that throughout every day, it’s tough for single men on here for a reason,
You have to stand out, a profile with 5 words and no face pic is going to get nobody’s attention if there looking,
And boring 1-2 word messages will also gather no interest
After all if you make no effort with your profile then who’s to say your actually make any effort with me ?
I’m also another that tries to defend single men as much as possible, but some of you are just far too entitled and feel like every woman on this site should drop to there knees for you. And then bitch and moan when it doesn’t go your way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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guys think because they tick your boxes thats all thats needed... i get it all the time hey im into this n that so we must be compatable ....they forget there has to be a basic attraction too then we can chat but then 90% let themseves down with the chat .. either dont know what to say or full on porn script talk ...
whats a good guy ??? anyone can say those words im one of the good guys ...really??
if i get a message that makes me think oh ill check it out .... one line profile .... no point just delete the message...and block
also the amount of guys who just whinge or worse still blame other for them getting nowhere = insant turn off...
make a effot then keep making an effot and you may just poke out of the sea full of zillions like you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ps .... we only meet single guys so we are not here to bash them far from it but come on guys its not the fault of women or couples that you are getting nowhere its closer to home and the numbers game combined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You might have just been unlucky. You also might have been communicating badly. Maybe it was a bit of each.
I think it is worth bearing in mind that women are far more in demand here than men. They have so many messages to wade through. So as a man, your messages need to stand out in some way. |
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