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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to clubs and events and talk to them.
Or sit and read though there veris and message some of the folk that he has met and you might get there honest opinion rather than a inflated trip advisor review. |
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Users who are verified MAY be more reliable, especially if from physical meets.
Anyone who's more appropriate won't be pushy for very quick meets - I always take my time and that filters some out, who are inappropriate.
Avoid getting drawn in to much explicit sexual chat, as some just want that, not meets. Likewise sending photos or being pulled offsite very quickly.
Guys at socials and clubs are easier to observe and assess, before you even chat with them.
Decide on whether you will meet those who cheat, as there are a fair few of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Users who are verified MAY be more reliable, especially if from physical meets.
Anyone who's more appropriate won't be pushy for very quick meets - I always take my time and that filters some out, who are inappropriate.
Avoid getting drawn in to much explicit sexual chat, as some just want that, not meets. Likewise sending photos or being pulled offsite very quickly.
Guys at socials and clubs are easier to observe and assess, before you even chat with them.
Decide on whether you will meet those who cheat, as there are a fair few of them. "
This is good advice.. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I have to agree with the above.
Don't rush in, take your time and you should have a better experience. Anyone asking for explicit photos or chat, is very often just after that. Perhaps pick someone with experience, rather than someone new to the lifestyle. When you have found someone you both think would be eligible, go for a social, then discuss when you get home as to how you both feel about him. It has to work for both of you. If he does, invite him to play on the proviso that he goes at your pace and that you, either of you could change your mind at any point.
Above all keep the discussion between the two of you open! Perhaps work out a signal if one of you isn't comfortable with what is happening and stick to it.
Good luck and have fun. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Any tips for picking the right single guy/gent for the first time  "
Yep…. Keep talking and talking and talking until YOU are ready!
Work on your schedule until you are 110% sure it is something you want to do… if you are not 110% keep doing what you do till you get there… |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Any tips for picking the right single guy/gent for the first time "
Actually to be honest… the title should be changed to right person/people as I don’t think there is any difference between picking a single man… or women… or couple! |
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All good advice posted previously, I would add listen to your gut instinct as it's normally right.
Are they interested In everyone needs/wants being met or only their own?
Do they respect the little boundaries, as I tend to find it they can't respect those do you really think they will respect the bigger ones you may wish to place.
Do social meets, and clubs and hopefully you meet someone the right for you. |
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