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By *usty and the Beard OP   Couple  over a year ago

Derby

Hey fabbers going to chams for 1st time this weekend, very. Excited just need some guidance around hot tub ettiquette

Is it naked, swim wear, or lingerie???

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By *oved Up 2Couple  over a year ago

nottingham

Naked in hottub. Enjoy!

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By *usty and the Beard OP   Couple  over a year ago

Derby

I'm not sure I'm confident enough for nakedness I've only gone completely naked in private meets!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple  over a year ago

Coventry

Basically naked is the only rule

However as much as you may think it's not for you, you soon forget about it and it'll all be completely normal and comfortable.

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By *usty and the Beard OP   Couple  over a year ago

Derby

Thanks guys I'm certainly not new to swinging and don't get performance anxiety or anything it's just all the wobbly. Bits but I'm sure you are right!

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By *oved Up 2Couple  over a year ago

nottingham


"Thanks guys I'm certainly not new to swinging and don't get performance anxiety or anything it's just all the wobbly. Bits but I'm sure you are right! "

Honestly hun you'll be fine. There are people of all ages, shapes and sizes. I'm very wobbly but naked feels so natural. Once you're in there your boobs will bounce in an amazing way in the bubbles xx

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple  over a year ago

Coventry

Trust me you'll really just find yourself totally care free and find it's just not a thing when your together with everyone else. Enjoy, chameleons really is our favourite club.

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By *jonesMan  over a year ago

Plymouth

The hot tubs have low lighting , you can whip your lingerie , towel etc off and it’s a few steps and you are immersed in water .

It is a bit daunting for a few seconds, as is getting out with a Boner…

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By *usty and the Beard OP   Couple  over a year ago

Derby

OK so practice my. Ninja whipping lingerie off skills then!!

Oooh yes I imagine a few poles rise out of the water

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By *he 1 2 watchWoman  over a year ago

Birmingham

A lot of us have got them lol. Like the other have said you will be fine once you get there. Clothes off and relax x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I remember my first visit, far too many years ago! That nervous feeling, unsure how people will respond or not to you, in conjunction with whatever feelings you have about your own physique in comparison to other, it all just melts away once you're there and start chatting with people! Never once had any of those pre-arrival nerves/feelings bubble up whilst there. Like the advice from fellow fabbers has been, get your kit off and relax, you'll be fine

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By *usty and the Beard OP   Couple  over a year ago

Derby

Thanks for the advice everyone honestly feel more relaxed already

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple  over a year ago

nottingham

Drop us a message- happy to give you the lowdown xx you’ll have an amazing time trust us

No pressure to play and people of all sizes shapes and ages

Enjoy

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"Thanks for the advice everyone honestly feel more relaxed already "
what day you going.? There are a group of us going on Friday x

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By *inkGinDreamsWoman  over a year ago

Mansfield

I’m going on Friday with my friends fckbudees so come say hi to us too xx

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By *eau and ArrowCouple  over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"Drop us a message- happy to give you the lowdown xx you’ll have an amazing time trust us

No pressure to play and people of all sizes shapes and ages

Enjoy "

Absolutely this. I (beau) remember my first trip and for around 30 seconds thought I needed oxygen!!!

After that I realised that we all looked pretty much the same in a towel and not everyone has the washboard abs I had envisaged in my nightmare scenario

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By *usty and the Beard OP   Couple  over a year ago

Derby


"Thanks for the advice everyone honestly feel more relaxed already what day you going.? There are a group of us going on Friday x"

Hi cali another Derby lady I see! We are going Saturday. Who's going with Friday anyone I know?

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By *usty and the Beard OP   Couple  over a year ago

Derby


"Drop us a message- happy to give you the lowdown xx you’ll have an amazing time trust us

No pressure to play and people of all sizes shapes and ages

Enjoy

Absolutely this. I (beau) remember my first trip and for around 30 seconds thought I needed oxygen!!!

After that I realised that we all looked pretty much the same in a towel and not everyone has the washboard abs I had envisaged in my nightmare scenario "

Thanks for the reassurance guys yes not expecting washboard abs we are all. Unique aren't we!

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By *usty and the Beard OP   Couple  over a year ago

Derby


"Drop us a message- happy to give you the lowdown xx you’ll have an amazing time trust us

No pressure to play and people of all sizes shapes and ages

Enjoy "

Thanks guys will. Drop. You a message

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By *ammy4funMan  over a year ago

wantage

Chams is amazing I remember my first time with an ex. Sex sex sex and all shapes and sizes so dont worry

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By *erandHerManCouple  over a year ago

Swindon

Its our first time at chams this weekend too. We are also a little nervous too so your not alone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Be my first visit on Saturday looking forward to it and nervous but does sound amazing definitely all good I’ve heard

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By *oupleofkinks82Couple  over a year ago

torfaen


"Its our first time at chams this weekend too. We are also a little nervous too so your not alone "

Same for us but sunday, I’m sure when you get in there you will forget about any inhibitions xx

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