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People That Chat and Then Block
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over a year ago
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People change their minds and to save being hassled or appearing in search they block people.
I do it with people who are not looking for my age group. Makes it easier to search. |
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over a year ago
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I block if they start bombarding with messages before I have had a chance to reply 
I get bumping a message, especially if you've been having a good chat, but some people take it to the extreme. |
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"I block if they start bombarding with messages before I have had a chance to reply
I get bumping a message, especially if you've been having a good chat, but some people take it to the extreme. "
I hate the most is 3/4 messages in quick succession ..???..??..done a runner..you ok..when you don't reply straight away or within the imaginary appropriate "reply by" time frame they set in their head.  |
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I blocked someone off another site after a few messages were sent. Mainly hello and how are you doing. Then I got a message asking if I was vaccinated? I said yes are you ?
She then sent a paragraph of some online nonsense and ranted about the vaccine and those who were vaccinated.
I blocked her  I’m guessing she would know why but you never know.
So with that example you’d think it’s a bit obvious. However as you’re only getting to know people with initial messages, you’ll never know what tiny thing has set that person’s warning signs off. It could be quite innocent remark that doesn’t sound too bad in person but in writing it’s not come across well.
Or it could be they just got bored or talking to someone else and chose them instead.
Either way it happens I admit it’s not nice but hopefully it won’t be a regular occurrence when chatting with someone.  |
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I spoke to a few for months. When i was due to have my leave.i planned to hook up.they then ghost me.
I dont get them. Im kinda guy who.if told thanks your not my type.or we nurvious bla bla bla.i take it on the chin and remain respectful. I went into chat rooms. Boy different world alltogether. Clicky as. So i just go to clubs when im home.post covid double jabbed obviously.
Live you all xx |
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The main reason people chat then block is that they have finished wanking.
Neither of us do any kind of sex chat now.
We meet social or sexual it doesn't matter but we are not collecting pics nor are we wank material |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The strangest one is when somebody sends an angry, abusive message then blocks immediately so you can't reply. That's like an angry person shouting at you from across the street then running away before you can say anything back. |
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I see a lot of statuses complaining about poor manners or just being a twat. My anxiety and mental health always makes me worried I dropped into that car but then I remember:
I have over 30 verts and that’s from active profiles. I imagine if some were active it would be more.
I pride myself on being friendly and polite.
I have a lot of friends here who believe in me.
But MAN when you like a profile and they block for whatever reason it still sucks because you can’t even look at their photos anymore. Or subconsciously agree with their statuses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic.
Hiya "
You forgot your dick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic.
Hiya
You forgot your dick "
The last lady I said hiya to chopped it off  |
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"For no reason.
Whats that about?
So frustrating "
You say it’s for no reason, but there is always a reason. You might be able to figure it out if you look at the point in the chat that it usually happens, but even if you can’t they definitely have a reason. |
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"I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic.
Hiya
You forgot your dick
The last lady I said hiya to chopped it off "
Fair play to her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic.
Hiya
You forgot your dick
The last lady I said hiya to chopped it off
Fair play to her "
I'll stick it back on as soon as I find some pritt stick |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic.
Hiya
You forgot your dick
The last lady I said hiya to chopped it off
Fair play to her
I'll stick it back on as soon as I find some pritt stick"
Lettuce know |
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We will block some one if they mess us around, such as making arrangements which they fail to keep without an explanation.
Or if after meeting them we realise that we did not/will never connect
Can't be bothered wasting time on people who we would normally not speak to over the garden fence
Live is too short
G&A |
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"For no reason.
Whats that about?
So frustrating
You say it’s for no reason, but there is always a reason. You might be able to figure it out if you look at the point in the chat that it usually happens, but even if you can’t they definitely have a reason."
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Hi OP. First and foremost don't take it personally, just move on.
I expect that this happens to most people. Has certainly happened to me: exchanged a few messages, exchanged face pics, was told that I am 'hot' and then got blocked!
I can see the POV that there is 'always a reason' but as they have blocked you you're not going to know what that reason is; so don't torment yourself by trying to work out a puzzle that you won't be able to solve! Unless of course getting blocked after a few messages is a recurring pattern for you? Perhaps look for what that pattern is IF it is a regular occurrence?
PM me if you like?
Best wishes.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have never felt the need to block anyone and don’t believe I have ever been blocked. It is what it is, if it happens just forget it, move on and leave the past behind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never felt the need to block anyone and don’t believe I have ever been blocked. It is what it is, if it happens just forget it, move on and leave the past behind "
Maybe you have had it easy so far
Many have been blocked for offering money, drug users and horrible requests
Not to mention the your fake because you won’t meet us brigade
We are not desperate thank you lol |
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"We usually get blocked when replying to a message asking if they've read our profile.
(We obviously know they haven't, just being sarcastic)"
If we know guys haven't read our profile (which is pretty obvious) when contacting us we just block them at that point. If they'd bothered to read it they'd know why... |
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"I blocked someone off another site after a few messages were sent. Mainly hello and how are you doing. Then I got a message asking if I was vaccinated? I said yes are you ?
She then sent a paragraph of some online nonsense and ranted about the vaccine and those who were vaccinated.
I blocked her I’m guessing she would know why but you never know.
So with that example you’d think it’s a bit obvious. However as you’re only getting to know people with initial messages, you’ll never know what tiny thing has set that person’s warning signs off. It could be quite innocent remark that doesn’t sound too bad in person but in writing it’s not come across well.
Or it could be they just got bored or talking to someone else and chose them instead.
Either way it happens I admit it’s not nice but hopefully it won’t be a regular occurrence when chatting with someone. "
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Everything people do here is far a reason. It takes many chats to filter out unmatched people. The unmatched get blocked. Even the nicest people do this, once there's no point in keeping interest and connection going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We blocked someone because of the state of their carpet in a pic they sent us! Probably sounds a bit harsh but hey, if their carpets that bad what state is the rest of them going to be! |
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