Last 2 recent visits to a club, during private play, I was given the green light to go bareback. With a smile on my face I politely declined and used a condom as expected.
Is this a normal occurence as it never did happen to me before?
By refusing is it likely that may hinder future encounters with the couple? |
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We've seen "bareback only" on several FAB couple profiles recently. I must admit I find it a bit surprising, considering that swinging must put you at elevated risk of STD's, inc HIV.
Personally its safe sex only for us. |
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over a year ago
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Bareback is a marmite subject here. Some love it, some won't entertain the idea. For couples I'd say it's pretty 50/50. I expect most of those that prefer BB will still use protection if asked, a smaller number will be bareback only.
I prefer bare and try a meet those that are happy to do so, but if someone insisted in a club I wouldn't refused them sex over it xx |
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"Last 2 recent visits to a club, during private play, I was given the green light to go bareback. With a smile on my face I politely declined and used a condom as expected.
Is this a normal occurence as it never did happen to me before?
By refusing is it likely that may hinder future encounters with the couple?"
It's your choice and how much risk you're prepared to accept. We'd run a mile from anyone looking for unprotected sex and that's our choice. |
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Just to clarify. I am not condemning people's preferences but surprised with the request as the option was never discussed pre-play stage. I suppose in the heat of a horny playing session some will let the guard down. |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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Protected only here after being deceived by a long term friend with benefits regarding honesty!!!! Luckily tested all safe and only my partner is bare, although would help if men would find and practice in condoms they are comfy with, im very lucky that the new freinds I have are very comfortable in them for penetration. I will take a small risk I guess orally if someone I really like, but will be making use of the sh:24 testing every three months just as back up, but am pretty selective who I play with.
While I enjoyed the bareback sensation. Sadly trust was broken never to be regained for along time. |
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"Last 2 recent visits to a club, during private play, I was given the green light to go bareback. With a smile on my face I politely declined and used a condom as expected.
Is this a normal occurence as it never did happen to me before?
By refusing is it likely that may hinder future encounters with the couple?"
Two out of two visits you’re invited to play with a couple? Fair play to you fella!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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IMO bareback feels much nicer, but there is no way in hell I'm letting anyone bareback me, with the exception of my long term partner.
I dont see a problem with barebacking people who are fuckbuddies, as there is a level of trust built up that you've developed over time and that they're not about to drop gonorrhea on your lap.
It's all personal choice though, your own internal risk assessment.
Personally, protecting mine and my partners health is more important than getting my rocks off. X
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