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over a year ago
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"How do I find my self a swinging partner "
From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.
Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.
KJ |
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"How do I find my self a swinging partner
From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.
Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.
KJ"
very helpful that you I will take your advice |
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"How do I find my self a swinging partner
From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.
Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.
KJ"
Agreed. Build a great relationship, gradually become more sexually adventurous, talk it over and maybe take little steps  |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Go to clubs and socials.
If you’re dating I suggest that you mention you’re interested in the lifestyle early on.
Alternatively you could find a fantastic partner, great 1 on 1 sex but no matter how hard you try to cajole they never agree to more.
Every successful swinging couple I have met have been completely open and honest with each other from the beginning. |
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"How do I find my self a swinging partner
From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.
Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.
KJ
Agreed. Build a great relationship, gradually become more sexually adventurous, talk it over and maybe take little steps "
We were just great friends that started to get to more than that and then realised we were both kinky.
Then after a conversation we decided to dip the toes in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do I find my self a swinging partner
From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.
Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.
KJ"
This is us. We started vanilla and built it up over time. A few years back, we would talk about who is going to wash the pots tonight, now we talk about how many men Mrs N wants in her next gang bang! We do still talk about who is going to do the pots tonight.... (Answer is mainly Mrs N but I do the cooking!). M |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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"How do I find my self a swinging partner "
It is usually a long slow process, but may happen when you least expect it.
Try a little gentle probing to test the water, an determine if there is any interest.
Go to a club as a voyeur and take it gently.
Former partner got into it slowly and eventually met another couple, whom we trusted, for bareback DVP.
The key is not to force the process, but gently moving from one level to the next. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always found mine at clubs or through here after meets. Have a meet, be charming, put in a good performance and then ask if they fancy some couple meets…… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met my previous partner through here (from a social date, not a play one) and became a couple from there! It can be done, neither of us were prolific "meeters" off here but kinda fell into a comfortable, swinging-scenario relationship. Not together anymore, but id like to think lightening can strike twice in the same place  |
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