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How many people close to you swing and do they know you do?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our neighbours from directly across the road are swingers. We didn't know until we met them at a party 25 miles away.
We agreed not to play with each other and to not mention when we might meet in the real world.... I.e. in Aldi's putting the bins out, the pub around the corner, etc. |
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I’ve recently found out that someone I’ve known for a very long times are both swingers but I’d never approach them about it but seeing her pics is amazing then drinking in the same pub as them there’s also a few others I know and have met with the upper most discretion |
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Im a delivery driver and recognised a lady on reception and got chatting and said who I was and met her a few nights later and still deliver to her now and no one is any the wiser still have a little catch up now and then |
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one of our neighbours across the street knows we are on the kink and fet and swingers circles, as he is too.
It's cool though, no big deal, no awkwardness.
He's not our type so we haven't met to play, no intentions of that.
A mate from my social circle, pre lockdowns, found out, and did visit us a couple of times for play, but not seeing him now 'coz his life situation has changed.
We've spotted a few local members from here in the area going about their dailey business, but we haven't made any kind of deliberate contact beyond perhaps a random polite cheery smile.
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I don't broadcast ther fact that I swing but if anyone asks I'm happy to admit it.
I haven't met any friends or family in the lifestyle yet but I'm sure I will at some point and it won't bother me in the slightest. |
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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago
yorkshire |
A few on here within a mile of us , one couple we recognised from their pictures.
Over the years ,we have met purely by coincidence, 4 different people we knew all of them at a club 35 miles away, one of them lived 3 doors from us.
We never play with anyone local or anyone that we know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few in our local social Club.
Quite amusing as think we all know we know but not really talked about as we're probably not suited to each other.
We quite like the local aspect but don't know that many more of the locals that appear. Mostly males surprise surprise. |
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"i met few people at my work place who i already met them in club but never mentioned to them,some time they recognized me in Club but they don't have clue where we met outside hahhaha, "
I get this quite a lot as as I meet a lot of people with my job lol
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I’m single, so a lot of the single guys on here local to me know me.
I club with a friend I worked with and bumped into a boss and his wife lol.
So, lots know I use the site and club... but I’m not a swinger as such  |
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Almost all friends know. It's not something I wish to hide. Given my lifestyle I don't need people to be surprised if they see me with one woman in the pub Tuesday and another on Friday.
Lots of friends swing or enjoy casual sex, again due to the circles I tend to move in. It's considered pretty normal.
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
We are open about it if people ask. Most of our friends know and are supportive of our lifestyle.
We know a couple who are from the same town ive known the female half for years shes a sister of a friend. Ran into them at a club. Also Cs brother is on here, we were tipped off by someone so we blocked to save questions. |
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To be fair (apart from freinds we actually met in the scene) we know very few. I think there's one or two Mrs Misfit knows and a female that Mr Misfit knows from years ago. Although I think a few people we've talked to who aren't swingers would at least consider it if their lives were different. |
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None, although I know quite a few (work & social) that have been to rios, so not necessarily swingers, but certainly open minded.
My neighbours probably suspect something is a foot with single women, men, and couples visiting our place at night and leaving early. But ah well, not everyone can live a boring or sexless life and still feel they've done all they've wanted in this world.
Closest I've shat in my back yard was when I was seeing a lady at work. Different departments. These things are great in that you get real convenient access to each other. The downside is that I guess with the close proximity and frequency, one is more likely to develop a strong non-sexual bond as well. In this case all was good. Perhaps because we were both married. I liked big asses and she liked black guys. Lasted for a couple years until I got a new contract. Also took her back to my home so I could fuck her and sleep over while the Mrs watched. |
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Yes a couple of male friends I know are on here, Ive seen their pictures they dont know Im on here.
A lady across the road is on here, shes not my type, I know she meets other guys but she doesnt have a clue I am.
Have met a couple have regulary swung with in the local garden centre one afternoon by chance, we are good friends so wasnt that awkward.
Its a small world |
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Last I read it was estimated something like 1 in 10 couples participate in or have dabbled in swinging in the uk.
Impossible to verify that number of course but found loads of people I know who I had no idea where swingerson here so could be a audible number.
That or there is something in the water around here.
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Over the years it has become a little more frequent ! 
When out shopping & the local garden centre. The school parents evening was a little unnerving at the time though ! . We laugh about it now & wonder what might have been ?? .
You’re right though , it seems to be more common but just as covert ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We live in a small village, population 350. We know of at least 7 other swingers plus ourselfs!
Are any on tv...?
Not that I know.
Or has or works at a shop in Conway
main street"
errr maybe...?? |
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I am lucky as I was pretty much in the scene from day one, as my mother ran clubs in NZ and Oz. Also she played a huge part in making:
Prostitution Reform Act 2003, making it just like any other job you pay taxes etc.
anyway I went a bit of topic, but basicly, I don't hide it and never have,
I once had a load of work people go to erotica 2k, and rang me and said (in a WTH type voice) you are on the DVD giveaway and btw atm you are on the main screen, and I said so tbh buddy, if its that big a deal, how come you are all there !!.
The scene has changed, alot, but for me its about like minded people, spose some people go fishing, others go to book club, and they don't hide that x
For the grammer and spelling police
Forgive my writing/grammer it is not the best, as I am dyslecsic. |
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"We have had quite a few local to us come up, some we know, some we know of... its simply amazing how many people enjoy this life in secret xx"
I suspect lots want to keep it priviate I don't blame them.
Rule 1 don't crap where you live |
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A close friend of Mrs A got into the lifestyle at the same time we were (by total coincidence) discussing it. And since getting into it we have been messaged by one person whom Mr A knows. We haven't mentioned it to the latter, but he occasionally attends socials, so we may have to address it at some point to save on awkwardness on the night! |
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