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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I’m a straight guy but it seems all I get messages from are men and TVs even though it’s not my interest I will be happy to make advised changes to my profile I just don’t see anything wrong with my approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I’m a straight guy but it seems all I get messages from are men and TVs even though it’s not my interest I will be happy to make advised changes to my profile I just don’t see anything wrong with my approach "
What makes you even think people should contact you and arrange a meet. It's all a gamble. Some people never have meets for various reasons. You are better off going somewhere to meet people rather then hit and hope on hetr |
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Hi and welcome to the forum 
You can use message filters to prevent men and TVs from contacting you although those who already have will still be
able to. That will solve that problem .
You profile is quite interesting and a little bit different so I'd say keep that but expand on it a bit. What kind of person would you like to meet? Are you happy to meet socially first? How do you envisage a meet going? That sort of thing.
It'll take time, single men need a lot of patience.
Good luck |
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"Thank you for that makes a lot of sense I just didn’t want to put too much on my profile tbh"
You're welcome.
It's difficult to find the right balance isn't it. If say try two or three short paragraphs.
Are you sending messages out? |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Hi I’m a straight guy but it seems all I get messages from are men and TVs even though it’s not my interest I will be happy to make advised changes to my profile I just don’t see anything wrong with my approach "
Also those that have already messaged if you block won't be able to message you so this could help you not receiving unwanted messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you consider a profile pic? I’m often put off by a silhouette profile.
You sound pretty cool, love the artist vibe - definitely expand on that.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are coming out of a pandemic, alot of people havnt been meeting, try getting along to a social or a club, you get out what you put in, like everything in life, use your message filters, and block those that have contacted you that you arent interested in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you consider a profile pic? I’m often put off by a silhouette profile.
You sound pretty cool, love the artist vibe - definitely expand on that.
Good luck "
I did have one up before but I removed it to see if everyone preferred discretion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not about luck... It's about atttaction and there is feck all the messaged nor the messager can do about that, if there isn't any"
Fair point but I know I’m a attractive guy even if everyone don’t agree lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would you consider a profile pic? I’m often put off by a silhouette profile.
You sound pretty cool, love the artist vibe - definitely expand on that.
Good luck "
Thanks for the tip |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not about luck... It's about atttaction and there is feck all the messaged nor the messager can do about that, if there isn't any
Fair point but I know I’m a attractive guy even if everyone don’t agree lol "
That may be so... But possibly not to the people you are messaging |
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