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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
You normally know within 3 or 4 messages if they are absolutely not worth the effort but then it begins. Techniques in your messaging to see what response you get. Fab is a crazy place and very hard work. We use it as a tool and not the only way. Well once clubs and socials are safe to return too that is.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile is pretty hidden. I mostly ignore the messages I receive (bar the odd one that stands out) I hunt for those who take my fancy and I approach them first.
Works for me, I’ve had some great meets !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How the heck do you sift through all the creepy messages to find a genuine person? "
Yeah takes up a load of bloody time.
Got to have patience, that's for sure x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How the heck do you sift through all the creepy messages to find a genuine person? "
Make your profile REALLY long and it puts the lazy & strange ones off  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"How the heck do you sift through all the creepy messages to find a genuine person? "
Use the filters so your able to find. I'd put further information but these threads are open to anyone to see which wouldn't help as they would see and change tactics |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"How the heck do you sift through all the creepy messages to find a genuine person?
Make your profile REALLY long and it puts the lazy & strange ones off "
Trust me that wouldn't work because most ignore the bio but message  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How the heck do you sift through all the creepy messages to find a genuine person?
Make your profile REALLY long and it puts the lazy & strange ones off "
Lol yup I've done that but I don't think the lazy ones actually read profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How the heck do you sift through all the creepy messages to find a genuine person?
Make your profile REALLY long and it puts the lazy & strange ones off
Trust me that wouldn't work because most ignore the bio but message "
Maybe I’m just unappealing then! hahaha
My filters are pretty tight, too! I wish you could filter your inbox by verified by 2+ meets x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear this all the time. There are loads of genuine people on here. "
I think you missed the point, how do you sift through all the messages to find the genuine people. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I hear this all the time. There are loads of genuine people on here.
I think you missed the point, how do you sift through all the messages to find the genuine people."
Quickest way to shift through is click delete all after that leave a status so hopefully only the genuine ones do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear this all the time. There are loads of genuine people on here.
I think you missed the point, how do you sift through all the messages to find the genuine people."
Take the advice offered earlier, filter out everyone and do the looking yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear this all the time. There are loads of genuine people on here.
I think you missed the point, how do you sift through all the messages to find the genuine people.
Take the advice offered earlier, filter out everyone and do the looking yourself. "
I might have to lol |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Worst I’ve had was just a single word… “meet”… nothing else."
Haha you're lucky... I've had one word messages that say... "Fuck?"
With that sort of attitude some men have about women, why should we be surprised at #metoo ? |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"I think you missed the point, how do you sift through all the messages to find the genuine people."
Ignore the messages.
Sometimes you'll need to do some trawling... Filter and read through profiles in your area.
You might see a person that piques your interest and drop them a line.
That's how my bf found me on here and we've been dating for over two years now. Woohoo. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you missed the point, how do you sift through all the messages to find the genuine people.
Ignore the messages.
Sometimes you'll need to do some trawling... Filter and read through profiles in your area.
You might see a person that piques your interest and drop them a line.
That's how my bf found me on here and we've been dating for over two years now. Woohoo."
Congratulations I'm not interested in relationships though. Been there done that, realized that it's not for me... I'm just going to have to start looking harder |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I hear this all the time. There are loads of genuine people on here.
I think you missed the point, how do you sift through all the messages to find the genuine people.
Take the advice offered earlier, filter out everyone and do the looking yourself.
I might have to lol"
Remember try test and error |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perseverance….
If they have no words on their profile or no profile pic: immediate delete. A hi message the same. If they can’t be bothered to make an effort, I can’t be bothered to look! "
Same here |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It can feel like wading through treacle sometimes here.
It's rare I find someone I'd want to meet nowadays tbh, I'm not meeting at min anyway.
All I can say, is spend time getting to know people and go at your pace
Have fun
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It can feel like wading through treacle sometimes here.
It's rare I find someone I'd want to meet nowadays tbh, I'm not meeting at min anyway.
All I can say, is spend time getting to know people and go at your pace
Have fun
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I can relate so much to this lol |
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