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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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New here and not sure what to put for my bio and what kind of pictures couples and females what to see.
Any help would be greatly appreciated
Thank you in advance |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Pictures are okay, but the body shots aren't the best. There's a toilet in one and better shots can be got from the self time than mirrors.
Also (and this may be completely unfair) but the combination of "cannot accommodate" and "been on and off here before" always makes us think "married and she found out". We always worry about people that keep deleting their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any tips please.
I know I'm not perfect but any advice would be appreciated
Check the FAQ
Hope this helps"
this, if more did this then we wouldnt get endless help threads, i used to reply to them and offer advice, but none was ever taken, so dont bother now, now just see them as look at me threads in desperation, harsh but true sorry
I copied this from my reply on the other exact same thread that poped up today |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Any tips please.
I know I'm not perfect but any advice would be appreciated
Check the FAQ
Hope this helps"
this, if more did this then we wouldnt get endless help threads, i used to reply to them and offer advice, but none was ever taken, so dont bother now, now just see them as look at me threads in desperation, harsh but true sorry
I copied this from my reply on the other exact same thread that poped up today"
We feel exactly the same way. |
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The main thing is that it reflects you and sells you, as it's tough here for single men.
People want to know your personality, your sexual interests, strengths and to be able to form an accurate visual understanding of how you look, so that they can gauge their attraction to you.
Any meet related practical info can add guidance - the area you're interested in, accom or travel etc - but can also be covered later during chats. |
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"Any tips please.
I know I'm not perfect but any advice would be appreciated
Check the FAQ
Hope this helps"
this, if more did this then we wouldnt get endless help threads, i used to reply to them and offer advice, but none was ever taken, so dont bother now, now just see them as look at me threads in desperation, harsh but true sorry
I copied this from my reply on the other exact same thread that poped up today"
If you don’t like the thread then don’t post in it.
The faq is a great place to start but you need to figure out what makes you who you are and be honest with yourself. I’m dyslexic and that makes it difficult for me to express myself but over time I a cultivated a profile that I think is 75 percent perfect for me. I need to inject a bit more personally in to it but the fundamentals are there, You will never get it spot on first draft just re read it every few months and change what you don’t like |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"What kind of photos do people like to see "
Smiling face shots, well dressed shots (suit, maybe), teasing shots (open trousers, shirts, etc) and tasteful nudes.
No-one wants messy backgrounds, middle fingers stuck up, toilets, kids toys, remote control or beer cans as size guides and the "grip of death" cock hold might make it look bigger but it does end up making it look like a Xenomorph. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"New here and not sure what to put for my bio and what kind of pictures couples and females what to see.
Any help would be greatly appreciated
Thank you in advance"
. I would consider changing the layout of your profile instead of a paragraph turn it into bullet points like a CV.To get a better idea of what I mean you can have a look at mine to give you a better idea of what I mean.I would add what some of your interests are be it films , sports or something else.Are you interested in attending clubs or socials if so mention it on your profile.For a single guy it can be tough as the ladies and couples have so many single guys to choose from. I think that attending clubs and socials are a good way for a single guy to get noticed and now with coming out of lockdown now will be a good time for you to consider this avenue.Best of luck with whatever you decide to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don’t like the thread then don’t post in it."
sorry but we get these threads many times a day and im sure im not the only one sick of them, do a forum search and read the advise thats been given out thousands of times, and make it your own, would you ask someone how to aprotch a women in a pub? all these threads are is look at me, sorry if that upsets some but thats the way i feel, and have as much right to post as anyonelse |
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"New here and not sure what to put for my bio and what kind of pictures couples and females what to see.
Any help would be greatly appreciated
Thank you in advance"
Maybe if you can't figure out how best to present yourself then maybe you should consider whether you should be on here at all?
We feel that you should succeed or fail on your own best efforts.  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Any tips please.
I know I'm not perfect but any advice would be appreciated
Check the FAQ
Hope this helps"
this, if more did this then we wouldnt get endless help threads, i used to reply to them and offer advice, but none was ever taken, so dont bother now, now just see them as look at me threads in desperation, harsh but true sorry
I copied this from my reply on the other exact same thread that poped up today"
 explains why I could see but couldn't remember commenting but all good  |
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If you don’t like the thread then don’t post in it.
sorry but we get these threads many times a day and im sure im not the only one sick of them, do a forum search and read the advise thats been given out thousands of times, and make it your own, would you ask someone how to aprotch a women in a pub? all these threads are is look at me, sorry if that upsets some but thats the way i feel, and have as much right to post as anyonelse"
Again there are many other threads for you so contribute to rather than ripping down someone else. Maybe I have misunderstood the advice section of the forums but I think that you’re attitude is both unhelpful and rude. |
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If you don’t like the thread then don’t post in it.
sorry but we get these threads many times a day and im sure im not the only one sick of them, do a forum search and read the advise thats been given out thousands of times, and make it your own, would you ask someone how to aprotch a women in a pub? all these threads are is look at me, sorry if that upsets some but thats the way i feel, and have as much right to post as anyonelse
Again there are many other threads for you so contribute to rather than ripping down someone else. Maybe I have misunderstood the advice section of the forums but I think that you’re attitude is both unhelpful and rude."
The question is, if the advice can be found with a simple search why not search for it than ask for it?
A bit of effort goes a long way. |
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If you don’t like the thread then don’t post in it.
sorry but we get these threads many times a day and im sure im not the only one sick of them, do a forum search and read the advise thats been given out thousands of times, and make it your own, would you ask someone how to aprotch a women in a pub? all these threads are is look at me, sorry if that upsets some but thats the way i feel, and have as much right to post as anyonelse
Again there are many other threads for you so contribute to rather than ripping down someone else. Maybe I have misunderstood the advice section of the forums but I think that you’re attitude is both unhelpful and rude.
The question is, if the advice can be found with a simple search why not search for it than ask for it?
A bit of effort goes a long way."
Exactly this and I don't think the couple were being rude at all |
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