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By *urefilth OP Man
over a year ago
Dalton-in-Furness |
Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else? |
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The sites FAQS say it isn't rude not to reply.
If the new members you're referring to are women they get hundreds of messages as soon as they join. Some men (and I'm not suggesting you're one of them) keep a look out for newly registered women and message as soon as they join. This leads to them being overwhelmed, the messages fall off the page and the women get disheartened.
A possible solution for you would be to wait until a profile is a few weeks old. |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
No one owes anyone a reply on here. And if random strangers started talking to me in the street I wouldn’t owe them one either |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
Perhaps they just aren't interested? Such is life... |
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Not sure what 'ignorance' has to do with any of this. What people here choose to respond to is up to them. If they don't like an unsolicited message they've received or perhaps the sender's profile puts them off for some reason, why would they reply and why should they need to justify that to anyone?
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
Milford Haven |
"Not sure what 'ignorance' has to do with any of this. What people here choose to respond to is up to them. If they don't like an unsolicited message they've received or perhaps the sender's profile puts them off for some reason, why would they reply and why should they need to justify that to anyone?
Totally agree, you then have know fuss and move on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
Is spreading fella , it’s spreading |
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In my first 2 days on here with no pics on my profile I still got over 800 messages.
Luckily I was warned about this in advance but I know some women feel totally overwhelmed and leave.
Don't be surprised if they don't reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
You've messaged a 1 day old female profile with no verifications and not got a response. You've then posted their name in your status to ask if anyone else has been ignored?
Just to be clear, who's being ignorant in this scenario? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people get flooded and then they get assholes who start being abusive when they dont get a reponse.
Hell, sometimes I'll even message new women simply saying that it might happen and that they should try not to let it discourage them. |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?
You've messaged a 1 day old female profile with no verifications and not got a response. You've then posted their name in your status to ask if anyone else has been ignored?
Just to be clear, who's being ignorant in this scenario? "
it's like it here in Wales and its not just the new ones most been on here for a long time like it aswell and abuse towards people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some it's just not possible to read all their mail. It's not being ignorant. How can they reply if they haven't seen it. And no I don't speak to every stranger that talks to me in the street either OP   |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I tend not to message newbies, not because I think they could be ignorant, but because I like to know they are genuine and here for the right reasons.
To suggest they are being ignorant for not replying is wrong. You won't be the only one messaging 'fresh meat', ( is that how you think of them?), as others have said they could be overwhelmed or other messages may be more suited for what they are looking for. |
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You’re not playing by the site rules if you’re expecting people to reply when they’re not interested. Maybe a refresh is in order?
Your profile won’t have universal appeal, so even if you’re really careful with who you message because you think you’re their type, they might not agree. That isn’t rude though. |
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I'm a relative newby and what I've learnt is to just be patient.
There's a weird pressure when you start to try and fuck anything with a picture, but the more you talk the more you realise we're all in the same boat. The huge amount of single men on here is also a factor and you're competing for attention with alot of other guys with pics of their huge dicks.
Sometimes it takes longer than other times and I'd rather have someone good to enjoy it with. I know too never to take being ignored as personal rejection either. You guys have no idea who I am, but that's cool. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
I have not noticed new women members being ignorant OP . I have noticed many leave fairly quickly probably because they receive unsavoury messages from ignorant men. |
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If blokes in the street started randomly talking to me with choice lines like "I wanna cum all over them massive titties" and "u free? Really need to drain my balls" then you can absofuckinglutely bet I would very quickly stop acknowledging 99.9% of the men I saw on the street even if they thrust themselves into my space with conversation I didn't seek out. |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
Quite the contrary, it's you who are ignorant. The FAQs clearly state that no response is a no. |
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over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
Their choice dnt you think. If you have read their profile and you arent what they want then you wnt get an answer just saying |
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"If blokes in the street started randomly talking to me with choice lines like "I wanna cum all over them massive titties" and "u free? Really need to drain my balls" then you can absofuckinglutely bet I would very quickly stop acknowledging 99.9% of the men I saw on the street even if they thrust themselves into my space with conversation I didn't seek out."
Ha ha ha! This! Some of these messages are wild. Who do they think they’re talking to? You could never get a decent meet out of a guy who things that kind of message is cool. They’re all jokers. |
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"If blokes in the street started randomly talking to me with choice lines like "I wanna cum all over them massive titties" and "u free? Really need to drain my balls" then you can absofuckinglutely bet I would very quickly stop acknowledging 99.9% of the men I saw on the street even if they thrust themselves into my space with conversation I didn't seek out.
Ha ha ha! This! Some of these messages are wild. Who do they think they’re talking to? You could never get a decent meet out of a guy who things that kind of message is cool. They’re all jokers. "
I'm fairness from what some of the blokes I do chat to on here have told me there are some fairly grim messages being sent by women too, I just don't see them because I'm not what they're looking for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
Newbies probably still trying to figure out the filter system
It's full on for females when joining!  |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?
Newbies probably still trying to figure out the filter system
It's full on for females when joining! "
Quite.
I think all profiles should start with maximum filters, to give new people chance to find their feet.
Then get a message after a 2/3 weeks to remind them to change settings, if they want to. |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
It appears they are not ignorant and have actual read the site faqs.
No one is owed a reply. |
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"If blokes in the street started randomly talking to me with choice lines like "I wanna cum all over them massive titties" and "u free? Really need to drain my balls" then you can absofuckinglutely bet I would very quickly stop acknowledging 99.9% of the men I saw on the street even if they thrust themselves into my space with conversation I didn't seek out.
Ha ha ha! This! Some of these messages are wild. Who do they think they’re talking to? You could never get a decent meet out of a guy who things that kind of message is cool. They’re all jokers.
I'm fairness from what some of the blokes I do chat to on here have told me there are some fairly grim messages being sent by women too, I just don't see them because I'm not what they're looking for!"
I’m sure there are a lot of people on here like that full stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?
Newbies probably still trying to figure out the filter system
It's full on for females when joining!
Quite.
I think all profiles should start with maximum filters, to give new people chance to find their feet.
Then get a message after a 2/3 weeks to remind them to change settings, if they want to."
Brilliant idea, I never thought of that! |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?
Newbies probably still trying to figure out the filter system
It's full on for females when joining!
Quite.
I think all profiles should start with maximum filters, to give new people chance to find their feet.
Then get a message after a 2/3 weeks to remind them to change settings, if they want to.
Brilliant idea, I never thought of that!"
Ah, I'm not just a pretty face  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
Women, ladies get stock piles of messages try being a female for a day getting hounded by hundreds of messages as you open one to read in that split second have received another load and it's not being rude not replying people aren't glued to the site 24/7 and just same as anyone are here looking for someone they don't need looking for as they are here for themselves.
Hope this helps you understand. |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
There is nothing wrong with not replying.
If we got a message from you, we would take one look at your profile and not reply.
Way too many cock photos. |
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It depends what you’re saying to them whether they ignore you or not. We ignore 85% of messages we get!
If you can’t write something inspiring or attention grabbing - then why should you be one of the several hundred who email a week, who we reply to?
Also, if people can’t be bothered to read out profile which clearly has info about messaging, then we delete most messages we receive because why should we give them time if they don’t have time to read about us and instead just fire off copy and pasted bullshit they send to 50 people a night. It’s obvious and lazy
Haha I’m ranting now so I’ll shush. But yeh, when re receive nice, polite and unique messages we all ways reply. “Hey, how’s you” etc and you’re getting deleted. Not enough time in the day to reply to all of those. |
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"18 out of 21 photos are cock photos.
Are you REALLY surprised people don't answer??"
Definitely a agree with this. If you absolutely must, then one of you knob is enough. We never choose people based on cock pics |
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"A lot of people take a reply as an invitation to continue the conversation, so most don’t reply unless they actively want that conversation to happen.
Them’s the apples. "
Absolutely!
Wonder if guys like op will ever realize that moaning/criticizing ladies and couples on here just gets them blocked by people they've never even contacted... |
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"A lot of people take a reply as an invitation to continue the conversation, so most don’t reply unless they actively want that conversation to happen.
Them’s the apples.
Absolutely!
Wonder if guys like op will ever realize that moaning/criticizing ladies and couples on here just gets them blocked by people they've never even contacted..."
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Replying really isn't worth the effort if you're nit interested as 9/10 x it just leads to abuse and begging messages
Guys don't do themselves if they can't accept no meaning no in a message does any guy honestly think they'd risk meeting them |
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When I joined as a single with no pics and not much text, I was inundated with messages, it can be a bit to much.
Maybe they need chance to settle in first, or maybe they can't reply to all the messages they get,or don't want to reply to some of them.
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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago
Newcastle-under-Lyme |
I don’t receive as many messages as many of the ladies on here seem to but I still don’t reply to them all for various reasons. Many are not worth replying to anyway such as the Hi, hey you, nice tits variety. Many are from people
who have obviously not read my profile which states my preferences very clearly. Finally it may come as a big surprise but I actually have a life outside of Fab and I chose what I want to do with my precious spare time which doesn’t involve my spending all my time on here. If someone arouses my interest I may reply but otherwise it’s delete and/or block. My time. My choice. |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
55 replies to your initial comment and you haven’t replied to one. Stop complaining about ignorance if you’re hypocritically one of the ignorant yourself. |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?
55 replies to your initial comment and you haven’t replied to one. Stop complaining about ignorance if you’re hypocritically one of the ignorant yourself. "
This |
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We dont reply to all the unwanted junk mail that comes through our letter box, to say no thanks!
Do you OP?
The only messages you should be interested in getting are positive ones from people that want to meet you. Not negative ones saying no thanks. |
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"A lot of people take a reply as an invitation to continue the conversation, so most don’t reply unless they actively want that conversation to happen.
Them’s the apples. "
This exactly
I actually set up this profile while i take a break from my main profile for personal reasons. It's set up to put people off so i can read forums in peace. I left filters open however to respond to forum replies. But as others have said, within an hour of setting up this profile...with the heading "messages will be deleted" i received 216 in the first hour! So do i think newbies are ignorant, no, i think everyone uses Fab in the way they see fit x |
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over a year ago
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55 replies to your initial comment and you haven’t replied to one. Stop complaining about ignorance if you’re hypocritically one of the ignorant yourself. "
Ironic isn't it.
Here we have someone accusing newbies of being ignorant when he himself is showing that he is ignorant of the site FAQ's which deal with the very issue he is complaining about |
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over a year ago
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55 replies to your initial comment and you haven’t replied to one. Stop complaining about ignorance if you’re hypocritically one of the ignorant yourself.
Ironic isn't it.
Here we have someone accusing newbies of being ignorant when he himself is showing that he is ignorant of the site FAQ's which deal with the very issue he is complaining about"
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55 replies to your initial comment and you haven’t replied to one. Stop complaining about ignorance if you’re hypocritically one of the ignorant yourself.
Ironic isn't it.
Here we have someone accusing newbies of being ignorant when he himself is showing that he is ignorant of the site FAQ's which deal with the very issue he is complaining about"
There are things that annoy me with this site and I’ll complain about them on these forums. But nobody will criticise if you come back on and accept you were initially wrong and can see a different point of view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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55 replies to your initial comment and you haven’t replied to one. Stop complaining about ignorance if you’re hypocritically one of the ignorant yourself.
Ironic isn't it.
Here we have someone accusing newbies of being ignorant when he himself is showing that he is ignorant of the site FAQ's which deal with the very issue he is complaining about
There are things that annoy me with this site and I’ll complain about them on these forums. But nobody will criticise if you come back on and accept you were initially wrong and can see a different point of view. "
I agree. At least if you're going to start a thread in the forum you should keep an eye on how it goes, rather than treating it like a firework and just lighting it and running away to let it explode all on it's own |
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55 replies to your initial comment and you haven’t replied to one. Stop complaining about ignorance if you’re hypocritically one of the ignorant yourself.
Ironic isn't it.
Here we have someone accusing newbies of being ignorant when he himself is showing that he is ignorant of the site FAQ's which deal with the very issue he is complaining about
There are things that annoy me with this site and I’ll complain about them on these forums. But nobody will criticise if you come back on and accept you were initially wrong and can see a different point of view.
I agree. At least if you're going to start a thread in the forum you should keep an eye on how it goes, rather than treating it like a firework and just lighting it and running away to let it explode all on it's own"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so they are ignorent because the dont imediatly drop their knickers for you, the site doesnt work that way, its not instashag, if people dont reply to us we take it as they arent interested and we move on |
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Calling anyone 'ignorant' is something best avoided.
Use of the word can be inflammatory and conveys an air of superiority which, as shown in this case, often paints the user in a poorer light than the target. |
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"The sites FAQS say it isn't rude not to reply.
If the new members you're referring to are women they get hundreds of messages as soon as they join. Some men (and I'm not suggesting you're one of them) keep a look out for newly registered women and message as soon as they join. This leads to them being overwhelmed, the messages fall off the page and the women get disheartened.
A possible solution for you would be to wait until a profile is a few weeks old."
More often than not this is the case, well said admin x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we get a message that is either just aimed at me (P) telling what they would do, without a thought as to whether I might like them to do it or not, or a black silhouette or cock pic gets instant delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If blokes in the street started randomly talking to me with choice lines like "I wanna cum all over them massive titties" and "u free? Really need to drain my balls" then you can absofuckinglutely bet I would very quickly stop acknowledging 99.9% of the men I saw on the street even if they thrust themselves into my space with conversation I didn't seek out."
Never one to mince ones words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP do you drive up the backend of Learner drivers and shout at them too? "
Don't get me started on people who do that.
I'm teaching my eldest to drive, and she hasn't been out on the car in nearly 2 months because of some such ar$ehole in a Mercedes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
Maybe it has something to do with your reputation of naming and shaming people who don't reply to your messages. I've been on the receiving end of it and it's not nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?
No one owes anyone a reply on here. And if random strangers started talking to me in the street I wouldn’t owe them one either "
It's incredibly important to assume people are rude for not replying to you OP. It stinks of arrogance and entitlement when people expect a reply.
This isn't real life and as this comment says you're not going to get several strangers saying hello to you at once and taking a reply as an " I want to have sex with you."
We're looking for people we eant to meet and it's a waste of energy replying to every single person you're not into to say " no thankyou "
Some continue to message and some decice to be childish about it.
I got a " you're not my type" from a guy and I accepted it
I said to them they didn't need to reply if not interested.
Just be humble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have strict filters in place but still delete the majority of my messages unread based on
- senders location if too far away
- if the preview shows a short message e.g. hi or lol or ‘want to fuck’ etc
I check profiles before opening a message, so if they’re not what I’m looking for those messages are deleted unread and I block the profile too
I like to concentrate on people who love local and send a decent message, I’ve no interest in anyone else
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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Alternatively, send 20 messages a day, receive 20 no thank you messages (and if they've any sense, 20 blocks)
At the end of the week your inbox has 140 no thank you messages and you've been blocked by 140 people.
You choose.....
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"OP do you drive up the backend of Learner drivers and shout at them too?
Don't get me started on people who do that.
I'm teaching my eldest to drive, and she hasn't been out on the car in nearly 2 months because of some such ar$ehole in a Mercedes"
That’s a shame |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If blokes in the street started randomly talking to me with choice lines like "I wanna cum all over them massive titties" and "u free? Really need to drain my balls" then you can absofuckinglutely bet I would very quickly stop acknowledging 99.9% of the men I saw on the street even if they thrust themselves into my space with conversation I didn't seek out."
Exactly, they behave so entitled. Instant block for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just accept as loss and move on.
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The OP is totally ignoring his thread What's that about... & As for reacting to strangers that speak to me in the street OP, no way would I unless they were genuinely looking for directions... there's freaks everywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’d totally ignore 200 people lining up in the street all trying to say hi/in your area now/look at my cock/wuu2/watch me wank/the 1 nice message you sometimes get. Imagine having to deal with that every time you went to Tesco. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sites FAQS say it isn't rude not to reply.
If the new members you're referring to are women they get hundreds of messages as soon as they join. Some men (and I'm not suggesting you're one of them) keep a look out for newly registered women and message as soon as they join. This leads to them being overwhelmed, the messages fall off the page and the women get disheartened.
A possible solution for you would be to wait until a profile is a few weeks old."
I prefer to do this to new single female accounts. Putting them on my hot list and drop a message after a few weeks when things settle down It's worked in my favour a few times  |
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"Has anybody else noticed how the majority of the new members are ignorant?
You message them and they don't reply. I wonder if they'd do that in real life if someone spoke to them in the street?
Is it just here in Cumbria or is it as bad everywhere else?"
Nothing wrong with Cumbria mate, I’ve done very well on this site over the years 
I have been ignored face to face in swinger clubs as a solo guy though, so yes, it does happen in real life |
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