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By *isa2018 OP Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
** Re-posted due to spelling error/autocorrect and inability to edit posts! Frustrating when it happens twice! **
Does this actually work for anyone? Those 'I'm in your area today....how about it' type messages?
I can understand it if you have put out a meet request or a status saying you are looking to meet today, but a normal approach?
I'm afraid that just ends up as an easy decision to block and delete for me. |
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By *h508Man
over a year ago
Guildford |
I will, rather embarrassingly, admit that I sent a message or two like that when I joined and I can confirm that it did not in fact work  In hindsight, daft thing to do, but you live and learn! |
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"It's really funny though because when I asked them whereabouts in my area they are, and they have absolutely no clue where my area is...."
Makes me laugh when that happens, " im in your area" " which part of my area as the South East overs a few miles lmao
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"** Re-posted due to spelling error/autocorrect and inability to edit posts! Frustrating when it happens twice! **
Does this actually work for anyone? Those 'I'm in your area today....how about it' type messages?
I can understand it if you have put out a meet request or a status saying you are looking to meet today, but a normal approach?
I'm afraid that just ends up as an easy decision to block and delete for me."
i really don't like them messages, I feel like an escort replying back. at least escorts get paid well  |
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"we would never meet someone who says that to us, shouts of desperation, plus we like to meet people fairly local, so repeat meets are possable"
I feel the same but if you tell them this they promise that even though they live 200 miles away they can regularly be near-by.
It still a no from me. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
In all honesty, if it came at the right time from someone that met our criteria then it would work for us. Char has fatigue and pain issues and sometimes we'll have a meet planned and she'll rest up the day before, have a bath and get prepared only for the guy to cancel or ghost us. If someone happened to message in the following few hours we'd probably say yes as we don't like wasting our few opportunities.
But in general, we just delete them. |
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"Male half here, it's quite funny I drive around a lot for work and sometimes leave the who's nearby on. The volume of messages we get saying 'your close to me, fancy meeting' is untrue. "
Yep! Literally getting that now! I also work in different areas. |
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We’ve been tempted to a guys hotel room on a couple lf occasions so it does work for us.
Usually we like some chat, a social drink and the arrange play for another night, but sometimes we’re feeling spontaneous and if the guys already paid for the hotel then we go for it.
Worst case we don’t get along we can just go home without playing. |
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Always have a look who’s nearby and as you can see from my Veri’s had some great meets with couples and females when working away.
Some couples like the fact you don’t live in the same village and can stalk them in Tesco express.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it doesn't work on me, never has. I'm not going to just drop what I'm doing just because some random guy says he's in my area. Time to myself is more important x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For once I understand that messages of this type might frustrating - however because I travel often, I change my location by stating it in my status oe headline location
I do that just in the case that someone might be free - simple as that
It might be wrong, but sometimes off the cuff meets, unplanned last min meets , can sometimes be wonderful surprises
J xx  |
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"No problem with asking, just like there is no problem responding “No” or not responding at all depending on how you roll
Not when it specifically says not in my profile!"
Clearly not, it makes no sense to approach someone who has asked not to be approached. |
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"** Re-posted due to spelling error/autocorrect and inability to edit posts! Frustrating when it happens twice! **
Does this actually work for anyone? Those 'I'm in your area today....how about it' type messages?
I can understand it if you have put out a meet request or a status saying you are looking to meet today, but a normal approach?
I'm afraid that just ends up as an easy decision to block and delete for me."
It's never worked for me, whenever I've been away with a hotel room to myself for one or two nights, but maybe that was maybe a local issue with Liverpool and Birmingham? I altered my location to show local, listed up a 'Hotel meet' for the dates, and posted regular status updates on the run up, but never any luck for me. A female friend of mine has met several guys staying in Lakes hotels though, and has another planned for next week, so it does work for some  |
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