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By *ruit OP Woman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I had a guy message me with nothing to show me that he read or looked at my profile and inluded about 6 pictures of his cock from different angles from closer shots to knees to neck and his naked cock.
I was amazed to think he may get anywhere by not reading my profile and was clear it was all about his dick!
Do other people just take pic upon pick of their naughty bits and send them in mail to just anyone.
Just made me chuckle. What other bif mistakes have others made with mailing people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy message me with nothing to show me that he read or looked at my profile and inluded about 6 pictures of his cock from different angles from closer shots to knees to neck and his naked cock.
I was amazed to think he may get anywhere by not reading my profile and was clear it was all about his dick!
Do other people just take pic upon pick of their naughty bits and send them in mail to just anyone.
Just made me chuckle. What other bif mistakes have others made with mailing people?"
Presumably you're just on your way to meet him right this second?! 
I find multiple cock pics very amusing. I think one cock pic is enough. I don't need to see it from different angles! 
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By *ruit OP Woman
over a year ago
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Yes I deleted and blocked the cock msn immediately and certainly multiple shots of the same body part made me pick him for a meet over the other people that actually read my profile but havent had anyone mail me with such a humours mail in ages.
Anyone else get mail that makes you think.....you have to be joking!
Mind you I did have a man with a profile based on a 1 inch cock erect and was I interested. Again he didnt read my profile but the initial mail was funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel I am lucky in the fact that my penis appears decidedly average in pictures and therefore using it as an opening gambit to entice the fairer sex towards me would be a foolish move
Therefore I am forced to use my charm, wit, humour, banter and personality to attract women to me...... |
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By *imimeeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Anyone else get mail that makes you think.....you have to be joking!
All the time.  "
Soo many. Especially at 1 am. Because we all want to get dressed and service a bloke who has never messaged us before at that time of night, don't we?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else get mail that makes you think.....you have to be joking!
All the time.
Soo many. Especially at 1 am. Because we all want to get dressed and service a bloke who has never messaged us before at that time of night, don't we?? "
lol! So true!! |
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Soo many. Especially at 1 am. Because we all want to get dressed and service a bloke who has never messaged us before at that time of night, don't we?? "
Aren't you all dressed up in high heels and suspenders 24/7 then? What sort of swingers are you ?? haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only send cock pics on request, but imagine someone sending a picture of a cock to someone on a swingers website!
What kind of an age are we living in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This really winds us up too. We all know what a cock looks like. As I also read messages(m here) then being presented with said cock pic isn't going to impress or entice me lol.
Some single guys moan about couples no answering etc but when 85% of messages are just basically treating my wife like a piece of meat it does get tiresome.
Rant over. Breath. Coffee. Ahhhhhhhh |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
I had a wink from a guy today, so I looked at his profile and he had 46 - yes, 46 - various cock shots on his public pics!!! Same cock, different views!! None of his face of course, and his cock wasn't anything to write home about either! Talk about cock overload! Proper put me off my cornflakes!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many profiles on here where the female will have a criteria such as 'guy must be well endowed' or '8 inches plus'.
If you have things like this on your profile them guys are going to send pics to prove that they match your expectations.
The easiest thing would be to delete these messages of unwanted pics and move onto the next message.
No drama.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many profiles on here where the female will have a criteria such as 'guy must be well endowed' or '8 inches plus'.
If you have things like this on your profile them guys are going to send pics to prove that they match your expectations.
The easiest thing would be to delete these messages of unwanted pics and move onto the next message.
No drama.."
well you should still only send them pictures on a opening message if they say cock must be 8" send cock pic with message
really this aint a hard one to work out that sending a picture of your cock as a opening message when not asked for will cost you far more meets than it will get you.
no harm showing it on your profile along with a load of other pictures of you like your face and body, no one takes offence that at that, but sending as a opening message kinda tells the woman its only about your cock, and makes her think your just like the rest of the guys she dont want to meet, they much more effective just left on profile or friends photos or sent when they are asked for
if they say dont message unless u have a 8"+ then by messaging back after reading their profile they should assume you have one, no need to send them pic as well, they will ask if they cant see it and its important for them to see it
but if ur a guy who hates being tarred with the same brush as the rest of the usless single guys on here, then dont make the same mistakes as them as the ladies will just assume you are if you do the same stuff they always do
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People actually do this? Hmm... I have photos of my body bits in my gallery. I have a face photo (NOT a facial photo) in my private gallery. If people ask to see what the missing bit looks like - I'm usually happy to send it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont think its the fact that lasses dont like looking at it, as sure plenty do (when its someone who interests them)
i just think most look it at and think "oh heres another guy that thinks all he has to do send me a picture of his cock and i will fuck him" once they think that your never getting a meet out of principle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy message me with nothing to show me that he read or looked at my profile and inluded about 6 pictures of his cock from different angles from closer shots to knees to neck and his naked cock.
I was amazed to think he may get anywhere by not reading my profile and was clear it was all about his dick!
Do other people just take pic upon pick of their naughty bits and send them in mail to just anyone.
Just made me chuckle. What other bif mistakes have others made with mailing people?"
We had a guy send us 20 cock pics, all different angles!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy message me with nothing to show me that he read or looked at my profile and inluded about 6 pictures of his cock from different angles from closer shots to knees to neck and his naked cock.
I was amazed to think he may get anywhere by not reading my profile and was clear it was all about his dick!
Do other people just take pic upon pick of their naughty bits and send them in mail to just anyone.
Just made me chuckle. What other bif mistakes have others made with mailing people?
We had a guy send us 20 cock pics, all different angles!
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Yeah, sorry about that. It is amazing though, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy message me with nothing to show me that he read or looked at my profile and inluded about 6 pictures of his cock from different angles from closer shots to knees to neck and his naked cock.
I was amazed to think he may get anywhere by not reading my profile and was clear it was all about his dick!
Do other people just take pic upon pick of their naughty bits and send them in mail to just anyone.
Just made me chuckle. What other bif mistakes have others made with mailing people?
We had a guy send us 20 cock pics, all different angles!
Yeah, sorry about that. It is amazing though, right? "
Of course;-)
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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago
Bradford |
I have done it when I 1st joined but not loads but now I just attach a couple of face pics n after a few messages if you become friends then the woman gets to see them kind of pics anyway also if there public then she can just fab them n see them if she feels like it if not no big deal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you all referring to the pics in messages that you send. Because a lot of people have pictures of their body parts taken from different angles, some people have loads of different bending over pics, and even if the knickers are different, its still a bending over pic.
Guys could argue the same thing, we all know what a vagina looks like and many of us have shots like that, I do for one.
If I send pics in private messages they are facial shots of the two of us together. We do have a cock shot that is sent on request but to be fair not many women actually ask specifically for it, they are interested in face and body shots  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never send cock shots on a message unless their profile asks for one.
Besides, there are a couple on my profile if someone looks and according to a new friend from the forum, I have quite a nice one by all accounts. Although not sure what her criteria of 'nice' is lol |
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By *ruit OP Woman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I was referring to an inital message he sent to me with 6 shots of his dick, I dont specify it needs to be so many inches long or anything like that.
I also have various pictures of my naughty bits but would never dream of sending 6 pics of it taken from different angles...open pussy, pussy with toy, left pussy lips, right pussy lips, back view from bottom to pussy, then other view from pussy to bottom!!! all that in my first mail.....o and then not even bother to read their profile and see I dont meet smokers, or they are not in my age range or even refer to me by name....its just so stupid.
If i am sending an initial mail showing my interest then I would send a face pic and a body pic too (not pussy ass or anything like that) but the main parts visible to others that makes me me...my body and my face (cant send a pic of my brain mind you it would be sooo tiny).
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By *imimeeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I won't meet a guy who won't show me his face, and its not because I am shallow and will only meet Michael Fassbender look alikes! Why would anyone think that another person would be willing to meet them for sex and not know what they look like? And for another thing, if you don't know what they look like, how can you recognise them in a public place? You can hardly ask every guy who passes you to wang their willy out, because its the only form of identification you have been given!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only send cock pics on request, but imagine someone sending a picture of a cock to someone on a swingers website!
What kind of an age are we living in "
Very true.lol |
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