Having a hard time caus I’m single male people think I’m using cut and paste but I’m not it’s just how I start chatting I’m only one person I think people don’t like me on here
Not sure what to do I do enjoy the cars sometimes
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Ignore all the pish just be yourself .. hell of an ignorant folk you just have to give a by. Lots of selfish profiles demanding face pics from the kick off etc. You sound quite a nice conscientious person so don't take anything personally from non replies and deleted messages. A large amount of women on here are here on a power trip stroking their egos with no pictures so get away with being ignorant whereas down the pub they'd have little chance of the same attention. Pinch of salt stuff. Lol |
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"A large amount of women on here are here on a power trip stroking their egos with no pictures so get away with being ignorant whereas down the pub they'd have little chance of the same attention."
What an absolute load of tosh!!
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"Having a hard time caus I’m single male people think I’m using cut and paste but I’m not it’s just how I start chatting I’m only one person I think people don’t like me on here
Not sure what to do I do enjoy the cars sometimes
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Have you ever thought that it might be something else?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mean to be rude but you're profile litterally tells me nothing except the fact you are 47, can't travel or accommodate.
You could look like Chris Hemsworth in your photos and I'd not be interested based on that. |
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"Having a hard time caus I’m single male people think I’m using cut and paste but I’m not it’s just how I start chatting I’m only one person I think people don’t like me on here
Not sure what to do I do enjoy the cars sometimes
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have exact same prob or i get acused of my profile being fake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having a hard time caus I’m single male people think I’m using cut and paste but I’m not it’s just how I start chatting I’m only one person I think people don’t like me on here
Not sure what to do I do enjoy the cars sometimes
have exact same prob or i get acused of my profile being fake"
Your profile isn't really selling yourself and the status is off putting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I’m back "
nope still hidden, alot of men moan about other men ruining it for everyone, no they dont, they ruin things for themselves, its up to the individual to make it work, you get out what you put in |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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I always assumed the reason behind hiding the profile was either taking a break, being able to have better control limiting messages and not being pestered
So op please assist like you say in your post how can your hidden profile help you |
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"Ignore all the pish just be yourself .. hell of an ignorant folk you just have to give a by. Lots of selfish profiles demanding face pics from the kick off etc. You sound quite a nice conscientious person so don't take anything personally from non replies and deleted messages. A large amount of women on here are here on a power trip stroking their egos with no pictures so get away with being ignorant whereas down the pub they'd have little chance of the same attention. Pinch of salt stuff. Lol "
It's certainly a woman's world on here 
Hello and welcome lol |
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Why is it that so many think of the messaging facility as a live chat device, when it really isn't.
You should think of it more like writing a letter - though I guess there are some who have never written a letter in their lives.
So many profiles stating that a message like 'Hi' or 'How are you?' Will get deleted.
If you're being accused of using cut and paste messages, then you should really think about whybthat might be. It neans that your message looks too generic, as if it could have been sent to anybody.
Pretty much everyone you message will look at your profile before even thinking ofvopening your message. If it tells them nothing about you, or shows an obvious lack of effort, or is hidden, then why should they bother.
Blaming others or the site is an unattractive trait as it screams of a sense of entitlement.
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I would also say try a social or a club. Then people can see you face to face and take you as they find you in the real world. Likewise you can do the same with them. IMO that is the best way of meeting new people and preventing time wasting. |
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