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By *hoe_nix OP Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
i thought it would be so easy to find 4 chaps to join my girlfriend and i for a bit of fun
its not .. they want to change the date -- change the time
get an invite and never get back to us
my conclusion is everymans fantasy is just that ...a fantasy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is nothing new. ANyone who is seriously into organising gangbangs will tell you that you have to invite 4-5 times as many single guys as you want, cos the attrition rate is unbelievable!!! I can never understand it cos if, when I was on the scene as a single guy, if I had been lucky enough to be invited to a GB (never happened for me  Lol!) I would make damned sure I was there right on the button!!!!!! Some blokes, eh!
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By *imimeeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I agree ladies. Trying to arrange a MFF or a MMF is so much harder than you'd think it was, given most men I have chatted to say they love the idea. Getting them to commit to it is so much more difficult!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree ladies. Trying to arrange a MFF or a MMF is so much harder than you'd think it was, given most men I have chatted to say they love the idea. Getting them to commit to it is so much more difficult! "
Almost the only way to get what you want is to find a local club which holds specific Greedy Girls Nights - but even then the club cannot guarantee how many guys come along - usually cos they rack the bloody price up to single guys!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trouble is many will talk the talk and seemingly not walk the walk, this is partly down to the fact many will seek a meet via such a site when they feel the most in need, so a guy may pop on and see a gangbang arranged and so get talking and planning, get a little excited then *spurt* the need has gone, come the date they may not feel the urge so strongly.
This is also a reason why you've a better chance in clubs, being the guys that feel the urge then happen to be there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're right, to some it's just a fantasy and will never be anything else. They have a few beers then come on here to make plans but in the morning when the beer wears off, they get those cold feet ... 
I'd even make a wild and dangerous guess that some of them may even be already in a relationship and their partners don't know about it, so they can only meet when they are able to escape .... Yeah Ok I know that is far fetched but a possibility
But thankfully not everyone is like that and there are lots of genuine guys out there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would certainly not let anyone down. I just dont seem to get invited or my messages just get deleted off here. Genuine single guy too lol every start playing the violin please!  |
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I suppose we all have different fantasies, I know this type of gang bang isnt one of mine.
I think that if you say you will go somewhere and do something then you should. If you then dont turn up you deserve critism.
I think the fact that people dont want to join in and so dont commit to attending is a different matter.
I could advertise for three women to gangbang me (or whatever its called that way round), surely it would be unfair to critise all the ladies on fab who declined the offer.
Or am i missing the point here ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if I can pull four to five decent guys for a group session(just this sunday in fact)and a cpl of days notice at least...I dunno how hard it is for those complaining they cant do it.
personally I just think some of the search/selection processes of people who want these kinds of meets is the problem.Not much better than some of the single guys complaining about fakes n timewasters really.
I know about 20 guys Ive met a few times in parties etc-or those I have approached thru checking their profiles out,verifies out,frequency of meets.
I know when a mail starts going slightly off track- so I look for almost instant confirmation, very little chatter about who will be there what we will be doing etcetc-most of the time I wont even tell them who the fem/cpl will be, until I've secured the interest(I'd give a general description of the fem and area of the visit) and availability.
I prefer to use fab as a community of swingers, hence I've met some good guys, I'm always willing to be in contact with-esp if it serves my purpose of securing a meet that I cant get to(as I dont drive and barely acom)
of course some others say theyd rather do it themselves..most often with status's up saying "timewaster this timewaster that"
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"i thought it would be so easy to find 4 chaps to join my girlfriend and i for a bit of fun
its not .. they want to change the date -- change the time
get an invite and never get back to us
my conclusion is everymans fantasy is just that ...a fantasy
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Unfortunately It's the nature of the beast, for some it is a fantasy and a game, seeing if they can arrange meets and get invites, with no intention of seeing things through. These people just spoil it for "us" genuine guys who do actually meet and will always turn up when we say we will. I think part of the solution around this type of thing is looking towards verified guys, plus guys with actual meet verifications, then at least you know they are genuine in that respect. There will be times when people still let you down or can't make it, and I don't think that will ever change, just doing all you can to narrow it down as much as you can. Good luck, and you will get there in the end. |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"I agree ladies. Trying to arrange a MFF or a MMF is so much harder than you'd think it was, given most men I have chatted to say they love the idea. Getting them to commit to it is so much more difficult!
Almost the only way to get what you want is to find a local club which holds specific Greedy Girls Nights - but even then the club cannot guarantee how many guys come along - usually cos they rack the bloody price up to single guys!
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Yes they do, even for what we are doing for all those lovely ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i thought it would be so easy to find 4 chaps to join my girlfriend and i for a bit of fun
its not .. they want to change the date -- change the time
get an invite and never get back to us
my conclusion is everymans fantasy is just that ...a fantasy
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Some single men have boundaries and me no way am I stripping next to a man or him watching puts me off big time .sorry I don't think it's Xmas when I get invites every few days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i thought it would be so easy to find 4 chaps to join my girlfriend and i for a bit of fun
its not .. they want to change the date -- change the time
get an invite and never get back to us
my conclusion is everymans fantasy is just that ...a fantasy
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daft isn't it...
More chance of plaitting fog with some of 'em. Not enough ronseals out there 
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no way am I stripping next to a man or him watching puts me off big time."
I've been in hospital several times now. The nurses have you undressed and the doctors paw over you with a train of medical students. You soon realise there's no modesty left after a while and it's just a case of 'wahey there you go, fill ya boots'.
Same goes for going to the Leisure centre. I certainly don't walk around with my hands cupping me bits there either.
As for clubs, once the towel comes off, it stays off! 
Wolf
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"no way am I stripping next to a man or him watching puts me off big time.
I've been in hospital several times now. The nurses have you undressed and the doctors paw over you with a train of medical students. You soon realise there's no modesty left after a while and it's just a case of 'wahey there you go, fill ya boots'.
Same goes for going to the Leisure centre. I certainly don't walk around with my hands cupping me bits there either.
As for clubs, once the towel comes off, it stays off!
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5 men and 1 girl?
Unless your partner is looking to DP, suck and wank , all simultaneously, someone's going to be missing out.
2 guys max for me"
nah the subs on the bench get called into play after one of the players has shot his load and is basking in the afterglow with a willy like a liquorice bootlace
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably easier if offering 5 women to one man ? that's every manys fantasy ??
Organising anything with more than one person is typically a pain but if you really wanted you probably better off looking for an organised event or a club for this ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5 men and 1 girl?
Unless your partner is looking to DP, suck and wank , all simultaneously, someone's going to be missing out.
2 guys max for me"
uve confused me....missing out on what?...the female in question will eventually get round to whoever is on the sidelines.
Its not a game of "I dont wanna be last"
its a group session, everybody participates..perhaps not always at the exact same time. |
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We use this account - Greedy_Girl - to meet single guys. We've found that guys tend to fall into various catogories:
Cant walk the walk and back out quickly.
Don't want to meet a couple for MMF, their looking just to be alone with me (never going to happen).
Want to meet at ours because they cant accom, wont pay up to meet in a club etc
As soon as we tell them that a guy is an EXTRA to our play not a replacement for it they seem to dissapear into thin air.
Can't get or even maintain an erection when naked in front of another guy.
We have found some absolute stunners though that have great stamina, imaginative, well hung etc but these guys are few and far between.
I've tried a gangbang and it was dissapointing, i've tried greedy girl nights and the quality of men on offer was really poor. However, I live in hope and keep persuing the dream of many guys, all capable of getting an erection in front of other guys and satisfying my needs ... I can dream can't I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would certainly not let anyone down. I just dont seem to get invited or my messages just get deleted off here. Genuine single guy too lol every start playing the violin please! "
I totally agree!.......seems like a total mission on here just to get 1 woman to talk to you never mind 2 or 3 getting involved! And invites???.......what invites??? |
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