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"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "
Sure. It's the only thing that's needed. I strongly recommend lots of photos of it too... Next to a sky remote. Keep your socks on too.. They can't get enough of that. |
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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago
the right side of the river |
"I think it's irrelevant"
Unless you say you have a 3 inch cock. That might put a few off lol.
As I often say, I only have a 5 inch cock but most women don’t like it that wide ??
(Only joking for those that don’t get it)
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
It's irrelevant in any case, as people measure it using different criteria. Some people measure the top, some measure from the side, others measure from underneath, and some use a sky remote.
People with a 6 inch chopper, who state they have an 8 incher are doing themselves no favours at all because if they do eventually manage to bag a meet, they are going to leave the other party a little disappointed.
Sad thing is, not every woman wants an 8 inch walloper and are looking for guys around the 6 inch mark, so the 6 inch guys who add on a couple of inches are actually putting off women who would be delighted with a guy their size |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Well given the height of an individual can be just as important as a preference which people go for it could be just as important how well someone measures up to someone's taste or disappointment  |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
middle earth |
I'd rather just see a photo tbh, on some people 6 inches is massive and feels huge. I other preferences relating to penis's that I look out for more regularly than length.
Out of the profiles I've seen a lot of the numbers are 8"+ which scares me off immediately, even though my playmate is over 8 and I love his cock. There's just way more factors that matter to me other than length |
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"It's off putting. Show it in a picture without using angles. Do Men seriously measure it? Or enter cock competitions? 
It's an exhibition event at the Olympics this year"
I wonder where they’d hang the medals?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't mind as long as there are pics as evidence. Nothing worse than men boasting about their size and it turns out to be tiny.
Or profile headline as VWE but profile pic is an in-your-face chipolata.
But I am a bit of a size queen |
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"Smacks of immaturity and insecurity. "
Im.neither agreeing nor disagreeing but to be fair to the OP, it's not like there isnt a reasonable amount of profiles demanding guys be over a certain size.
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I like a big willy. If it was written on the profile I wouldn’t be offended. I wouldn’t meet someone without seeing/knowing how big their willy is. Fab meets are purely physical for me, and that I know what I do/don’t like |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Smacks of immaturity and insecurity.
Im.neither agreeing nor disagreeing but to be fair to the OP, it's not like there isnt a reasonable amount of profiles demanding guys be over a certain size.
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Bingo! That's exactly what prompted me to ask the question via the forum. The responses are certainly a mixed bag. But when you come across roughly 1/4th of profiles requesting big or having penis size requirements (i.e. 8 inches and over) I wanted to know what most people thought about it. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no?
Sure. It's the only thing that's needed. I strongly recommend lots of photos of it too... Next to a sky remote. Keep your socks on too.. They can't get enough of that. "
Socks! Don’t get me started on socks! Why do so many men leave their socks on when having sex (none that play with us!) |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
There is such a thing as too small.
There is also such a thing as too big.
There is an optimum size range but that will differ between different women.
You just need to find the right fit for you 
The sky remote, toilet roll tube, bottle of wine, can of pop are all a bit naff really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of men measure their dicks wrong too, they do it from the side or underneath I find mostly when asking them. The correct way is on top, from pubic bone to tip  |
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"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "
If I am unsure about the man then penis size listed on a profile can be the deciding factor not to engage because it is too much information from a stranger. If a profile is very good and well written then mentioning it in passing won't necessarily put me off.
However height and face photo are so much more important, at least to me.
My view is better not to have in on a profile - if someone wants to know they will ask but everyone makes their own decisions of what they think is important to include. |
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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago
Suffolk |
"A lot of men measure their dicks wrong too, they do it from the side or underneath I find mostly when asking them. The correct way is on top, from pubic bone to tip "
So from my arse, over my shoulder to the tip is wrong? Now you tell me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just take a comparison picture with a can of Lynx Africa of a Sky remote
Top tip, use travel size Lynx then it'll appear ginormous."
That's exactly what do |
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"I think it's irrelevant
Really, do you not think it's an important criteria for many straight off the bat, or some something to share after?"
Do you tell a woman your cock size if you meet her in a pub,
hi I'm x my cock is x inches long would you like a drink ? |
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"It's off putting. Show it in a picture without using angles. Do Men seriously measure it? Or enter cock competitions? "
Some of them do yes. I saw one picture yesterday of a tape measure next to his c… countless pictures and videos. He was very proud of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a picture is enough. I can tell the exact size of a penis by a picture. "
Pictures are very misleading, it is easy for a penis to look magnified and thus bigger. Should not judge against hands or as far to belly button it reaches etc, as that can skew too. I learnt ways over years to at least see some signs magnification is at play. Videos are more reliable I find as long as not super close |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There does seem to be a lot of profiles stating seeking VWE or a minimum size so there obviously are women who care about size. I do have a pic on our profile because my partner wanted to measure it so she took a pic of it. She does like to know if a guy is at least a reasonable size but it's only one factor to be considered for a potential meet, this site is about sexual experiences after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "
Chances are anybody who mentions size is also exaggerating.
Fibbing straight out of the blocks isn't a good look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gay men are notorious for exaggerating their size, they call them ‘gay inches’ which are one or two inches longer than a normal inches. This is why I have become a professor in penis size, had to be alert. It does not seem as bad amongst the straight gents though |
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I've never had a conversation with anyone on here about the size of mine so it is completely irrelevant to most.
There are profiles with more specific preferences but I don't chat to any of them so once again it's irrelevant as far as I'm concerned. |
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I guess some people want you to specify the size of penis in their profiles. Let's be honest though, you could be hung like Mandingo but if there isn't some level of attraction at facial / body / mental level then it isn't going to happen.
Personally, if I were sufficiently blessed to make it worth messaging to a 'want VWE' profile, I'd not even mention it until asked. Either way it is going to be a 'gate' as to whether you get to know that person better. And for everyone else on fab, as other replies to this thread have said, it just looks a bit seedy and desperate to have a cock pic against a sky remote or whatever... |
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Wouldn't bother, and if some asks just say its large 
I had a woman ask the size told her... to then have reply basically saying she didn't believe it.
Sent a picture of the special condoms I buy as std or xl durex don't fit.
Even though we have a clone a willy vibrator of it, sent photo next to an 8" dildo too, wouldn't have any of it.
Plus most women aren't bothered by size more how you use it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's off putting. Show it in a picture without using angles. Do Men seriously measure it? Or enter cock competitions? "
I was up for first prize, got top marks in the technical but got marked down in the artistic scores. |
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