Been on and off here for a few years, had several meets including some repeat visits, so must be doing something right.
Just gets so frustrating when 90% of messages go unread, unless getting read but not showing as read? Don't know if that's a thing. If so, I'm just not right for them :/ |
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You say that you've been here before and over several years, so you shouldn't be surprised by this.
You may have noticed, when you open a message, that fab gives you the facility to mark it as unread. There may be a number of reasons why someone may wish to do this.
You will also know that most users, on receiving a message, will check out the senders profile before they even think about looking at the message.
Now, if you've messaged someone who isn't a fan of cock pics, they're really not going to like your profile now are they?
Now, as you haven't specifically asked for profile advice, I can't give you any, but you should ask yourself if it's really the best it can be.
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"what you have to remember is that you are a small fish in a big pond, you need to sell yourself"
Exactly this! If we were looking for men, how would you entice us to give you a try? What are you going to bring to the party? Why, when there are so many other men, should we choose you?
Also, the "cannot accommodate" would be at least an amber flag for us. Yes, we do know there is more than one reason for not being able to accommodate, but, if you don't want people making assumptions, just put a short explanation on your profile. |
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"Been on and off here for a few years, had several meets including some repeat visits, so must be doing something right.
Just gets so frustrating when 90% of messages go unread, unless getting read but not showing as read? Don't know if that's a thing. If so, I'm just not right for them :/"
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"Been on and off here for a few years, had several meets including some repeat visits, so must be doing something right.
Just gets so frustrating when 90% of messages go unread, unless getting read but not showing as read? Don't know if that's a thing. If so, I'm just not right for them :/
Both maybe
Is this thread to vent your frustration or are you asking for advice ?"
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