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I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Andy feel the same as you, and have acted on it, so i would say try it, nothing to loose, but change your self from straight to curious on your profile, we instantly block guys with straight on thier profile, as im sure many others do |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock...."
That's me. Very few guys that I am attracted to as such, and not yet had the urge to kiss a guy, but love a cock in my hands or mouth and love sharing a BJ with Char 
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
where the world takes me |
I was/am the same as the original poster, i have no interest in a relationship with a man or to kiss a man, but i've discovered i love sucking a cock, and love having one in me.
Personally i have my setting on here as bi but i don't really see myself as anything other than me, i don't see the point setting boundaries and just try things and see if i like them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
Not silly at all that’s the exact kind of bi I am haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m with you op my curious side would love to be with gorgeous tv/ts to play with a hard cock and a nice kiss"
Not all of us trans girls like our original boy part (I really don’t and can’t wait to have a vag instead)… just so you know.  |
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"I’m with you op my curious side would love to be with gorgeous tv/ts to play with a hard cock and a nice kiss
Not all of us trans girls like our original boy part (I really don’t and can’t wait to have a vag instead)… just so you know. "
Well said! Xx |
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It's perhaps the most frequent type of possible bi interest in guys. 1 partner may not give you the best experience, so perhaps consider expecting to try it several times, perhaps in different ways. I'd hate to be unlucky to be put off something for life, because 1 partner just didn't allow the best experience to be enjoyed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm the same never found a man attractive but do enjoy sucking on a cock lol I say try nothing to loose just put it on your wall as something you want to try |
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
Same(ISH) here. Never quite know how to find what I am after as if you aren't really 'attracted' to guys it's difficult to know what to browse for.
What I really need is a 4 some with a couple that has bi-male... But not many of those on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I Andy feel the same as you, and have acted on it, so i would say try it, nothing to loose, but change your self from straight to curious on your profile, we instantly block guys with straight on thier profile, as im sure many others do"
Yes we do the same, I’m bi-curious (male)and have decided to act on it! Fun times ahead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
You should definitely be honest with yourself and go ahead and try this. I wondered for years what it'd be like to suck another guy's cock and found that when I tried it I really got turned on doing it. Would never kiss a bloke but feeling a hard cock in my mouth is really horny and it's also something Debs loves watching whether it's seeing me sucking a cock or getting mine sucked or 69ing with another guy. Try it. If you dont enjoy it at least you've tried! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your right, it’s just find the right people/situation that would most turn me on!"
Something else that's just occurred to me... why not add to your profile info saying that while you consider yourself to be mainly straight you want to try this with the right person? That way when people read your profile they will know that this is something you're into. Anyway hope this helps. |
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By *ove2PleaseX2Couple (MM)
over a year ago
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"Well I'm always looking for Bi MMF once you dip your toes "
Two bi guys here just add one hot female.. We are both in the Northeast as well for any singles and couples.
We were the same as the OP starting out but glad we did.. |
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I too would very much like to explore my bi side. I'm not attracted to men and don't want to kiss, but would love to wank and suck a guy. For me I'd love to try this in a bi mmf as I feel it would put me more at ease and maybe the lady could show me a thing or 2 and help me. |
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Hey op! This is really common! There have been several threads about otherwise straight guys who just want to play with a cock.
This was me for years. I didn't fancy guys at all (beyond appreciating a good looking guy) but I was fascinated with cocks. I didn't feel that the 'bi' label really fit me as I don't find men sexualy attractive but I figured it was the closest fit.
I took the plunge a few years ago and met a guy in a hotel who was looking for the same thing. It honestly felt so normal! Just like hanging out with a mate, chatting about regular stuff and making each other come
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty of guys like you op
Probably more than would admit it
Joining fabguys is an option open to you
I've had a couple of meets from there and plenty of curious straight and married guys on there just wanting to try cock
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
I was exactly like you when I started but the more I tried the more I wanted.
Tried missing and loved it.
Tried fucking and loved it.
Different ages.
I just seem to get more and more diverse.
I still wouldn't say I fancy guys though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd suggest a gay sauna when the lockdown ends. There's no pressure, but if you find someone you like you can have lots of simple play such as groping and masturbation. If you get into a situation you're uncomfortable with, guys just say they're hot and leave. The kissing thing is frightening to a lot of bicurious guys but when you've done it once or twice it becomes a lot easier, and it's very erotic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a partner ...wife in 3 weeks ....I have a yearning to play and suck a guys cock ....yes my fiancee knows and is ok with me doing it.....only had a cock in my mouth once for about 5 seconds but would definitely be interested in it again ....I enjoy my fiancee playing with my bum using vibrators and other toys but would really like to meet a guy who is in a similar situation ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like most of the people here like the idea of sucking a cock. I don't find men attractive. But some sexy stockings and panties.I can't resist. I love to suck to completion. So just give it a go and enjoy yourself. |
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I had some bi fun when I was younger. Since my mid 30s spotting 2 guys spunking at a urinal in public toilets I've gradually delved further and further into bi fantasies. Message me if you want to chat about it more. I have no interest in a relationship with men but give me a hard cock and I'll probably suck it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
I get that. The same here |
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
There is more stigma around two males, than two females sexually interacting.
However, many entangle sexual desire with romantic desire... The two can be seperate.
It's ok to want to try sucking another man's cock, you don't have to have romantic attraction, or have full physical attraction. So if the opportunity arises, ask if it would be ok to do so (consent and great opportunity) |
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
Been there just take things at your own pace. If you have the bottle try a gay sauna nobody is going to make you do things you dont want to.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
I would say that goes for the majority of bi guys, many do not kiss or hug but just enjoy cock fun. I am one of the few thta will kiss but I no longer consider it essential for a meet. That said I need to see mroe than a cock pic before I will meet a guy, or girl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Put that you're Bi curious on your profile, try to meet a couple where the guy is also down as Bi curious, this is generally accepted that you enjoy having your cock played with by a guy (wanked, maybe sucked)and that you would like to play with his cock walking it or sucking it, but no ass play. |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
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We've had the self appointed forum police questioning our sexual orientation.
We did have it as bi-curious when we were looking. For now we're happy having it as straight, perhaps in the future we'll change it back. We found when looking for bi mmf that many guys were not really bi but expecting a bj off the Mr & Mrs and then a go on the Mrs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not so much into kissing other guys, but I love bi stuff.
I am more submissive so really love playing with bi couples where the gf/wife gets off on watching their husband have his cock sucked.
Have had a few meets where it's been the other way around. The guy sucked my cock before watching me fuck the wife.
Either way, adds to the fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not so much into kissing other guys, but I love bi stuff.
I am more submissive so really love playing with bi couples where the gf/wife gets off on watching their husband have his cock sucked.
Have had a few meets where it's been the other way around. The guy sucked my cock before watching me fuck the wife.
Either way, adds to the fun!"
I love kissing guys |
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"Well I'm always looking for Bi MMF once you dip your toes"
Yes once youve tried, a bi mmf theres nothing better.
Same as the Op, i never even considered it, until one day at a club a couple were playing whilst in the hot tub, i felt a hand on my cock as i watched, then realised the ladys hands were elsewere, so the fun began and never looked back |
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears. "
Bud I was the same not long ago I thought the same but have now found I really love fucking men and woman I've nit yet been fucked I've kissed men and sucked them and really do recommend it to you to try it but be warned you will want more and whatever you think you want now is just the start your mind will open and so will your legs for new things good luck on this journey |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m getting more eager to dip my toe into a bit of my curious side but have never known how to try. Now I know this may sound silly but it’s as honest as I can be…….I’m not attracted to guys the thought of kissing a guy does less the nothing……..but ………I can appreciate a hot cock an think I’d like to try wanking maybe sucking!!! Again I know this sounds silly an probably a lot of eye rolls!!! But I think I’d like to find a similar guy to me, not a really old dude who just wants to try fuck me haha. Anyways if anyone reads this an wants to share some knowledge then I’m all ears.
Bud I was the same not long ago I thought the same but have now found I really love fucking men and woman I've nit yet been fucked I've kissed men and sucked them and really do recommend it to you to try it but be warned you will want more and whatever you think you want now is just the start your mind will open and so will your legs for new things good luck on this journey "
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Well that's a pretty ringing endorsement for moving on from the curious stage lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've heard it's called 'Fab Straight'......no?"
no pretty sure thats an example of a negative reference pretty sure he is what you call orally bi can you spot the difrence?
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By *sa JaneWoman
over a year ago
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Definitely need to update your profile to curious. Maybe look to meeting a couple where the guy is curious too then more relaxed. I have a friend who loved wanking another guy over me (his first time) which I also found amazing! Just relax and go with the flow but like others have said make it clearer on your profile what you are looking for. Good luck xx |
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By *iffyjeffMan
over a year ago
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"Definitely need to update your profile to curious. Maybe look to meeting a couple where the guy is curious too then more relaxed. I have a friend who loved wanking another guy over me (his first time) which I also found amazing! Just relax and go with the flow but like others have said make it clearer on your profile what you are looking for. Good luck xx"
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