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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For our first experience, we just want to meet a couple, watch them play and see how it goes.
are we expecting too much? going about it the wrong way? we would feel comfortable that way to start |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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We have done this before, not specifically arranged but just went with it and it was fun. Not sure we’d put huge efforts into trying to arrange it though.
Clubs are likely best for this as you can easily have that scenario, although not sure if there is much of a club scene where you are? Maybe a quick trip across the water when times allow?! |
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"yea i think we will try a club when over in england! not much of a club scene here
hoping we would find some exhibitionists on here!"
The clubs are definitely worthwhile  we’re exhibitionists but enjoy full swap as everyone has fun  |
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"For our first experience, we just want to meet a couple, watch them play and see how it goes.
are we expecting too much? going about it the wrong way? we would feel comfortable that way to start"
This should be really easy to arrange in a club, when they re-open.
Hubby and I would have no problem with this scenario. Swinging is whatever those involved want it to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have this interest, there are 2 problems though. The first is that there's no "interests" option for same room sex, the closest is soft swapping and that's something we're not comfortable with.
The second is the amount of single men that "read" our profile, at first agree to watch only then start moving the goalposts when arranging. |
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"For our first experience, we just want to meet a couple, watch them play and see how it goes.
are we expecting too much? going about it the wrong way? we would feel comfortable that way to start"
We agree, clubs are definitely the right way.
We are looking for the same thing, and found clubs a great place.
Make sure that you pick the right club though! |
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