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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been toying with the idea to go to a swingers club and really would lik try but then when start planning to go start panicking and worrying about it . Like how do I act there?what do I wear?how do you approach someone ? Just makes me so nerves in the end give up is there any advise you can give me about this and try outmy mind at ease. |
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I went for the first time recently and went with a male friend who has been to a couple of clubs himself. Guys just wore a towel and women wore sexy lingerie or just a towel.
I went with the idea that I'd be socialising and if anyone approached us, to take it from there. I know its not as easy as a single male tho. Try going to a social night 1st and get to know some people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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probably the hardest part !!!! sorry is walking into the club !!! you think everyone is watcjhing you.
But it's ok just get through the door and you are the same as everyone else !!! then you get a guided tour of the club by the staff, then normally what happens is you get a locker key and a towel and thats it !!!!
The hard part is being a sociable non pushy respectful guy once you have got that right you will have lots of fun.
So bin the nerves and go enjoy !!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends which club you go to !!! check out the club section at the top of the page they give you the prices and when single guys are allowed to go that kind of thing.
Some clubs only allow a few guys in and you may have to ring them to let them know you are coming. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I have been toying with the idea to go to a swingers club and really would lik try but then when start planning to go start panicking and worrying about it . Like how do I act there?what do I wear?how do you approach someone ? Just makes me so nerves in the end give up is there any advise you can give me about this and try outmy mind at ease. "
this is where you are going to have to help me understand a bit... because without meaning to sound harsh.... if you are adult enough to come on a site like this, then surely you are adult enough to be able to walk thru the doors of a swinging club...
everyone gets nervous going to new clubs, be that people who have swinging for 20 years.... or 20 minutes
do your research... different clubs offer different things on different nights, look at reviews, talk to people who have been to clubs,
just be yourself... talk to people , at the end of the day the worst that could happen is that someone says "no thank you"....
and if the thought of "no thanks" turns your stomach that much, then swinging isn't something you should be doing in the first place....
go... talk... take in the surroundings... its not all about playing, for a lot of clubs it is as much about the social side.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you go think of any action a bonus,go expecting nothing to happen.if it does you will be happy.id get a drink and sit down,we have seen men doing laps of the club.it makes them look desperate. |
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By *bend69Couple
over a year ago
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First visit to a club I was bloody terrified .... Infect went home 
Week later we decided to try again, we regulars now and love it!
Sit in bar relax talk to ppl we are all friendly and all there for same thing? Wear waterer u feel happiest in..... No1 looks or cares wat u look like...... Now get ready n go. Promise u won't regret it Hun . Good luck x  |
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