hi not new to swinging had some great meets in the past and a couple just resently as i have been off scean over past 12 months unfortunetly i have spent most of it in hospital and i have had to have both leg amputated above knee my last meet was great as i can only do lots of oral now just wonderd dose this put peeps off ? i can only accom now and would love to have somesingle fems around also couples but now finding it a litle hard wonderd if anyone could give e some advice ?? thank you xxx  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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1 good on you for posting this and I wish your continued journey on Fab well.
2 pop your situation on your profile and people can make an informed choice.
3 enjoy the forums, chat and all the features on Fab, it will get your profile noticed.
all the very best to you.
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I do admire this post and am kind of cringing as I type this, but have you considered a profile on a fetish website ?
There is a scene for amputees and a related fetish.
You may not wish to be defined by that and you may think it as 'sick' for someone to want to be with you because of your position, but the reason I posted was because it may put you in contact with other people in your position.
I know there are specialist groups to help people adjust but I doubt 'how do i continue swinging ?' is a commonly asked question, so it could make it easier to talk in a more informal manner with people who have similar experiences.
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Respect!
However, I'm curious why you say you can only do oral. I don't want you to divulge details of your condition but I've heard many stories and even seen televised stories of chairbound people managing to have penetrative sex.
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thanks for the advice
"I do admire this post and am kind of cringing as I type this, but have you considered a profile on a fetish website ?
There is a scene for amputees and a related fetish.
You may not wish to be defined by that and you may think it as 'sick' for someone to want to be with you because of your position, but the reason I posted was because it may put you in contact with other people in your position.
I know there are specialist groups to help people adjust but I doubt 'how do i continue swinging ?' is a commonly asked question, so it could make it easier to talk in a more informal manner with people who have similar experiences.
I hope you aren't offended by the suggestion as none is intended."
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"1 good on you for posting this and I wish your continued journey on Fab well.
2 pop your situation on your profile and people can make an informed choice.
3 enjoy the forums, chat and all the features on Fab, it will get your profile noticed.
all the very best to you.
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By *..taijituCouple
over a year ago
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Wow, this is the first post I have seen where it is not trivial. Firstly, I hope you are adjusting now you are home. Maybe if you contact previous meets, as they know you already, you would gain either confidence with adjusting, or keeping the sexual contact going for when needed. That fella with the advice above seems to have valid ideas. I am honest, personally if I were seeking to swing with guys... I would not be interested. I only say this as you asked for honesty. If god forbid an accident happened at anytime to a partner, it is a very different matter however. Best of luck xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done for posting and being honest and upfront. I don't know where I would begin if I were you.
There are some wonderful people out in Fab Land, but they are hard to find. Like people have suggested, if you haven't already put a little info in your profile about your needs. Hopefully you will find what you require. |
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Wow. You're not a half a man. You're more a man for being so open. I take my hat off to you.
This is for everyone as no one really think on how illness or circumstances can affect swinging or their sex life because we always think it won't happen to us but it could. Most people in these situations would think to call it a day, assuming no one would be interested. But I honestly believe that people are more understanding than we imagine if you just ask them.
What you've done here is to show that swinging is for everyone. Top bloke! New name of the thread, I think.  |
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"Wow. You're not a half a man. You're more a man for being so open. I take my hat off to you.
This is for everyone as no one really think on how illness or circumstances can affect swinging or their sex life because we always think it won't happen to us but it could. Most people in these situations would think to call it a day, assuming no one would be interested. But I honestly believe that people are more understanding than we imagine if you just ask them.
What you've done here is to show that swinging is for everyone. Top bloke! New name of the thread, I think. "
thank you much appreasiated
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By *..taijituCouple
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"Wow. You're not a half a man. You're more a man for being so open. I take my hat off to you.
This is for everyone as no one really think on how illness or circumstances can affect swinging or their sex life because we always think it won't happen to us but it could. Most people in these situations would think to call it a day, assuming no one would be interested. But I honestly believe that people are more understanding than we imagine if you just ask them.
What you've done here is to show that swinging is for everyone. Top bloke! New name of the thread, I think. "
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"Wow, this is the first post I have seen where it is not trivial. Firstly, I hope you are adjusting now you are home. Maybe if you contact previous meets, as they know you already, you would gain either confidence with adjusting, or keeping the sexual contact going for when needed. That fella with the advice above seems to have valid ideas. I am honest, personally if I were seeking to swing with guys... I would not be interested. I only say this as you asked for honesty. If god forbid an accident happened at anytime to a partner, it is a very different matter however. Best of luck xx "
thank you
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