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By *issysbee69 OP Woman over a year ago

Brandenburg

Has your S.0./ hubby ever trying to get you to get with a friend or someone who is an family friend and you are not going to because of the way that you are asked or him obsessing over it

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By *ovelaughliveCouple over a year ago

Oldham

Nope not at all, what we do when "swinging" is not how I would expect him to behave with our friends/family!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is he pressuring you to do it? That’s not ok.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

We talked about it.

But ulimately the general friendships of those we have known for years are more important.

When we get back to socialising in the sexual circles again. They friendships grounded on sexual experience. Those friendships are open to negotiation.

And that is the line we do not cross...

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By *issysbee69 OP Woman over a year ago

Brandenburg

"Nope not at all, what we do when "swinging" is not how I would expect him to behave with our friends/family!!! "

exactly how I feel about it and it is not going to happen because of the age of the guy and because I have told him that I was not going to ever and drop it and he Keep it going on and on about it and I am not going to do anything that makes him feel like he he has won

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By *ovelaughliveCouple over a year ago

Oldham

All I can say is wether swinging or not hubby would never pressure me into anything I didn't want to do its all about boundaries and not over stepping them regardless of how exciting it may be x

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By *issysbee69 OP Woman over a year ago

Brandenburg

"All I can say is wether swinging or not hubby would never pressure me into anything I didn't want to do its all about boundaries and not over stepping them regardless of how exciting it may be x"

yeah hes a little bit more of an Asshole

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who you sleep with should be about who YOU want to sleep with, not about his little fantasy for your body. That would end the relationship for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On the ‘friend’ part, I think it works great to go from lovers to friends, but going from friends to lovers is riskier and awkward if it goes sour.

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By *ikesEmBigMan over a year ago

Herts

I miss punctuation

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

Sounds to me that he has the hots for this person and wants to get you onboard. Very dangerous territory.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope and he'd soon get short sharp shrift if he did.

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By *aughtycp1Couple over a year ago

Leicestershire

We would never push each other into anything the other one felt uncomfortable with

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