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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies,
Anyone fancy helping me improve my profile?
Dont seem to be getting many ladies message me but lots and lots of bi guys lol"
Your "scene" is very off putting tbh  |
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"Ladies,
Anyone fancy helping me improve my profile?
Dont seem to be getting many ladies message me but lots and lots of bi guys lol"
You can't accommodate have 2 pics in the bathroom your bio is a fantasy screams lots of red flags... try doing a forum search on profile advice there is lots out there yours at the moment I'm sure will get lots of blocks by wemon x sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies,
Anyone fancy helping me improve my profile?
Dont seem to be getting many ladies message me but lots and lots of bi guys lol
Your "scene" is very off putting tbh "
It's just a bit grim, as soon as I saw what it was, I couldn't bring myself to read it... And will this apply to everyone? Not all women want the same things... I will be keeping any comments on the thread OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Start by putting quotation marks around the paragraph you've cut and pasted from Fifty Shades of Grey. Then delete it - it's shite! 
Then write something about yourself and come back for more advice.
You're welcome.  |
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Been on for over a year but remember COVID??? Thats why not verified yet
I tried to do something different with it rather than same as the rest.....thought it was worth a try but seems i judged the audience....okay, if you guyswant to send me any messages with tips how to write a better profile then dont be shy, people are quick to critise which is human nature but id rather your help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been on for over a year but remember COVID??? Thats why not verified yet
I tried to do something different with it rather than same as the rest.....thought it was worth a try but seems i judged the audience....okay, if you guyswant to send me any messages with tips how to write a better profile then dont be shy, people are quick to critise which is human nature but id rather your help "
There are a bazillion (not Brazilian) threads with all the info you could ever need, if you search the forums me lovely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been on for over a year but remember COVID??? Thats why not verified yet
I tried to do something different with it rather than same as the rest.....thought it was worth a try but seems i judged the audience....okay, if you guyswant to send me any messages with tips how to write a better profile then dont be shy, people are quick to critise which is human nature but id rather your help
There are a bazillion (not Brazilian) threads with all the info you could ever need, if you search the forums me lovely! "
Jesus, I am in a better mood than I was earlier  |
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"Ladies,
Anyone fancy helping me improve my profile?
Dont seem to be getting many ladies message me but lots and lots of bi guys lol
Your "scene" is very off putting tbh
It's just a bit grim, as soon as I saw what it was, I couldn't bring myself to read it... And will this apply to everyone? Not all women want the same things... I will be keeping any comments on the thread OP"
Same here, the 'scene' and the 'I am He' introduction made me cringe and not want to read more  . I'd ditch it and go with advice on previous threads. |
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"Been on for over a year but remember COVID??? Thats why not verified yet
I tried to do something different with it rather than same as the rest.....thought it was worth a try but seems i judged the audience....okay, if you guyswant to send me any messages with tips how to write a better profile then dont be shy, people are quick to critise which is human nature but id rather your help "
You can get verified via a social, doesn't have to be a meet |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Ladies,
Anyone fancy helping me improve my profile?
Dont seem to be getting many ladies message me but lots and lots of bi guys lol"
Seems like you already are standing out given you receive lots of messages from bi guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies,
Anyone fancy helping me improve my profile?
Dont seem to be getting many ladies message me but lots and lots of bi guys lol"
Ditch your profile picture it’s offensive to most people’s eyes ! Not been rude trust me
but gives off a bad impression
I’m not going in to cretic your profile cause with my advice even the blokes will probably stop txt you ! Anyway loose the profile pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going back to your original question OP, I would ask if you're actively messaging people or if your expectations of the site are that you just knock up a quick prifile and wait for the offers to come flooding in.
You need to be pro-active.
Oh, and if you're bothered about men messaging you, you can always apply the sites messaging filters.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No offense OP...but maybe you should remove the well endowed bit "
Indeed. I'd say that whomever it was who told you that you're well endowed was being generous.
Perhaps, in their eyes you are, byt there are a fair few on fab with consideranly bigger.
Most here might consider you to be average size at best |
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For me, it's the photo angles are off putting, you say you're well hung, need to see that in your photos. I revised your interests and stick to what sexual interests you're into or delete that sentence |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No offense OP...but maybe you should remove the well endowed bit
Indeed. I'd say that whomever it was who told you that you're well endowed was being generous.
Perhaps, in their eyes you are, byt there are a fair few on fab with consideranly bigger.
Most here might consider you to be average size at best"
I ain’t looking and I don’t care but your message definitely made me laugh !
I’ll take your word for it tho !
I might put dashingly handsome on my bio since everyone seems to be just making up shit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No offense OP...but maybe you should remove the well endowed bit
Indeed. I'd say that whomever it was who told you that you're well endowed was being generous.
Perhaps, in their eyes you are, byt there are a fair few on fab with consideranly bigger.
Most here might consider you to be average size at best
I ain’t looking and I don’t care but your message definitely made me laugh !
I’ll take your word for it tho !
I might put dashingly handsome on my bio since everyone seems to be just making up shit "
You are handsome lol...not just handsome...very good looking :
 Welcome back btw X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No offense OP...but maybe you should remove the well endowed bit
Indeed. I'd say that whomever it was who told you that you're well endowed was being generous.
Perhaps, in their eyes you are, byt there are a fair few on fab with consideranly bigger.
Most here might consider you to be average size at best
I ain’t looking and I don’t care but your message definitely made me laugh !
I’ll take your word for it tho !
I might put dashingly handsome on my bio since everyone seems to be just making up shit
You are handsome lol...not just handsome...very good looking :
Welcome back btw X"
Good to be back !
See now you got me on the back foot ! much appreciate the compliment !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did it work? "
Na mate now they think I’m to cocky !
I went over board I used the words stunningly beautiful on my bio !
I’ve shortened it to just stunning ? sounds less pompus right ?
I’ll keep you posted on the amount of abusive messages I get
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Don't mean to interrupt but Can i just say its ultra difficult to know what people will like or dislike on here. I get abuse for being to soppy then abuse for rubbish photo's?? Then i get a message saying love the bio?? I wrote my profile with the thought of just be me and the right people will contact you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't mean to interrupt but Can i just say its ultra difficult to know what people will like or dislike on here. I get abuse for being to soppy then abuse for rubbish photo's?? Then i get a message saying love the bio?? I wrote my profile with the thought of just be me and the right people will contact you. "
Stick to that mate ! Just be you !
Your never gonna please everyone and once your good with that I’m sure ye’ll enjoy this place more |
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"Ladies,
Anyone fancy helping me improve my profile?
Dont seem to be getting many ladies message me but lots and lots of bi guys lol"
Be yourself. Only you can make yourself stand out. Otherwise you're simply telling people what you think they want to hear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could anyone help me out with how to search the forums for profile tips? Is there an option to search somewhere? I feel I could use some updates to my profile
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Na no option but every 10-15 mins a thread pops up asking the same question jump on that should help you out |
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