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We are new and this is our first post so please be kind 
We would like to meet a couple but most of them seem to want a female to explore female half's bi side. Now T (female) is straight and isn't interested in women at all, we seem to be struggling to find any couples who are interested in straight swaps...thought we would come to the forums for some advise |
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"We are new and this is our first post so please be kind
We would like to meet a couple but most of them seem to want a female to explore female half's bi side. Now T (female) is straight and isn't interested in women at all, we seem to be struggling to find any couples who are interested in straight swaps...thought we would come to the forums for some advise "
Straight fem couples do exist, you just have to look.
With all the bi fem profiles you'll find for some couples it's an absolute must and for others, they'll respect your boundaries. you'll just have to read the profile and / or talk to them "if" you want to meet them.
My other half is bi not curious so no exploring needed in her case but the lady being bi on a meet isn't an absolute must so shes happy to play straight if she fancies the husband...but bi fem couples are her preference.
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Welcome to the forum.
The only advice I can give is just contact couples who are both straight or couples where the woman is happy to play straight. There are a lot of couples here where the woman is bisexual we have the same problem you do |
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Well I've had a look near you and could find 2 or 3 in the first search page.
So they are out there, I agree the search could be improved to allow more specific searches. But even in its current format you can still find plenty to choose from. |
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One trick that can be quite useful is to look at people's verifications. If you find somebody who looks right, check out the people who have verified them because there's a good chance they are on the same wavelength. Then look at their verifications and so on. It's a different way of finding people from using the search function. |
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"We are new and this is our first post so please be kind
We would like to meet a couple but most of them seem to want a female to explore female half's bi side. Now T (female) is straight and isn't interested in women at all, we seem to be struggling to find any couples who are interested in straight swaps...thought we would come to the forums for some advise
Straight fem couples do exist, you just have to look.
With all the bi fem profiles you'll find for some couples it's an absolute must and for others, they'll respect your boundaries. you'll just have to read the profile and / or talk to them "if" you want to meet them.
My other half is bi not curious so no exploring needed in her case but the lady being bi on a meet isn't an absolute must so shes happy to play straight if she fancies the husband...but bi fem couples are her preference.
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Agree with this as this is us too. There are bi fem couples out there who are happy for a straight meet, as a matter of fact we have found it more difficult to find bi fem couples lol
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While I am bi on our profile I am more than happy to play straight (and actually at times prefer it). I would say if the female is bi check that that is specifically what they want. Finding a couple we click with is more important than bi play to us |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Being bisexual means I enjoy sex with men and women, but I certainly wouldn't enjoy, or even attempt, sex with another woman who wasn't bi or bi curious. Many other bi women feel the same, so simply explain your boundaries before meeting and enjoy yourself. |
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Have to agree, think you will find most people will respect boundaries and if it isn't something your into or want to do, then that should be OK with any respectful couple.
Just make it clear whe you talk to them, get it out and up front, that way there's no crossed wires etc |
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I can only echo what has already been said.
I am bi, but am more than happy to play straight and we're happy with soft play too.
As long as everyone agrees on boundaries there should be no problems.
I would add that it's very important that you don't feel pressured into doing anything you're not comfortable with. Say no and leave if necessary.
Nita |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Just be prepared that on the scene women (especially those in couples) are often assumed bi. "
This does seem to be the case
I'm straight and we have had messages from couples, assuming I'm bi, even when we point out I'm straight.
There are bi fem couples who will play straight, but they do appear to be few, then factor in 4 way attraction and availability and its even harder.
This is why me and my partner have our own single profiles. If we wanted to meet pre covid, we used clubs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are occasions when we’ve found those who say they’re happy to play straight still try to play with Fluff …we appreciate they’re probably not , but it’s certainly made her much more wary (sadly)… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just be prepared that on the scene women (especially those in couples) are often assumed bi. "
I second this comment. I am straight (tried before not my thing) i love cock a hell of a lot. Yet its assumed im bi and will play with women.
like others have said. they are on here and some bi women in couples will play straight. Its just taking you time
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Nothing is and should be set in stone. Relax, enjoy the dynamics of it, and don’t fuss over the minutia. Like folk have said, the majority of profiles have the Fem as Bi doesn’t mean they can’t play straight. I’ve not had any bi fun for a while tbh, it’s been mostly swapping. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As above, in my experience bi guys will play straight if they know the male half of a couple is straight.
Bi women often don’t. It put my ex off swinging completely eventually. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
We’re also a straight couple who like full swap. We find it very difficult to meet couples. It seems quite a few couples want the women to play together first then have sex with their own partner only. Obviously it’s their choice but there is limited choice for a full swap straight couple. |
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"As above, in my experience bi guys will play straight if they know the male half of a couple is straight.
Bi women often don’t. It put my ex off swinging completely eventually. "
Yeah. It's treated as a bit of a joke. We won't meet couples if the woman is bi, I've had one too many bad experiences. |
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"There are occasions when we’ve found those who say they’re happy to play straight still try to play with Fluff …we appreciate they’re probably not , but it’s certainly made her much more wary (sadly)…"
We’ve had much the same so don’t bother with couples on here  |
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We have made it clear to couples that message us, T is completely straight and not heard any more from them! Which we aren't taking as a bad thing because they obviously aren't for us.
In a way we are glad it's not just us that seem to be struggling with this, maybe we will try the clubs once they are open again and take it from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As above, in my experience bi guys will play straight if they know the male half of a couple is straight.
Bi women often don’t. It put my ex off swinging completely eventually.
Yeah. It's treated as a bit of a joke. We won't meet couples if the woman is bi, I've had one too many bad experiences."
Imagine if bi guys behaved like that. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"As above, in my experience bi guys will play straight if they know the male half of a couple is straight.
Bi women often don’t. It put my ex off swinging completely eventually.
Yeah. It's treated as a bit of a joke. We won't meet couples if the woman is bi, I've had one too many bad experiences.
Imagine if bi guys behaved like that. "
Mouthful of tea I won’t get back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As above, in my experience bi guys will play straight if they know the male half of a couple is straight.
Bi women often don’t. It put my ex off swinging completely eventually.
Yeah. It's treated as a bit of a joke. We won't meet couples if the woman is bi, I've had one too many bad experiences.
Imagine if bi guys behaved like that.
Mouthful of tea I won’t get back."
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"As above, in my experience bi guys will play straight if they know the male half of a couple is straight.
Bi women often don’t. It put my ex off swinging completely eventually.
Yeah. It's treated as a bit of a joke. We won't meet couples if the woman is bi, I've had one too many bad experiences.
Imagine if bi guys behaved like that. "
Indeed. |
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"As above, in my experience bi guys will play straight if they know the male half of a couple is straight.
Bi women often don’t. It put my ex off swinging completely eventually.
Yeah. It's treated as a bit of a joke. We won't meet couples if the woman is bi, I've had one too many bad experiences.
Imagine if bi guys behaved like that. "
We have played in threesomes with Bi guys and they have never even tried to touch or play with John.
It is the ladies that always try it on with Jill and that just ends the play |
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