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Tough for a single guy
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" is there that many fakes on here that are really spoiling it for everyone?" No, there are just that many single men spoiling it for everyone... | |||
" is there that many fakes on here that are really spoiling it for everyone? No, there are just that many single men spoiling it for everyone..." in what way are the single men spoiling it? | |||
"There's probably a 15:1 ratio of men to women, not even counting couples. That's a statistic that I read about on a similar website so could be around the same on here. When you add in the nutters, timewasters and people that can't form a sentence into the mix I'm not surprised that women on here get fed up =P" total point made! lol | |||
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" is there that many fakes on here that are really spoiling it for everyone? No, there are just that many single men spoiling it for everyone... in what way are the single men spoiling it?" By sending messages to couples and single fems then getting stroppy when you reject them. By Expecting that because they send a message to a couple or female they are automatically going to want to shag themno matter how much effort they put in. Or as we had today and on many other occasions, insulting the male half of the couples in the hopes that trying an "alpha male" approach might make me drop my panties in a blind fit of passion.... 
Thats how single guys are ruining it for other single guys... | |||
" is there that many fakes on here that are really spoiling it for everyone? No, there are just that many single men spoiling it for everyone... in what way are the single men spoiling it? Not everyone like that tho it's sad n stupid that that's happened Like I say the divvys ruining it for the genuine ones By sending messages to couples and single fems then getting stroppy when you reject them. By Expecting that because they send a message to a couple or female they are automatically going to want to shag themno matter how much effort they put in. Or as we had today and on many other occasions, insulting the male half of the couples in the hopes that trying an "alpha male" approach might make me drop my panties in a blind fit of passion....
Thats how single guys are ruining it for other single guys... " | |||
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"I don't get the argument that others behaviour ruins it for others. The expression, in the kingdom of the blind the one eyed man is king springs to mind. There is so much dross on this site that it doesn't take that much too stand out. The "divvys"make it easier for the guys that do make an effort." 
There are some idiots on here, and it aint just single men. If I let the odd cruddy message or crap meet spoil the site for me I'd never meet again. | |||
"should it be really hard for a single guy to get any luck on here? is there that many fakes on here that are really spoiling it for everyone?" no... you make your own luck... you get out of it what you put in, and you manage to seperate yourself from others.... people do manage to do that.... the website gives you all the tools to do that, you use all or as little of those as you wish.... | |||
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"Just be patient. Usually it's the ones who message you that you end up meeting." ...and the ones who make it least complicated with the least song and dance about it too...  
Wolf
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 surely having the chance to play is more important? And the Olympics was more important than a meet too | |||
"should it be really hard for a single guy to get any luck on here? " Yes it should. Not just for simgle guys but for everyone. There's no entitlement to get fucked purely through your or anyone elses presence here. Just because we swing doesn't mean that our standards are any less than they would be in the non swinging world. | |||
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so stick with it you will get lucky sooner or latter.
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"Too many men, not enough women, I'm grateful if I get a "thanks but nothanks" as even they are hard to come by. The best way to describe and please folks don't take it the wrong way, its like fishing, unless u have the knack, u aint got a cat in hells chance. " well u cant accomodate - that wipes out at least 50%+ of possible meets no public photos bar a tiny avatar - just means your message wont get read after they look at your profile in alot of cases, having your message read is half of the battle, you could have the wittiest or most appealing message and pics you sent them over a message but if ur profile holds you back then they probally never see what you sent them! alot of people dont read messages first, they read profiles, after all looking at the profile lets them know if they are interested in what the message says, too many guys miss this fact and face a uphill battle like if you get junk mail sent in, usually has company logos on the envelopes, well if you were after getting sky for example and wondered what deals they had you would get your letter from sky and open it and see what they are offering as its what your looking for, as for the envelope from the double glazing company, well you seen from the companys profile on the enevelope that its not any interest for you, at best you open and throw out, quite often you will just throw it out. the same happens with every guys messages on here! if they get alot of messages then only the profiles that appeal to them have their messages read! just the way peoples minds work with supply and demand also weighting it in the females favour and if you called the double glazing companies sales line to say, you sent me a letter about double glazing im not bothered, thanks but no thanks, would you expect them to say ok no bother, or would you expect them to ask why and try to tell you about their special offers they have on? now we aint talking about household services but the same logic is applied to unsolicted messages for sex as any other situation when people are asking for something from you all the time! | |||
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"should it be really hard for a single guy to get any luck on here? Yes it should. Not just for simgle guys but for everyone. There's no entitlement to get fucked purely through your or anyone elses presence here. Just because we swing doesn't mean that our standards are any less than they would be in the non swinging world." I didn't mean it like hard to get a f**k, my apologies for making that sound S***y, I just meant in general talking as well as meeting people, or even getting replies, when I message someone it isn't just so I can get a F***, it because I like the person as a whole from going by their profile, even if someone is beautiful and they want to f*** if there's no chemistry then I'm not interested | |||
" No, there are just that many single men spoiling it for everyone..." Couldn't agree more
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