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Have any couples been to a male pro-dom?
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I’d love to see my fwb dominated by another man, and she’s really into the idea. But Fab isn’t always the most reliable place to find play partners, and I really want her first experience to go well. And I definitely want to watch.
Has anyone had any good (or bad) experiences with professional male doms - either at dungeons, or privately? Or, for that matter, with finding amateur doms, through this or other sites?
If as a couple, did you find someone who was happy for the other half to watch?
Thanks in advance.
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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It depends on what you mean by "dominated". If you are looking for a glorified bull, I have no suggestions. But if you are looking for someone that has the aptitude and the technical skills, and experience, it may be worth when things open, checking out fetish clubs that have either a dungeon master or if inclined dungeon miatress.
If you are looking for privacy there are/were a number of people on Fab that have acted as dungeon masters or mistresses and should be able to give references. |
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Thanks, Zensual. She would definitely like to sub to a dom, but I haven’t found a pro-dom that she likes the look of, yet. I do think that going to a club might be the best solution, in the end, but she’s not so sure and I’m going to keep looking. All the escorts that pass the looks test are too vanilla! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks, Zensual. She would definitely like to sub to a dom, but I haven’t found a pro-dom that she likes the look of, yet. I do think that going to a club might be the best solution, in the end, but she’s not so sure and I’m going to keep looking. All the escorts that pass the looks test are too vanilla!"
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"How far would you travel? I know of one, he’s really safe and trustworthy, but he’s in twickenham "
Thanks, FallenAngel. Tbh if he came recommended we’d probably just book a London trip (in a few months) and make a city break of it. So yes, Twickenham would be fine. Could you send me contact/site details where I can find him? |
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What is her wish list in terms of what she is hoping for? "
That’s where it gets interesting. She loves impact play, and plenty of sensation stuff, but she’s also got some great kinks.
I’ll ask her. It’s definitely good to communicate, and - tbh - it’s sexy as hell to talk about things like this, isn’t it?
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I’d agree with the suggestions about the fetish scene. I used to go quite regularly and you’ll meet quite a few Dominant guys who are experienced in what you’re looking for.
This site will have a few but too many guys who ‘think’ they know the scene and what to do.
Good luck with your search  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you are looking for a professional dom, will you pay him ?"
Glad you asked that are we talking about the OP a guy paying for a dominant male prostitute / escort? To service his female friend.
Apologies if I have mis-understood.
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Good questions.
I guess what we both want is for her to be sexually dominated, ideally with some impact play and other experiences to spice the session.
We love taking a few hours over a session like this, ourselves. But I have the extra kink that I’d also love to see her sexually dominated by someone else, ideally someone fairly expert and trustworthy. And she’s definitely keen on the idea.
We may yet decide to try a fetish club first, I’m interested in exploring a variety of different ways of achieving the fantasy. |
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You'll probably improve things by experiencing it several times, so that you get better at picking and directing him. Obviously your tastes may change a little too, as you gain experience of the fun. I'd have no hesitation employing a professional, if I needed to get the right experience |
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